Revolution Posted May 22 Share Posted May 22 I used to think life was about going for the hottest person or the one with the nicest ass. (And I kinda still do.) But now I've realizing that some people are annoying or boring to be around and I would not like to spend the rest of my life with their energy / aura. Is personality actually more important than looks? Surprised? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
getBusy Posted May 22 Share Posted May 22 Long term, yes 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
liam13 Posted May 22 Share Posted May 22 it has and always will be yes. tho i gotta say, a pretty book will grab people's attention first 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
godmess Posted May 22 Share Posted May 22 you wanna be with someone you're attracted to physically, emotionally, intellectually, and spiritually... What isn't clicking 12 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simbs Posted May 22 Share Posted May 22 Yeah. Pretty guys can be (and a lot of times are) boring. Makes it impossible to even hold a conversation with them sometimes. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JO1s Posted May 22 Share Posted May 22 Beauty fades dumb is forever. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AaronBryceSufjan Posted May 22 Share Posted May 22 is this even a question Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kern Posted May 22 Share Posted May 22 it's cute but good luck ******* a personality Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Timeless Posted May 22 Share Posted May 22 Both are equally important. I ain't dating an ugly man, but I'm also not dating a complete knobhead. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alfonso12 Posted May 22 Share Posted May 22 It is when you have to have a relationship with someone but at the same time it's hard to show your personality to someone when your looks are not enough for them. Or there's also been times in which I've really liked someone's personality but I don't feel attracted to their looks so we gotta remain just friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Badgalbriel Posted May 22 Share Posted May 22 (edited) Both are important. A great personality in a package that's not appealing will become a friend. A great package and a bad personality will become a one night stand. Edited May 22 by Badgalbriel Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Taylor fanboy Posted May 22 Share Posted May 22 None are important. Attraction just HITS you. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cain Posted May 22 Share Posted May 22 You need both? (In a relationship) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ontherocks Posted May 22 Share Posted May 22 No. Don't even talk to me if you are ugly, yikes! 1 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Delirious Posted May 22 Share Posted May 22 12 minutes ago, JO1s said: Beauty fades dumb is forever. Not really. Beauty only fades when you're like 65 and even then you'll still be more beautiful than other old people of your age Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Venice B Posted May 22 Share Posted May 22 For hookups? No. For long term relationships? Absolutely. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pheromosa Posted May 22 Share Posted May 22 Yes, I'm not hanging around someone annoying for anything. They can still come through though Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LadyDiana Posted May 22 Share Posted May 22 We are not talking about ugly guys, right? I mean, nice looking, clean and maintained body are a must as a good personality! I give them both same level of importance. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gesamtkunstwerk Posted May 22 Share Posted May 22 Looks are important, obviously, but personality absolutely determines if you want to be with that person seriously/long term, or not And sorry, if you got an ugly personality, it'll show on the outside eventually, maybe not to shallow, empty people with no soul, but to other normal people, it will Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ONOPKA Posted May 22 Share Posted May 22 Depends what you want for something long term you will need some personality Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shyboi Posted May 22 Share Posted May 22 you need both Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beyonceist Posted May 22 Share Posted May 22 18 minutes ago, ontherocks said: No. Don't even talk to me if you are ugly, yikes! 100% this, I remember dating a fugly only cuz he was funny and like, it took me less than a week to give him the boot. No fats, no uglees, no fems on this site thank u 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Donquizote Posted May 22 Share Posted May 22 Depends on what you're looking for. For long term, yes personality is very important. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Devin Posted May 22 Share Posted May 22 looks matter but not as much. the older u get the more u realize personality > looks. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mordecai Posted May 22 Share Posted May 22 Looks are what catches your eye, but personality makes someone a keeper. Not sure how someone could date someone they're not physically attracted to (in the same way a relationship purely based on looks doesn't last) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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