Magdalene Posted July 22 Posted July 22 stop grabbing crotches and acting like you're being cheeky in public settings, it's so invasive and i just always get the ick no matter how attractive 2 2
hugoflegend Posted July 22 Posted July 22 Appealing to the "normal" straight standards of the culture, and chastising people who are more "stereotypically" queer, will not save you from discrimination. It's just brown-nosing behavior. 5 2
Hex Posted July 22 Posted July 22 You do not look good with that way too short high skin fade. You look like a pin head and it is hideous. 2 1
Hex Posted July 22 Posted July 22 23 hours ago, HRHCOLLECTION said: there's no such thing as a versatile guy ok? Versatile guys are either bottoms too ashamed to own up to their position or bottoms who are willing to top. Most "vers" guys have bottomed more than topped in their life Vers here who prefers topping (and does it 60-70% of the time) and dates a partner who prefers to bottom. These terms refer to how often somebody takes the position, not how much they like it. Of course most people will have a preference towards one, whether it's a strong preference or slight one. Vers implies that you actively do both. 2
Alongoria13 Posted July 22 Posted July 22 (edited) Put deodorant on and leave the musty smell fetish in the bedroom! Edited July 22 by Alongoria13 3 2
Jai Posted July 22 Posted July 22 Dating someone who looks like they could be related to you is categorically odd. 5
LegaMyth Posted July 22 Posted July 22 (edited) Many gays only befriend or hang out with others they see as f***able. Many do not understand how their preferences make them treat others are not "attractive" in their eyes. Edited July 22 by LegaMyth 4
Pandora30012 Posted July 22 Posted July 22 Everyone is not obligated to be attracted to you just because you choose to wear make up 5
Punky Rooster Posted July 22 Posted July 22 (edited) On 7/18/2024 at 8:59 PM, Daddy said: Nobody's fisting each other at Pride. Y'all sound deranged. When's the next pride? We can change that. Edited July 22 by Punky Rooster 1
ICLDXU4HS Posted July 23 Posted July 23 On 7/20/2024 at 4:35 AM, LegaMyth said: Some gay men need to stop looking for people to take care of them and get a f*****g job.
dumbsparce Posted July 25 Posted July 25 (edited) On 7/22/2024 at 5:41 PM, Hex said: Vers here who prefers topping (and does it 60-70% of the time) and dates a partner who prefers to bottom. These terms refer to how often somebody takes the position, not how much they like it. Of course most people will have a preference towards one, whether it's a strong preference or slight one. Vers implies that you actively do both. Yes but which one do you enjoy more? Even James Charles can technically be vers but we can all guess which role he prefers. From personal experience, every vers guy I've met has bottomed more often than he has topped. Most of them actually topped only bc their hot hookup who they thought would **** them turned out to be a bottom himself It's not about what you can do, most of us have penises and can use them accordingly, but moreso which role satisfies you the most. Edited July 25 by dumbsparce
Hex Posted July 25 Posted July 25 13 hours ago, dumbsparce said: Yes but which one do you enjoy more? Even James Charles can technically be vers but we can all guess which role he prefers. From personal experience, every vers guy I've met has bottomed more often than he has topped. Most of them actually topped only bc their hot hookup who they thought would **** them turned out to be a bottom himself It's not about what you can do, most of us have penises and can use them accordingly, but moreso which role satisfies you the most. I guess we have different definitions - I've always used it as what role a person generally takes, not what they prefer. I enjoy topping more in general - bottoming is painful for me sometimes but when it's good I enjoy it equally. So by your definition a vers is only someone who likes both evenly? Despite frequency?
dumbsparce Posted July 25 Posted July 25 31 minutes ago, Hex said: I guess we have different definitions - I've always used it as what role a person generally takes, not what they prefer. I enjoy topping more in general - bottoming is painful for me sometimes but when it's good I enjoy it equally. So by your definition a vers is only someone who likes both evenly? Despite frequency? Preference and frequency go hand in hand, no? There's no such a thing as a 50:50 ratio. Ofc there are outliers but most vers guys I know bottom more frequently than they top bc that's their preference.
