Revolution Posted May 22 Posted May 22 I used to think life was about going for the hottest person or the one with the nicest ass. (And I kinda still do.) But now I've realizing that some people are annoying or boring to be around and I would not like to spend the rest of my life with their energy / aura. Is personality actually more important than looks? Surprised? 1
liam13 Posted May 22 Posted May 22 it has and always will be yes. tho i gotta say, a pretty book will grab people's attention first 1
godmess Posted May 22 Posted May 22 you wanna be with someone you're attracted to physically, emotionally, intellectually, and spiritually... What isn't clicking 12 1
Simbs Posted May 22 Posted May 22 Yeah. Pretty guys can be (and a lot of times are) boring. Makes it impossible to even hold a conversation with them sometimes. 1
Timeless Posted May 22 Posted May 22 Both are equally important. I ain't dating an ugly man, but I'm also not dating a complete knobhead.
alfonso12 Posted May 22 Posted May 22 It is when you have to have a relationship with someone but at the same time it's hard to show your personality to someone when your looks are not enough for them. Or there's also been times in which I've really liked someone's personality but I don't feel attracted to their looks so we gotta remain just friends.
Badgalbriel Posted May 22 Posted May 22 (edited) Both are important. A great personality in a package that's not appealing will become a friend. A great package and a bad personality will become a one night stand. Edited May 22 by Badgalbriel
Delirious Posted May 22 Posted May 22 12 minutes ago, JO1s said: Beauty fades dumb is forever. Not really. Beauty only fades when you're like 65 and even then you'll still be more beautiful than other old people of your age
Pheromosa Posted May 22 Posted May 22 Yes, I'm not hanging around someone annoying for anything. They can still come through though
LadyDiana Posted May 22 Posted May 22 We are not talking about ugly guys, right? I mean, nice looking, clean and maintained body are a must as a good personality! I give them both same level of importance.
Gesamtkunstwerk Posted May 22 Posted May 22 Looks are important, obviously, but personality absolutely determines if you want to be with that person seriously/long term, or not And sorry, if you got an ugly personality, it'll show on the outside eventually, maybe not to shallow, empty people with no soul, but to other normal people, it will
ONOPKA Posted May 22 Posted May 22 Depends what you want for something long term you will need some personality
Beyonceist Posted May 22 Posted May 22 18 minutes ago, ontherocks said: No. Don't even talk to me if you are ugly, yikes! 100% this, I remember dating a fugly only cuz he was funny and like, it took me less than a week to give him the boot. No fats, no uglees, no fems on this site thank u 1 1
Donquizote Posted May 22 Posted May 22 Depends on what you're looking for. For long term, yes personality is very important.
Devin Posted May 22 Posted May 22 looks matter but not as much. the older u get the more u realize personality > looks. 1
Mordecai Posted May 22 Posted May 22 Looks are what catches your eye, but personality makes someone a keeper. Not sure how someone could date someone they're not physically attracted to (in the same way a relationship purely based on looks doesn't last)
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