discussion Would U Date Someone Thats HIV Positive?

[Johnny Jacobs]

47 minutes ago, Villanelle said:

I only draw the line at Dua Lipa stans

 

OT: no. I'm sorry but no. 

[PMKARDASHIAN]

5 minutes ago, gatito said:

they're just regular people with a treatable condition 

 

would they date you?

Interested in knowing these answers but I kinda already have an idea 

[Bang Up]

it's 2022 and some of you are still saying now. the ignorance and bigotry.

you can have hiv and live a perfectly normal life AND live without spreading it to others.  

[Domination]

Yes, I dated someone who was poz for 3 years and it really wasn’t even something I ever thought about.

[Symmetra]

[J Legend X]

47 minutes ago, RideOrDie said:

some of y'all probably getting raw'd in some "straight dl" guy basement who washes his dick once a week and hasn't been tested in his life and u only get tested when ur bussyhole itches and u fear u got the clap and u say u wouldnt date a hiv+ guy who takes care of his health, takes his meds and gets tested regularly

 

to answer the question yes i would, i take prep daily and i have no problem having sex or dating a hiv+ guy who takes his meds 

 

Perfectly said... also it's even funnier when they are on prep but they are ok with barebacking as long as they don't know if the person is poz or not... people have to stop the hypocrisy ! 

[BILLIONAIRE✘BOY]

no

[yonsé]

im on PrEP, so sure why not.

[Raver]

No ty 

[yonsé]

28 minutes ago, xclusivestylesz said:

Is hiv hard to catch or is it something you'll likely contract if a condom breaks?

if the person is undetectable, it's not easy to catch, no.

 

if the person is undetectable and you are on prep, the risk is basically zero. (scientists are not allowed to say 100% but its 99.9% effective). 

Edited May 11, 2022 by yonsé

[Materialboy215]

1 hour ago, DoubleRainbow! said:

Date? Yeah

Sex, not really 

Well what if dating leads to something more serious and U want to have sex?

[Hephaestus]

30 minutes ago, fountain said:

If they were honest about it before anything happened and are on a treatment plan, then it would just be discriminatory not to. 

This 

[State of Grace.]

I ******* hate our community sooo much

[State of Grace.]

1 hour ago, RideOrDie said:

some of y'all probably getting raw'd in some "straight dl" guy basement who washes his dick once a week and hasn't been tested in his life and u only get tested when ur bussyhole itches and u fear u got the clap and u say u wouldnt date a hiv+ guy who takes care of his health, takes his meds and gets tested regularly

 

to answer the question yes i would, i take prep daily and i have no problem having sex or dating a hiv+ guy who takes his meds 

 

[LustSpell]

Ofc I would... especially if they're undetectable and taking their meds

[Ger.vaz]

Of course.

 

And someone who wouldn't just because of it, is ignorant. 

[lostcause]

Probably not, because I’m a hypochondriac and that anxiety brought into the dynamic would be unfair to the person and myself. It’s ok not to date someone if you understand you’re own trauma/hang ups/ flaws will not work together with what they bring to the table.

They deserve someone who doesn’t struggle with irrational health fears in general.

Edited May 11, 2022 by lostcause

[Outlaws]

I mean, of course, especially if they are undetectable.

[Steve Jobs]

Already have 

[5hfangurl]

1 hour ago, Illuminati said:

Obviously But I draw the line at Camila stans

 

[Delirious]

Yes 100%. However, they must disclose of it first before we do the bang bang.

[HausOfPunk]

If I really liked them, of course.

[Mtjjproducer]

1 hour ago, 305 said:

Yes I currently am and he's the love of my life. I was ignorant and uneducated like many people in this thread and didn't know what undetectable meant and that HIV pos people can live a relatively normal life

I really don’t understand what undetectable means. I think if means they are less likely to transmit it. I’ve tried looking it up before but didn’t really understand it. What did u look up to make you feel comfortable 

[JBJT2786]

1 hour ago, RideOrDie said:

some of y'all probably getting raw'd in some "straight dl" guy basement who washes his dick once a week and hasn't been tested in his life and u only get tested when ur bussyhole itches and u fear u got the clap and u say u wouldnt date a hiv+ guy who takes care of his health, takes his meds and gets tested regularly

 

to answer the question yes i would, i take prep daily and i have no problem having sex or dating a hiv+ guy who takes his meds 

 

Drag 'em

 

OT: yes its 2022. As long as they're undetectable and we both take the proper protection. I don't see why I shouldnt.

[Illuminati]

53 minutes ago, gatito said:

would they date you?

 

I always think it whenever gays here start discussing trans related topics but it perfectly applies in most cases of "would you?" honestly

They wouldn't want to date a judgemental closed minded person anyway