discussion Is it possible to be emotionally attracted to women and sexually attracted to men

[theoghon]

Men are SO alien 2 me, hitting it awf with females will ALWAYS be easier 

[duybeeGAshantiGA]

30 minutes ago, reymiu said:

Well then what happened eventually if you don't mind me asking?

I just couldnt go ahead and tell her what I wanted because I was afraid I couldnt be the man that she needed. Also I felt like if I didn't have sexual feelings towards her, that's just unfair. So we remained friends, the friendship eventually faded away and now we are strangers. I for a few times visited her social media pages and knew that she is now married and has kids. Good for her.

[reymiu]

4 minutes ago, duybeeGAshantiGA said:

I just couldnt go ahead and tell her what I wanted because I was afraid I couldnt be the man that she needed. Also I felt like if I didn't have sexual feelings towards her, that's just unfair. So we remained friends, the friendship eventually faded away and now we are strangers. I for a few times visited her social media pages and knew that she is now married and has kids. Good for her.

You're so sweet and thanks for sharing (!) I also think / hope that you will be friends again eventually, at a convenient time in the future

[Rotunda]

I mean I think this depends on what you mean by “emotional attraction.” 
 

I have a bisexual friend who is more romantically interested in women and more physically attracted to men, but still had some physical attraction to women. I think that makes sense.
 

I think if you have no physical attraction to women whatsoever(and aren’t asexual/apathetic about sex), then you’re likely a gay person who still is still trying to process the idea of you not being in a heteronormative relationship. 

[Trent W]

Yes it’s possible but you still might only be gay

 

Im bisexual, I do feel attraction for women romantically but also sexually

 

For men only sexual. Romantically is hard with men.

[shinyshimmery]

Yes, I used to crush on girls all the time when I was in college. Girls are so much easier to talk to and befriend than other gay men.

 

I’m with a male now and I know this was the only path for me bc at the end of the day… well I like the D. So yeahhhhh… 

 

Although I’ve had to those feelings for women in the past… I know that it was best for me to get in a same-sex relationship bc I would always crave that had I been in a straight relationship.

 

[monologueNacafe]

Some of you are really ignorant 

[D.D.D.]

I really understand you! Men are horrible to date and I would never choose to be sexually attracted to men. I just wish to find peace & comfort in life maybe with a woman if I'm lucky enough; my attraction to male almost went to zero as I get older