toast Posted May 22 Share Posted May 22 Personality influences demeanor which is a big part of "looks" 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ScorpiosGroove Posted May 22 Share Posted May 22 no uglees x2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shyboi Posted May 22 Share Posted May 22 3 minutes ago, toast said: Personality influences demeanor which is a big part of "looks" my demeanor is meaner than yours 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HealerKirby Posted May 22 Share Posted May 22 (edited) Someone add "big D" to this equation & create a poll please, that's a much more difficult question to answer Personally, I think it's better to find someone who matches you, in both personality and looks (but of course it requires being honest about yourself first ) Edited May 22 by HealerKirby Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alexrex Posted May 22 Share Posted May 22 (edited) Looks are nice, and even better if they belong to someone you get along with. But if it's only bells and whistles without any substance then what? Would you marry a beautiful painting? Id rather someone average looking that makes me happy. Edited May 22 by alexrex 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kassi Posted May 22 Share Posted May 22 The gay community has it mostly figured out. Open relationship so you can date someone nice and funny while ******* hot people on the side. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wehan6 Posted May 22 Share Posted May 22 fat ass > personality > looks 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mitsuki Posted May 22 Share Posted May 22 (edited) Yes. A great personality can make someone look attractive through my eyes with time, but looks can't make me think someone has a nice personality no matter how much I try Edited May 22 by Mitsuki Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aethereal Posted May 22 Share Posted May 22 Both matter but mannerisms and personality matter more. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ABeyBraith Posted May 22 Share Posted May 22 It's equal for me. I have to be attracted to you physically and to your personality. It will not work if either is absent. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mocha Posted May 22 Share Posted May 22 (edited) i can do mid looks with a great confident/funny personality Edited May 22 by Mocha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Princess Aurora Posted May 22 Share Posted May 22 Yes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dumbsparce Posted May 22 Share Posted May 22 Both are equally important. You can't date or **** an ugly and you'll soon get bored with someone who's faceless. Lobg story short, you'll have way more fun with 7/10 with a good personality than a 10 with a plastic brain. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glitch Posted May 22 Share Posted May 22 Someone has to be attractive to you. No you don't have to date a supermodel, but you do need to be physically attracted to them. Sometimes there's people who you might not be attracted to at first but as you get to know them they become more attractive to you. But the long and short of it is you need to be attracted to them physically and like them as a person. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dinorhino Posted May 22 Share Posted May 22 Unless you're demisexual then they're equally important. Romance doesn't exist without physical/sexual attraction and it is an intrinsic part of the foundation of romance. Attraction precludes people before you even get to know them. If looks meant nothing or little to nothing like some of you guys who want to say looks aren't important for virtue then sexuality would be a non issue and gay guys would be dating women Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
selena_lavigne Posted May 22 Share Posted May 22 Why are you asking questions you already know the answer to? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Relampago. Posted May 23 Share Posted May 23 I've been with guys who are super gorg but are either mean asf or so vapid I can't even talk to them, and my mind literally starts to perceive them as ugly, picking up on even the tiniest physical flaw or creating ones. I've been with guys who are mid, but they have amazing personalities, and my mind starts to see them as way better looking than I initially thought. So definitely a personality. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wooper Posted May 23 Share Posted May 23 The hot ones are usually a little psycho Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jotham Posted May 23 Share Posted May 23 Ever since I graduated college I've realized that I don't really have a specific type anymore when it comes to looks. Not to say that there are aren't people I find physically attractive, but at the end of the day i can see myself become attracted to someone regardless of looks as long as they have the right personality. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ecstasy Posted May 23 Share Posted May 23 22 hours ago, Revolution said: I used to think life was about going for the hottest person or the one with the nicest ass. (And I kinda still do.) But now I've realizing that some people are annoying or boring to be around and I would not like to spend the rest of my life with their energy / aura. Is personality actually more important than looks? Surprised? The thing is, when you're horny, you can easily value looks more but once we are done screwing around like what do we do if I can't stand your personality. So for a quickie go for looks if you must but for relationships personality trumps looks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tjspy Posted May 23 Share Posted May 23 For me, even for a good hookup I need a personality. If he's someone just looking for sex and no attachement (meaning that, in our intercourse, I'd feel tottally disconnected), it will suck and I'll feel meh after it. So even for "just sex" I want to feel some personality and not like I'm ******* a plastic model. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digitalism Posted May 23 Share Posted May 23 Most people think they care about personality in long term relationships but then end up breaking up because of those personality traits. The truth is we are all dumb humans who don't really know why were attracted to someone. Now if you really want a long relationship I think the most important thing is to have the same values and similar goals in life. Personality and looks come second. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oktober Knight Posted May 23 Share Posted May 23 Yes, yes, and yes. Beauty is on the inside Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alldeezy Posted May 30 Share Posted May 30 yes but looks help a lot. I mean you can have a cool personality but if you have a beard or short hair I can probably be there friend but I wouldn't want to sleep with them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gladiator Posted May 30 Share Posted May 30 Yes. Looks are important for the initial attraction to someone in most cases, and obviously continued interest in physical and sexual things, but if you're with someone who is a **** person with a shitty personality, then you are not going to end up being happy in that relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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