Selegend Posted October 21 Posted October 21 that's just an insane combination of drugs. may he RIP, so so sad and yep, this made it even sadder.
Yes, AND Posted October 21 Posted October 21 It is almost as if he stayed clean to get the all clear for the medical test and his VISA and as soon as he had that sorted he just went crazy and wanted to take everything.. He had said that he was very good at hiding his true feelings or desires so maybe his girlfriend genuinely was not fully aware of the depth of his problem with drugs so im not blaming her.. i just find it completely ****** up that he was basically alone in Argentina doing drugs and wandering around on the streets with fans and randos in the lobby.
Heldenzeit Posted October 21 Posted October 21 2 hours ago, stars said: This is devastating. He deserved so much more out of this life!
Daddy Posted October 21 Posted October 21 2 hours ago, stars said: Checks out, those hotel pics were giving crack. Shocked at the absence of H tbh. Poor guy was so far gone in the substance abuse, I feel for him. 1
80x100 Posted October 21 Posted October 21 On 10/17/2024 at 12:26 AM, 80x100 said: It's time for One Direction's comeback, then. nothing went right in my life after posting this omg 9 1
KatyPrismSpirit Posted October 21 Posted October 21 i feel so sad and disturbed. someone showed me the picture of him right after he hit the ground and i can't get that picture out of my mind.
Princess Aurora Posted October 21 Posted October 21 (edited) 3 hours ago, stars said: Wow. That is so sad, he let himself go. I'm starting to think that he felt hurt because they made him believe he was the lead singer. His solo career didn't take off after the band disbanded (which is why he sounded very arrogant in that podcast/interview) and being the butt of jokes for the fans along with other personal stuff we'll never know. He should have believed in himself and remembered that he was also a father especially. He could also improve his style and music just like any other pop star does. He's now gone but there's a lesson behind this: everything is not what it seems. If you happen to know someone close who is struggling, please keep them close and support them If they ask for your help hint: Personal experience I had with someone a long time ago. Edited October 21 by Princess Aurora 2
Bubble Tea Posted October 21 Posted October 21 37 minutes ago, Princess Aurora said: Wow. That is so sad, he let himself go. I'm starting to think that he felt hurt because they made him believe he was the lead singer. His solo career didn't take off after the band disbanded (which is why he sounded very arrogant in that podcast/interview) and being the butt of jokes for the fans along with other personal stuff we'll never know. He should have believed in himself and remembered that he was also a father especially. He could also improve his style and music just like any other pop star does. He's now gone but there's a lesson behind this: everything is not what it seems. If you happen to know someone close who is struggling, please keep them close and support them If they ask for your help hint: Personal experience I had with someone a long time ago. I think there's also something in here that we should all be aware of - I think we all expect to just become more and more successful on the upward as our lives progress when, actually we might peak and then decline, and we shouldn't beat ourselves up over it. 12
Princess Aurora Posted October 21 Posted October 21 (edited) 7 minutes ago, Tropical said: I think there's also something in here that we should all be aware of - I think we all expect to just become more and more successful on the upward as our lives progress when, actually we might peak and then decline, and we shouldn't beat ourselves up over it. This. That's the beauty of life sometimes you can have multiple peaks. Nothing lasts forever and I guess this is what happened to him. However, I think he could have reinvented himself easily since he was in his early 30s and right now there's currently a lack of male pop stars. It is what it is and I agree with you Edited October 21 by Princess Aurora 4
Forestboy Posted October 21 Posted October 21 1 hour ago, KatyPrismSpirit said: i feel so sad and disturbed. someone showed me the picture of him right after he hit the ground and i can't get that picture out of my mind. There's actually leaked pictures of that out there? I presume it's just a lot of blood and nothing too bad, right…? 1
Charmed Life Posted October 21 Posted October 21 (edited) 41 minutes ago, Forestboy said: There's actually leaked pictures of that out there? I presume it's just a lot of blood and nothing too bad, right…? I saw them a few hours ago just by looking through Twitter, and I can't stop thinkiing about that one pic of him with his eyes open and his cap lying a few inches away. Whoever took those pictures should be ashamed of themselves. The poor lad had just died, why couldn't they show some respect. Edited October 21 by Charmed Life
Drowned8World Posted October 21 Posted October 21 36 minutes ago, Charmed Life said: I saw them a few hours ago just by looking through Twitter, and I can't stop thinkiing about that one pic of him with his eyes open and his cap lying a few inches away. Whoever took those pictures should be ashamed of themselves. The poor lad had just died, why couldn't they show some respect. aren't those pics taken for investigation? i haven't seen them but my guess is those are the photos that leaked
Forestboy Posted October 21 Posted October 21 4 minutes ago, Drowned8World said: aren't those pics taken for investigation? i haven't seen them but my guess is those are the photos that leaked I *think* it was one of the hotel staff, presumably the same one/s that sold stuff to TMZ.
