discussion Unpopular gay opinions/Talks gays aren’t ready to have?

[katara]

What's point of this thread? To post all the dumb generalisations and stereotypes about "all gay people" you can think of?

 

This thread is turning into borderline homophobia just like all these kind of threads that attempt to brush a huge group of people with the same brush do.

[St. Charles]

These replies are mostly popular / agreeable. I have one but I don’t feel like getting dragged so I’ll have to save it for another time.

[DAP]

Gays have too many conversations. We can start a new one by shutting up.

 

[Namie-Knowles]

There's no "Gay Community" babe. So this whole "what is something that WE need to know" doesn't mean anything. WE aren't a hivemind or close knit group. Hell half the the gays aren't even from the US or Canada, some aren't even in the Americas or Europe either. The only thing tying us together possibly is sexuality and that's it. There's no straight community for a reason babe. Stop forcibly putting yourself in this monolithic box that will then only serve to worsen your oppression in the future.

[BletaRexher]

3 hours ago, Machete said:

You aren’t meant to have biological kids. Stop using surrogates and adopt.

You ate I fear, idc if straights have that option, we’re supposed to be better than them. It’s selfish and a weird ego thing to need your baby to look like you. Before I get “but straight couples!!!!” idgaf, the ones that can’t get pregnant aren’t meant to either. Just adopt ffs.

[Fleahive]

31 minutes ago, St. Charles said:

These replies are mostly popular / agreeable. I have one but I don’t feel like getting dragged so I’ll have to save it for another time.

Well none of my bait worked so you’re safe from dragging. Spill your tea I will fight for you but I don’t think the naysayers are bothered to argue back in this thread. 

[GraceRandolph]

12 minutes ago, BletaRexher said:

You ate I fear, idc if straights have that option, we’re supposed to be better than them. It’s selfish and a weird ego thing to need your baby to look like you. Before I get “but straight couples!!!!” idgaf, the ones that can’t get pregnant aren’t meant to either. Just adopt ffs.

Go awf

[ABeyBraith]

3 hours ago, Fleahive said:

1. Masculinity isn’t toxic and fems that try to paint it as toxic but don’t ever go after other fems are hypocrites. When have you seen someone like James Charles go after another makeup girlie? lol they complain about no one liking them but it’s clear they don’t like themselves. 
 

2. Prep is the cause for the rise is antibiotic resistant diseases. Y’all have gone so far left trying destigmatize sti’s that you get on prep and bareback with someone new every week. Get an sti and make it no big deal because “at least it’s not hiv!” And go on a round of antibiotics multiple times a year and now you’re ******. 
 

3. Heteronormativity is a buzzword used way too often by miserable chronically online gays that try hard to be different. 

 

4. Depression is at an all time high because yall have tied your soul with so many random depressed drug addicts/alcoholics with your one night stands. Having sex with strangers literally bonds you together spiritually. Thats why so many of yall only like depressing music. 
 

5. Gay men do not know how to take selfies. Dead panning your selfie camera makes you look scary and depressed not attractive. It’s okay to smile. 
 

 

What a load of ****  You are not serious lmao? Jesus Christ

 

 

OT: There is nothing wrong with promiscuity and if you want to sleep around, sleep around. People need to mind their goddamn business and focus on their own lives instead of sticking their big ass beaks into other people’s business. 

[Vixen Eyes]

5 hours ago, Illuminati said:

This is the first time I'm reading that gays don't play video games GTA is kinda perfect for gay driving, I've been running over people since GTA2

im more into RPGs like the Elder Scrolls series

[Fleahive]

Stanning pop girls should stay strictly on the internet. Any gay with pop girl posters and albums all over his wall IS A RED FLAG

[BrentB]

I've made a couple threads about this & IDGAF who I trigger  , but I'ma go ahead & say it (for the 253684th time).  A LOT of you have a SERIOUS leering/ogling problem when you're out & about - in workplaces, at malls, in transit - & see any random hot guy who you have NO prior signs of have even 1/10 of a chance with. Intense eye contact for a prolonged period of time is NOT something

that you play with. Of course it's not just y'all but str8 men do this to women all the time too, but still doesn't make it right. Women complain all the time about the eye-******* that creepy str8 men try engaging with them on the daily.

 

It's giving serious incubus THOT energy & all you do is place yourself further & further at the very back of the line of potential mates/suitors. If you weren't such an annoying thirsty creep (not all y'all, just the thots I'm trying to skulldrag) who all I ever see everytime I pass you by is a frazzled expression & bulging eyeballs, then you could've given me some top one time or a few AT MOST on a good day.  

[BletaRexher]

If you wear a jockstrap or one of those fishnet tops you deserve jail time!

[LustSpell]

Mean Girls behavior is NOT a goal to have at all. Not in middle school, not in high school, and ESPECIALLY not in your 20s or 30s.  

 

Online leftists fall for propaganda a lot more than they think they do. Majority of them are not "woke" or understand what's going on through social media. It's just as easy for a leftist to fall for it as someone else on the far right.

[yamiyuuuu]

I can't believe there's so much internalized homophobia in a place like ATRL. 99% of these answers... you really hate yourselves 

[Cleanromantic]

Western gays are some of the most close minded, selfish, inconsiderate people I've ever met and they only care about getting ****** .

