Popular Post MusicLoverDude Posted January 13 Popular Post Posted January 13 Hi there. Back in November I celebrated 15 years on ATRL, something that felt very surreal. Today, we have hit another surreal moment. Today is my 30th birthday, something feels VERY surreal to say given that when I first joined, I was only 14 years old. I really don't how to feel about turning 30 other than, I'm just going to do what makes me happy and continue to not care what others think. For example, there are some ATRLers here that think that once you hit a certain age, you shouldn't be a member anymore or post anymore. I disagree with that quite a bit, because the main reason we are on this forum in the first place is because we all like music. Getting involved in stan wars is definitely immature, but there's no reason why you can't express opinions in a respectful manner about songs you like or dislike or artists you like or dislike. (Even Tate McRae, who I still think is the definition of a bait and switch act). Any other forum, whether it would be about weather, true crime, adult cam models, etc, would be the same thing. People of any age (or of adult age in some cases) can discuss things. The ageism on here isn't ok as a result. I still plan on voting in countdowns, participating in games and checking out discussions at 30, just like I have been for the past 15 to 16 years. And as far as IRL is concerned, I'm working, I pay my mother rent, and I find my ways to stay happy. The beach is nearby as is the movies. I'm a competitive SongPop player and can kick ass at it (and I'm actually on the younger side of the player pool). I will not be that employee you see at work that hates everything and is tired of everything. I'll find ways to be happy still and will genuinely find a way to interact with you as well. I treat cashiers well. I treat uber drivers well. I treat sex workers well. I treat waiting staff well. I treat everyone, everywhere well. Anyways, 30 is still a weird age for me to be, but like I said, I'll do what makes me happy. Hope everyone has a great day! 35
Kayseri Mantisi Posted January 13 Posted January 13 Happy birthday hope you forever stay happy that way 🎂
Escape Posted January 13 Posted January 13 (edited) Happy Birhday! Keep doing you and pay no mind to ageists on this site (There is quite a few unfortunately.) Edited January 13 by almanac 1
IBeMe Posted January 13 Posted January 13 this was actually such a touching post. I hope you remain who you are always and forever while also evolving and being ok to grow. I wish you all the best in your next 30 years and beyond. your presence is always appreciated on here and in life in general Happy birthday @MusicLoverDude 1
Aston Martin Posted January 13 Posted January 13 Today’s my 27th, so just seeing the thread title alone made me smile. This post was a lovely read, and I hope your birthday is good as well! 1
Frozen99 Posted January 13 Posted January 13 i'm turning 30 in april and i feel the same way, do what makes you happy. i don't think there's anything immature on being on a forum in your 30s (unless you're dragging katy perry in stan wars or sth) and follow the news, music, games etc since i've turned 18, all bdays has been the same, just another number. happy bday MLD 2
Orsay Posted January 13 Posted January 13 Happy birthday! ‘94 babies in the house (mine’s in May) Honestly I’m so glad to be leaving my 20s 1
May Posted January 13 Posted January 13 tbh it feels like just yesterday I was 18 on this forum and now im 25 so i get u .. atrl really is not the kind of forum that has an age boundary like some other forums . some users should take note 1
Aslan Posted January 13 Posted January 13 Happy birthday may chapter 30 of your life bring you happiness, good health and prosperity
Flower Posted January 13 Posted January 13 Happy Birthday, stay strong, life goes go! Don’t forget to have fun and be childish when you can
Comedor Posted January 13 Posted January 13 Congrats, enjoy this new decade in your life! I joined in July 2010 and I’m also in my 30s, similar to you. From my experience I can say I’m loving being in my 30s. I’m confident, have a career, can afford travel, ticket concerts, restaurants etc. As Beyonce says “I’m grown, I can do whatever I want.” I hope you feel free and empowered in your 30s too! 1
FolkLover1989 Posted January 13 Posted January 13 Happy Birthday 🥳 It doesn't matter what your age is Atrl is for everyone
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