mrpartyrocker Posted June 5, 2023 Posted June 5, 2023 Don’t ruin the friendship you have. Sometimes as gays, the feelings we have for other guys especially friends could be confusing. It could just be you’re both in a vulnerable position and you might read into what he’s saying although he might not be that serious about it. I’ve been there and confessed my feelings which then started to end a really good friendship. that being said, if it is meant to happen, it will happen without you overthinking it. however it could just be in your head.
mrpartyrocker Posted June 5, 2023 Posted June 5, 2023 8 hours ago, OmegaRidley said: My « straight » best friend of 5 years used to kiss me on the neck, would hug me all the time (and even whispered « i could stay like this forever » one time). When I confessed to him, he blocked me and told everyone I forced my way onto him… So yeah I wouldn’t say anything until you’re sure there is something Omg I hate when they do that. I had that for a whole year… hugs, kisses on the neck, laying in his arms, cuddles, being told “I love you” and when I confessed my feelings he said to me “you will have to wait”…. His mom then read some of our conversations and he stopped speaking to me because he felt as if I made him believe he has feelings for me when he is actually straight.
OmegaRidley Posted June 5, 2023 Posted June 5, 2023 4 hours ago, mrpartyrocker said: Omg I hate when they do that. I had that for a whole year… hugs, kisses on the neck, laying in his arms, cuddles, being told “I love you” and when I confessed my feelings he said to me “you will have to wait”…. His mom then read some of our conversations and he stopped speaking to me because he felt as if I made him believe he has feelings for me when he is actually straight. Men are trash what’s new
UnusualBoy Posted June 5, 2023 Posted June 5, 2023 My advice is don't look too much into it, he's probably confused. Let things flow as they should, it's not work to risk the friendship for something that may not last.
Attitude Posted June 6, 2023 Posted June 6, 2023 It's time to reel it in sis. He doesn't want you like that.
RunUpDoneUp Posted June 6, 2023 Posted June 6, 2023 He sounds unstable. Then again, you know him best so,... Never be someone's exploration try. It won't end well if you value the friendship.
yourcloud Posted June 6, 2023 Posted June 6, 2023 12 hours ago, cockatoo said: Excuse me!? He is an ex therapist now, but yeah that did happen. I was very uncomfortable and mortified.
Theshigo Washidu Posted June 6, 2023 Posted June 6, 2023 Keep the friendship as it is. Don't entertain him sexually or romantically because that's when things get awkward. 1
Bears01 Posted June 6, 2023 Posted June 6, 2023 Don’t do a damn thing. Sounds like you two have a rock solid friendship and if anything were to happen, let him be the one that does it. True friends are one of life’s best things. Don’t ruin it because your imagination has run wild 1
Damien M Posted June 8, 2023 Posted June 8, 2023 Don’t do it. Tip for the younger gays: Have some straight guy friends, it’s good to have a balance. BUT DON’T fall for them or create a narrative in your head. It will never work. a LOT of men are bi-curious & will try to get physical even— but will never commit. Don’t waste your time. date a fellow gay man and save yourself the drama. 1 1
Jormungand Posted November 14, 2023 Author Posted November 14, 2023 Just an update y'all. We're still going strong, and recently he's been referring to me as "his love" and uh there's tension between us. We've both been going through a difficult past few months and he's stressed with school. He also says I'm his, but uh I don't know how to classify our relationship. It's not like we don't talk about these things with each other, but I'm scared to make anything official. 1
BletaRexher Posted November 15, 2023 Posted November 15, 2023 Straight guys just talk like this with friends.
Damien M Posted November 17, 2023 Posted November 17, 2023 Stay away from confused straight men. PLEASE. The gays have been falling for this mess for MILLENNIA and it ALWAYS ends tragically. 1
Homebrand Posted November 17, 2023 Posted November 17, 2023 On 11/15/2023 at 4:23 AM, Jormungand said: Just an update y'all. We're still going strong, and recently he's been referring to me as "his love" and uh there's tension between us. We've both been going through a difficult past few months and he's stressed with school. He also says I'm his, but uh I don't know how to classify our relationship. It's not like we don't talk about these things with each other, but I'm scared to make anything official. I think you have your answer if you are the one who has to initiate or talk about it to get to that next stage, and he isn't doing anything about it
PinkLamborghini Posted November 17, 2023 Posted November 17, 2023 Manage your expectations. If you're looking for a fwb behind closed doors, then sure have fun, but he's not gonna live happily ever after with you.
imabadkid Posted November 17, 2023 Posted November 17, 2023 (edited) Girl not me realizing this was a bumped thread! Edited November 17, 2023 by imabadkid
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