TinashesLighter Posted October 22 Posted October 22 i came across the pictures and it just makes me sad to think he died alone. I at least wish someone could have come forward saying they held his hand or something through his very last moments or that he was already gone once he landed. I think whatever email he saw in the lobby set him off and probably felt like yet another setback/disappointment and he just went ham with the drugs. 1
Popboi. Posted October 22 Posted October 22 3 hours ago, Drowned8World said: aren't those pics taken for investigation? i haven't seen them but my guess is those are the photos that leaked These ones were shopped around for the press, like the ones that TMZ got. Forensic/investigation photographs are not from that kind of angle. So so so sad those pics are out there in the internet, like Cheryl said there's nothing people can do to protect Bear from staying safe of the pics later in life... Disturbing.
BrokenMachine Posted October 22 Posted October 22 On 10/20/2024 at 3:27 AM, Gelato said: I can see why people thought it would've been intentional though. He was dropped by his label, then his PR, and accused of abuse all within a few days. It must have added fuel to the fire of making him want to get so high to the point where he became a danger to himself. And yeah, it wasn't an s-word, but he was going through hard stuff
Burn Posted October 22 Posted October 22 I think the best we can hope for is that he was hopefully so out of it that he didn't even know what was happening when he fell. 1
Yes, AND Posted October 22 Posted October 22 25 minutes ago, Burn said: I think the best we can hope for is that he was hopefully so out of it that he didn't even know what was happening when he fell. Well a guest in the next room reported hearing a loud violent scream just before he fell .. but the forensic report stated that he would have died on impact so at least death was instant. However with the amount of drugs in his system at the time he definitely would have been out of it too. Not saying i ever want to see this but im sure in a hotel like that there are security cameras everywhere inside and out.. and possibly there is recorded footage of the last time he entered the room and maybe even falling. from the external cameras.
Yes, AND Posted October 22 Posted October 22 19 hours ago, Popboi. said: These ones were shopped around for the press, like the ones that TMZ got. Forensic/investigation photographs are not from that kind of angle. So so so sad those pics are out there in the internet, like Cheryl said there's nothing people can do to protect Bear from staying safe of the pics later in life... Disturbing. It is so gross that someone went out to that patio, stood like a foot away and took photos. I feel sick since seeing them. 1
Venice B Posted October 22 Posted October 22 On 10/21/2024 at 2:54 PM, stars said: This is terrible. Can't even imagine what someone must be going through to turn to crack for a escape.
unclefloprry Posted October 23 Posted October 23 It's been a week and I still have this weird feeling like a mix of sadness, disbelief, and frustration. My social media is 80% 1D right now and watching the videos from fans all over the world paying tribute, sharing their stories and feelings about this and things that remind me of my childhood and teenage years... I still can't believe it.. 2
ChooseyLover Posted October 23 Posted October 23 The way this minute of an unreleased song already sounds like his best song... 3
GraceRandolph Posted October 23 Posted October 23 On 10/17/2024 at 8:07 AM, Cain said: This is an insane take to me because then we can trace anything back to it being a choice? People that self-harm choose to hurt themselves, people with anorexia choose to not eat, people that commit suicide choose to end their lives That's really not how depression, mental illness and struggling works. Again, you lack a severe amount of empathy if you think addiction is a choice and someone can just… choose to not have it I understand where you're coming from, but it's offensive to compare depression and eating disorders to substance abuse, they are different experiences. We can have empathy for addicts without saying that it's the same as dealing with depression or eating disorders which don't include outside elements and are self contained.
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