[Gelato]

1. Some very privileged gays love to feel offended and exist in a perpetual state of victimhood. By complaining about everything they can think of for attention, they're ultimately doing more harm than good. It affects people's views of us as community and could ultimately wear down tolerance and acceptance in society.

 

2. Things like representation aren't everything but the same privileged gays love to yap on about them because they're easy topics of conversation. It's a selfish way to make them feel like they're doing some kind of activism and driving change. In actual fact there are still people being made homeless because of family rejection and losing their lives or having other hate crimes committed against them. Those are the real issues.

Edited December 17, 2023 by Gelato

[Fleahive]

I’m not one to complain about age gaps but there is a questionable amount of 40+ gays that harass young men online. There could be an innocent probably straight 19 year old on TikTok live and half the comments are creepy looking 50 year old gay men asking him sexually inappropriate questions. This happens A LOT and quite embarrassing to me. Now that I think of it I can’t think of many 50+ gays in relationships with people near their age. They’re either single or dating a “sugar baby” aged 18-25

[Escape]

14 hours ago, LustSpell said:

Mean Girls behavior is NOT a goal to have at all. Not in middle school, not in high school, and ESPECIALLY not in your 20s or 30s.  

This!

 

There are still gays in here with a Regina George-complex!

[DamianSolo]

• Many base their friendships on attractiveness, and it's extremely shallow and unbecoming. You can be really great friends with someone who you, otherwise, wouldn't be physically attracted to—and, even worse, it's based on the most basic and shallow of tastes.
• No one is obligated to be DL or water themselves down for you, outside of basic respect for your own privacy.
• That being said, being gay isn't a personality trait and no one has to declare their gayness out loud and boldly.
• I wonder how many gays have passed up on someone that could have been the love of their life because of general ignorance and shallowness. Obviously, this isn't specific to gay men—but I feel like it's worth noting due to the insanely basic preferences that gay men seem to have when selecting their partners. The things I've read on dating apps are just alarming. I hope many of you are prepared to die alone unless you come to your senses and value what's most important in a partner—not what you think is important, because you evidently don't know better, but what is objectively important in selecting a life partner. Saying you prefer someone who leads a healthy lifestyle is much different than saying you'd only date someone who is muscular and is in the gym five times a week, for example.
• Again, not exclusive to gays, but those in an open relationship are deserving of "I'm With Stupid" shirts, especially with one partner agrees begrudgingly to be in one. I've seen the rise of open relationships on dating apps, and it's just so wild how there are so many people in so-called relationships who are still sleeping around with a ton of random people. They're both and all on the same apps, to the point where being in a "relationship" doesn't even make sense. There's no difference between that and being close friends with benefits, aside from showcasing a lesser form of basic understanding.
• The sex addiction and easily accessible nature of finding someone to have sex with is detrimental to bonding and forming healthy relationships. With the way sex, specifically, has been intertwined with "gay culture," it's worth noting and observing.
• The "gay community" is nonexistent, with the way we divide ourselves—being, already, a minority. It's. So. Dumb. We have minorities within a minority, within a minority, who aren't supportive of each other and it's no wonder how rights are being taken away from us. There's no unified voice.

[DanyelP23]

Gays that are in their mid to late 20s, 30s or sometimes even 40s that give quirky & edgy horny posts on social media (twitter), especially about/directed to people they don't know are weird. I get that most haven't been able to go through their adolescence with the same freedom as straight people and they're just now properly living their teenage years, but it's just corny and weird. I get living your joy and everything, but like... get a modicum of class!

[IWantASoda35]

body positivity activists are lowkey muscle worshippers 

[John Slayne]

On 12/16/2023 at 7:34 PM, Cult Leader 𐕣𐕣 said:

Asking who’s the top and who's the bottom or just overall forcing heteronormativity on relationships where you don’t see an overly masculine men is weird and the fact that gay men can’t wrap their heads around this is just  yes, “traditional” top/bottom couples exists with a masculine and feminine partner, but that’s not the standard. masculine men can be bottoms, feminine tops exist, people can be vers, sides exist and gay men can asexual. not everything is black and white

we need this carved into stone fr

 

gender roles are a prison and Mother Madonna made us gay to free us from these toxic gender dynamics in our romantic lives. we truly get to be ourselves with no pressure to fulfil gender roles, it's a blessing!

[John Slayne]

the gay memes/jokes where 'a bottom' is described as traditionally fem/emotional and 'a top' as masc/detached are so tired at this point. like maybe it was a quick ironic kii in 2015 but in 2023 those jokes are just so boring and stale to me. they're still all over instagram for some reason though... annoying

[John Slayne]

looking at this thread, another unpopular opinion of mine is that actually, hookups and casual sex are fun and good - and romantic relationships are not inherently better.

 

and i say this as someone currently in a relationship. my single life was fun and i liked it, there's pros and cons to all lifestyles. 

Edited December 19, 2023 by John Slayne

[superben]

Advocating that sexuality is fluid, yet insisting on the clear distinct between tops and bottoms. Especially for Asian gays.