discussion I f*** up, bragged about buying an apartment and now my co-worker will be a neighbour

[Unoriginal]

We need to explore how this thread is actually just another way for you to brag about being a property owner 

[Odette Violet]

[TheCal]

okay Mr. Rich

[BrokenMachine]

[Antisocialites]

capitalism needs to end right now

[TaggedGalaxy]

You need real friends outside of work

[Badgalbriel]

I did something similar once and that taught me a valuable lesson: do not brag about stuff that hasn't happened yet. 

3 years ago I bought a plane ticket to another country for an amazing price. It was like a huge deal and half of the normal price. This country was amazing, but very expensive to go to. I bought it for me and all of my friends bought it too. I posted about on Instagram, with the dates and the flight number, and 5 minutes later a gay that liked me bought tickets as well as asked me where I was going to stay cause he bought tickets too and wanted company. 

[Bussea]

it sounds like you need grass to touch and not an apartment. move and try being homeless! hope that helps

Edited November 21, 2023 by Cult Leader 𐕣𐕣

[G.U.Y. Gaga]

7 minutes ago, Unoriginal said:

We need to explore how this thread is actually just another way for you to brag about being a property owner 

And that’s not even true 

[Rider]

See when you stan Camilla

 

[Hot Volcano]

15 minutes ago, John Slayne said:

You seriously need to consider changing your job and going to therapy. And I mean this in the best way possible but you've been having meltdowns over this guy for months and there's literally nothing between y'all. he's your coworker. for the sake of your mental health please leave him alone, get a new hobby, a new job, start dating, just do SOMETHING because this is only going to get worse. you are not coping at all.

But I was getting better sis, up until few days ago. I swear, I was clean for almost a month!

 

 

12 minutes ago, nostalgic said:

No one is buying these fanfictions you keep posting about your 50 co-workers you want to ****, move on and take it to wattpad. 

It's literally been the same guy this entire time, only 1 person, but go off

[Hot Volcano]

13 minutes ago, Unoriginal said:

We need to explore how this thread is actually just another way for you to brag about being a property owner 

 

5 minutes ago, G.U.Y. Gaga said:

And that’s not even true 

why is it hard to believe someone with a good job is able to take a bank loan and buy an apartment?   And it's a 40m2 apartment, one bedroom, not like I bought a penthouse.

[John Slayne]

Just now, Hot Volcano said:

But I was getting better sis, up until few days ago. I swear, I was clean for almost a month!

it is not normal to be this romantically invested in a COWORKER that expressed ZERO interest in you. incredibly unprofessional and possibly weird for him, you need to snap out of it one way or another. a cute little crush is fine but you're doing the most 

[Hot Volcano]

Just now, John Slayne said:

it is not normal to be this romantically invested in a COWORKER that expressed ZERO interest in you. incredibly unprofessional and possibly weird for him, you need to snap out of it one way or another. a cute little crush is fine but you're doing the most 

but I'm not expressing any of this in real life  You are making it seem like I'm a stalker or something. I'm actually giving him cold shoulder most of the time, cuz I also have an ego and don't want to make it seem like I'm lusting over someone who barely has any interest in me. Again, these are my exaggerated inner thoughts.

[jesus del rey]

Sis you need to get d*cked down and get over this guy already

 

[Hot Volcano]

14 minutes ago, TaggedGalaxy said:

You need real friends outside of work

Other co-workers kinda replaced my friends outside the work, so now I'm in a tricky position where I can't avoid this guy.

[CristianGarcia]

I never believe envious people exist in real life until I read posts like these 

 

You need to just have pride in who you are and what you have and be happy within that. Only you can really appreciate who you are. You even said it yourself.. you have nothing in common with this guy if he doesn’t care to “hang” out with you then F him and them and find people that’s actually do….

[Mr. Blue_Shirt]

We really need to normalize keeping secrets to ourselves i'm begging y'all

Edited November 21, 2023 by Mr. Blue_Shirt

[FreeXone]

That’s why you move in SILENCE. Hard lesson learned. Not much you can do but start making up fake complaints and tell him How you hate it there to make him scared to buy. 

[Orsay]

Stop crushing on and trying to get in with these rando straight guys you work with, idc how hot he is.

has it ever occurred to you that these two get on better because they are straight dudes with lots of common interests and no ulterior motives? They want the same thing from each other - platonic male friendship. Meanwhile you’re plotting what sounds like a doomed attempt at a love affair with a straight man

 

youre a gay on a website worshipping divas. Find some like minded queens to spend time with in your area and look for dates/love somewhere else. I don’t know what the gay dating scene is like where you live - it’s never easy - but get on some apps or something and start looking for someone who is actually going to be into you. For your own well being. It sounds like you have a good job and are getting a nice apartment, try to appreciate what you do have and stop yearning for the things you can’t have

[Badger]

Main Character Syndrome

[Raptus]

Do them a favor and move out...like to a different city at least

Edited November 21, 2023 by Raptus

[Peroxide]

If the man is straight then yeah… you need to accept nothing is ever going to happen.

 

Find some queer friends. It really helps.

[original_lifeline]

unbrag and unbuy it NOW!

[What_A_Mess]

You sound like those annoying stereotypical clique gays who act like middle schoolers