orange22 Posted July 16 Posted July 16 7 minutes ago, Oktober Knight said: Well there's a fine line between innocent chatting with nude exchange on Grindr and a consistent Snapchat friendship where he's texting/sexting all day every day and possibly arranging to meet. Both cross a line for me
TheBoss Posted July 16 Posted July 16 A husband AND a boyfriend, and I can't even get a hook-up in my small city, where do u live? I'm booking tickets 1
Oktober Knight Posted July 16 Author Posted July 16 4 minutes ago, TheBoss said: A husband AND a boyfriend, and I can't even get a hook-up in my small city, where do u live? I'm booking tickets A small town of only 7k people
Robyn. Posted July 16 Posted July 16 Everyone already told you this, but it looks like you ignored every red flag there is right away. You can't change someone. If he was the kind of guy to commit to one person, it'd be the case all along.
Riverbank Posted July 16 Posted July 16 21 hours ago, nasa said: Not this backfiring, maybe there was a reason the husband was never mentioned in the first post I'm still screaming at OP just casually leaving the husband out at first only to be like "he's OUR bf, we're all in this together" after he got exposed and the thread backfired lask;djdasdf Thread of the year 4
tost1 Posted July 16 Posted July 16 1 hour ago, Oktober Knight said: A small town of only 7k people So you're probably in a relationship with 80% of the gay population there 3
Dialamba Posted July 16 Posted July 16 I read a ton of Reddit posts about trouple but this one Tbh id be concerned about the fact your HUSBAND doesn't care this is not a good look.
MattieB Posted July 16 Posted July 16 Hookup apps will never be for dating, if you met him there you'll lose him them unfortunately most of the gays act like that
MattieB Posted July 16 Posted July 16 Quote I brought it up last night and he didn't think he did anything wrong. He also pointed out that he never attempted to meet this guy and never will, although his messages were very specific on what he would do to him (I suppose this was just sexting and not that he's ACTUALLY gonna go to the his house and do these things) but one message that stuck out to me was a reply to an opened snap that said "I'd be down for all that." I don't know what he was replying to as the snap couldn't be reopened. This entire post is extremely difficult to get through , OP are you a doormat
MattieB Posted July 16 Posted July 16 4 hours ago, Oktober Knight said: Well there's a fine line between innocent chatting with nude exchange on Grindr and a consistent Snapchat friendship where he's texting/sexting all day every day and possibly arranging to meet. That's where I felt like the line was crossed. This HAS to be ragebait 3
Weld_E Posted July 17 Posted July 17 6 hours ago, Riverbank said: I'm still screaming at OP just casually leaving the husband out at first only to be like "he's OUR bf, we're all in this together" after he got exposed and the thread backfired lask;djdasdf Thread of the year The irony of OP being upset that the bf doesn't mention that he's in a relationship to the guys he talks to when OP completely left the husband out of the essay of a post 1
Oktober Knight Posted July 17 Author Posted July 17 3 hours ago, Weld_E said: The irony of OP being upset that the bf doesn't mention that he's in a relationship to the guys he talks to when OP completely left the husband out of the essay of a post You act like I'm seeing our bf on the side when all 3 of us are in the relationship together.
brokee Posted July 17 Posted July 17 I think op got enough advice here and might already communicate with the two people involved in cause at the end it's communicating without holding back information if all three want to go ahead and have a better drama-free life. With that being said this thread is one for the ATRL books. They gonna talk about this thread in 2027.
Oktober Knight Posted July 17 Author Posted July 17 13 minutes ago, brokee said: I think op got enough advice here and might already communicate with the two people involved in cause at the end it's communicating without holding back information if all three want to go ahead and have a better drama-free life. With that being said this thread is one for the ATRL books. They gonna talk about this thread in 2027. And that's exactly what happened. We all went for a long walk today and had a deep conversation about our expectations and boundaries. The 3 of us were very understanding and listened to one another. I do feel so much better now 2 1
brokee Posted July 17 Posted July 17 4 minutes ago, Oktober Knight said: And that's exactly what happened. We all went for a long walk today and had a deep conversation about our expectations and boundaries. The 3 of us were very understanding and listened to one another. I do feel so much better now That's good news happy to hear everything went well at the end and you feel better now. 1
discosean Posted July 17 Posted July 17 If that's your boyfriend, he wasn't last night. He was the town bicycle. 2
kyris89 Posted July 17 Posted July 17 On 7/15/2024 at 9:09 PM, Davidoff said: lol you lost me at "he hooked up with couple of guys during our dating phase" boy bye. This. Why are u doing this to your self honey? Kick him out. You will be better alone, single and sexy.
PoisonedIvy Posted July 17 Posted July 17 I think I've seen this film before… and I didn't like the ending
Keter Posted July 17 Posted July 17 The gays are ridiculous. God save the homosexuals cuz we need it!
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