discussion Unpopular gay opinions/Talks gays aren’t ready to have?

[Bussea]

Be respectful. If it gets too explicit or messy, I’ll ask them to move this to The Roof

 

 

Gay men are just as misogynistic as straight men and are just as blatant. Just because you hide behind pop girl avis, successes, pretend to hate male music and like dick too doesn’t mean you’re exempt from displaying and benefiting off of misogyny. 

 

The “Regina George” gay, is absolutely insufferable. It’s even worse when you’re over the age of 30. 

 

Being gay doesn’t have to determine your interest. One recent example is when the GTA VI trailer came out and I saw several RuPaul gays asking “sInCe wHen DiD gAy pEoPle cAre AbOuT gTA” and almost mocking them for doing so. Gay men can have other interests like sports, video games, or whatever outside of other stereotypical activities without it being an attempt to appear “different” or a pick me.

 

Deflecting by saying “well straight people do it too!!!” to justify weird and gross behavior doesn’t make your behavior and less weird or gross. you’re nasty and they’re nasty too.

 

 

Asking who’s the top and who's the bottom or just overall forcing heteronormativity on relationships where you don’t see an overly masculine men is weird and the fact that gay men can’t wrap their heads around this is just  yes, “traditional” top/bottom couples exists with a masculine and feminine partner, but that’s not the standard. masculine men can be bottoms, feminine tops exist, people can be vers, sides exist and gay men can asexual. not everything is black and white

Edited December 16, 2023 by Cult Leader 𐕣𐕣

[Specter]

No matter how many other gay men or trans people you throw under the bus in order to get validation/uphold respectability politics, the conservatives will always think of you as degenerates - they'll just use you for a while before reminding you of what they think of you. 

 

And no, this does not mean letting people in the community "get away with anything." It has never meant that. 

[Aston Martin]

Chasing straight male validation is dumb. A vast majority will always think you’re beneath them, and a lot of straight men (especially from where I’m from) aren’t really people that are worth having the validation of in the first place. 

[Sheep]

Respectability politics is a phrase that has lost all meaning because it's been co-opted by degenerates who think that the only reason somebody wouldn't want to be a sex pervert or drug addict or even just socially disruptive in general is for the approval of cishet society when in reality well adjusted people tend to just not go for these behaviors.

 

I think there's room to accept that being pushed to the fringes of society pushes people towards bad behaviors and to be supportive while still maintaining that those behaviors are destructive not just to the individual but to us as a group and even society as a whole. Wanting somebody to do better can come from a place of hate but it doesn't have to.

Edited December 16, 2023 by Sheep

[Machete]

You aren’t meant to have biological kids. Stop using surrogates and adopt.

[GraceRandolph]

Gay culture is super consumerist and rainbow capitalism is super gross. 
 

1 minute ago, Machete said:

You aren’t meant to have biological kids. Stop using surrogates and adopt.

Yep, surrogacy is unethical. 

[KatyPrismSpirit]

Stop these threads already like this is made every two days, all this does is making yourself / make others feel bad about themselves and for what 

[Bussea]

8 minutes ago, KatyPrismSpirit said:

Stop these threads already like this is made every two days, all this does is making yourself / make others feel bad about themselves and for what 

okay well stop entering them since they make you feel bad  I feel great

Edited December 16, 2023 by Cult Leader 𐕣𐕣

[Mr. Blue_Shirt]

Centrist gays are just conservatives with liberal aesthetic

 

They can be morally corrupt or even worse than conservatives because they don't want to "take sides"

[AvadaKedavra]

We are just pawns for left and right wing extremists and their political agendas  They dont really care about us.
Fascists and Commies-Tankies are supportive of goverments or movements or groups who hate the gays. 

Edited December 16, 2023 by AvadaKedavra

[KatyPrismSpirit]

 

4 minutes ago, Cult Leader 𐕣𐕣 said:

okay well stop entering them since they make you feel bad

I know myself but some people will just use this to spew negativity.

 

But to participate:

A lot of people made being gay their sole personality and a way bigger thing than it has to be. (extravagant coming outs, always mentioning it in public) like people dont care and i kinda think some of it is rooted in mild narcissism chi

 

Edited December 16, 2023 by KatyPrismSpirit

[Arrows]

Gay people care way too much about what other gay people do. Just look at this thread.

[scenekiller]

We do not owe anything to the straight community, but that doesn't mean we neglect healthy conversation and turn a blind eye to the problematic things and serious issues our brothers and sisters face.

[Illuminati]

This is the first time I'm reading that gays don't play video games GTA is kinda perfect for gay driving, I've been running over people since GTA2

Edited December 16, 2023 by Illuminati

[Communion]

You don't have to clench your jaw that hard in your selfie, sis. Literally no one has that kind of jaw shape in real life. Gender performance is a prison.

Edited December 16, 2023 by Communion

[Queen of Wembley]

Lana del Rey's music is dull and the only people who like it are manipulative twinks 

[JonginBey]

You mean the sex addiction 

[ninasayers]

19 minutes ago, Machete said:

You aren’t meant to have biological kids. Stop using surrogates and adopt.

No one's "meant" to have kids; if anything everyone should have fewer kids and start adopting more, not just gays. Weird phrasing, really.

[Domination]

This isn’t exclusive to gays at all but the polyamory/non-monogamy/open thing that’s happening at the moment is interesting to watch. It seems like every gay I know gets into a relationship with someone that wants to be open that proceeds to become so toxic and emotionally abusive that both swear off of it entirely afterwards.

 

I guess my opinion would be the idea that poly is easy or doesn’t become exponentially more complex the more variables that are introduced is a bit naive. I say that as someone who doesn’t think hardline monogamy is particularly sustainable either and as with all things, balance is key.

[KatyPrismSpirit]

Also, some gays need to stop their obsession with telling anyone that has remotely feminine traits gay. You are literally projecting your middle school bullies and do it because it makes you feel good. E.g, Shawn Mendes

[poki]

7 minutes ago, Illuminati said:

This is the first time I'm reading that gays don't play video games GTA is kinda perfect for gay driving, I've been running over people since GTA2

For real, Gaymers play every type of game out there. We are the most active in the art community and youtube spoof scenes. 

[Big Bad Wolf]

2 minutes ago, Domination said:

This isn’t exclusive to gays at all but the polyamory/non-monogamy/open thing that’s happening at the moment is interesting to watch. It seems like every gay I know gets into a relationship with someone that wants to be open that proceeds to become so toxic and emotionally abusive that both swear off of it entirely afterwards.

 

I guess my opinion would be the idea that poly is easy or doesn’t become exponentially more complex the more variables that are introduced is a bit naive. I say that as someone who doesn’t think hardline monogamy is particularly sustainable either and as with all things, balance is key.

And those types of people are often the loudest about how monogamy is toxic. I'm so pro-monogamy and that **** makes me mad. Dating in the gay world is the pits of hell, sex is prioritized over everything else it seems. 

[KillingYourCareer]

Being gay doesn't have to be your entire personality or even a fraction of it

[poki]

Wuttice about not supporting surrogacy?

 

I want to be a dad one day and I will!

[Big Bad Wolf]

7 minutes ago, Queen of Wembley said:

Lana del Rey's music is dull and the only people who like it are manipulative twinks 

Now why is Lana out here catching strays on a serious topic regarding our community? It's very childish. Care to share something you think is actually a pressing issue in our community?