discussion Unpopular opinions gay men aren't ready to hear

[Josh]

[kellebrity98]

being in a monogamous relationship can work

[JoeAg]

inb4 some very reasonable critique about the concept of a pump n dump countered by about 30 of y'all downvoting it

[Alaska.]

Not everyone enjoys pride parades where people are naked and fisting each other

[HardBambi]

Of course it can work, gay people are just people

[PoisonedIvy]

You and your husband don't have to settle for a 10 month boyfriend that won't delete Grindr. 

[JoeAg]

^ not me being **** shaming btw, I'm a very sex positive person (with a nice sex life lol). I just do think that pump n dumps can sometimes seem excessive if it's the only thing that can get you off at a certain point. I like variety personally

[dussel_06]

8 minutes ago, kellebrity98 said:

being in a monogamous relationship can work

This. Especially if you're both ugly.

[Stallo]

Sexuality is not a personality.

[ThomasTea]

A lot of gay men are inherently misogynistic but think because they're gay it is excused. 

[Mr. Blue_Shirt]

Gay men wanting female artist to go on diet pills so she can be beautiful enough for them to stan

 

They're not even attracted to women and they still want female artists to be f*ckable enough to give them respect

[Uncatena]

12 minutes ago, Alaska. said:

Not everyone enjoys pride parades where people are naked and fisting each other

I knew this fanfiction would be in here lmao

[kellebrity98]

12 minutes ago, Alaska. said:

Not everyone enjoys pride parades where people are naked and fisting each other

i kinda agree with this, there are many gay clubs and other places for that.

[stars]

15 minutes ago, kellebrity98 said:

being in a monogamous relationship can work

[Uncatena]

4 minutes ago, ThomasTea said:

A lot of gay men are inherently misogynistic but think because they're gay it is excused. 

Now this is something we desperately need to discuss and do something about. The way gay men, mostly white cis gay men, are extremely misogynist, especially in online spaces, is insane. Unfortunately this also goes for racism, transphobia and ableism. I would also like to note here that "ironic homophobia" has gotten really, really bad online as well, surprisingly a lot of it from women.

[Breathe On Moi]

your fave's accomplishments are not yours 

[ThomasTea]

1 minute ago, ChapelHooker said:

Now this is something we desperately need to discuss and do something about. The way gay men, mostly white cis gay men, are extremely misogynist, especially in online spaces, is insane. Unfortunately this also goes for racism, transphobia and ableism. I would also like to note here that "ironic homophobia" has gotten really, really bad online as well, surprisingly a lot of it from women.

This. 

[Arthoe]

Just because you're gay, doesn't mean that you've won the opression olympics. 

 

You're the most visible of the queer umbrella, therefor yes, you do carry the brunt of vitriol. But that also means that you're the ones that are most likely to still be accepted by the system, and if you amass a certain amount of power/credibility, it's your DUTY to lift up voices that are not heard by the system. 

[My Tears Ricochet]

😺 >>>>>

[alexrex]

- Sex is not limited to being a top or a bottom 

 

- People are more than a pretty face 

 

-There are many types of sexy beyond the gym bud. 

 

 

Edited July 18 by alexrex

[State of Grace.]

I swear I remember seeing this thread like 3 times year and its always the same.

 

 

But hey, let's remind some of us here that

a) conservatives/homophobes will never ever like you and you look like a clown when you desperately try to distance yourself from the LGBTQ+ community and trans people issues. There is no us without them.

b) queer people in homophobic countries don't want you to bomb them and their families to pieces in the name of "human rights".

[alexrex]

22 minutes ago, PoisonedIvy said:

You and your husband don't have to settle for a 10 month boyfriend that won't delete Grindr. 

[Zaram]

8 minutes ago, My Tears Ricochet said:

😺 >>>>>

Now that is an unpopular opinion

[Donquizote]

There is no monogamy in gay relationship honey

[#Beautiful]

a 60 year old husband and a 20 year old boyfriend arent normal for a 40 year old to have