Bencharmer Posted July 27 Posted July 27 Why do you always look for fun? Can you express your emotions? *Insert pop girl* doesn't pay your rent. Breathe in. Acting like a mean girl cause it's easier than being nice isn't a personnality trait. Shading is not so Julia. Beauty isn't just aesthetics. Travelling won't make you run from your problems. If you are against patriarchy, why do you adopt their codes? Stop using labels. Be an individual.
Mordecai Posted July 28 Posted July 28 Can we also talk about guys online who flex sleeping with married men/guys in relationships as if that's something to be proud of? Maybe it's because I actually have a conscience but if you knowingly sleep with someone who is married/in a relationship that's f*cked up and it tells me a lot about your character 4
BelAir Posted July 28 Posted July 28 On 7/18/2024 at 12:39 PM, ThomasTea said: A lot of gay men are inherently misogynistic but think because they're gay it is excused. Well I did not expect to get called out on the very first page but alas
discosean Posted July 30 Posted July 30 Gays are not entitled to have public sex because of what the community endured and has gone through. Doing sex in clubs on the dancefloor, during Pride parades on the street, getting your hole eaten in the middle of Walmart is not gay rights.
HonourableVomit Posted July 30 Posted July 30 2 hours ago, discosean said: Gays are not entitled to have public sex because of what the community endured and has gone through. Doing sex in clubs on the dancefloor, during Pride parades on the street, getting your hole eaten in the middle of Walmart is not gay rights. have you got a link to the walmart vid? 1
camilacabelloslaps Posted August 2 Posted August 2 On 7/18/2024 at 6:34 AM, PoisonedIvy said: You and your husband don't have to settle for a 10 month boyfriend that won't delete Grindr. I'm dead 💀 this was hilarious
Funnyfatty Posted August 2 Posted August 2 That most of your girlfriends are your girlfriend till they find a man Like i'm 30 years old now and all my friends know i'm gay, but after they get a relationship our relationship turns into a mess. I believe its because of jealousy or because woman can be fake as hell. Secondly gay man being misogynistic doesn't sound so crazy to me. Most of us experienced homophobia from our first love (our mothers) and most girls are looking for a gay best friend only to be "different" The amount of woman who said that to me "i always wanted to have a gay friend" like bich??? I'm not a toy 1
MatiRod Posted August 2 Posted August 2 On 7/27/2024 at 6:52 AM, Bencharmer said: Travelling won't make you run from your problems. The amount of gays I know who this applies to (me included) 1
Funnyfatty Posted August 3 Posted August 3 18 hours ago, MatiRod said: The amount of gays I know who this applies to (me included) Oh i didn't saw that post. I did travel and moved away and MOST of my problems are solved lol
Before Today Posted August 6 Posted August 6 On 7/18/2024 at 6:12 PM, Triton said: Gay bars shouldn't be as open and welcoming to everyone. This is aimed at the straight girls that infiltrate them. I actually enjoy them lol. The straight female allies bring their own spice to the gay bar.
Just a Gay on ATRL Posted August 6 Posted August 6 The gay community is deeply shallow and judgmental and they can call themselves welcoming and inclusive all they want but they are actually just as exclusionary as the people who oppressed them in the past. A lot of gays entire social media persona is solely based on attractiveness, being judgmental, and openly discussing their sex lives and how much they want to **** their followers (who often look just as attractive as them). Some of them don't even hide the fact that they won't bat an eye to people they deem not attractive to them. Until the shallowness of the gay community is properly addressed and gays start making more of an effort to be friends with people besides who they wanna ****, our community has a big internal problem with REAL inclusion, not inclusion for the sake of saying you are so for optics. 1
AvadaKedavra Posted August 6 Posted August 6 That old culture of bitchyness and drama is still very common today and thats a problem is not cool to be a regina george. Only in forums but outside of it. Grow up We all in the community. We all should be highly supportive with each other. We are all by ourselves and we are in danger. We are as a minority. For the community to be respected we need to have power more in our society. Network. Be elite. Have the biggest business. The best looks help each other to be our best versions. But some gays are just straight enemies with each other. Even If u havent meet them yet this takedown culture between gays must end 4
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