CottageHore Posted March 11, 2023 Posted March 11, 2023 (edited) I already know the answer is “no, I am not” but sometimes external validation is lovely when you’re pissed off about something So, super quick background- I recently moved back in with my parents at 23 (slay!!) because I’m getting my masters and want to save for a home. My sister, who’s one year younger than me, ALSO moved back in. For context, our rooms are in the basement (go figure), right next to each other with paper thin walls. My sister 1.5 months ago started dating this guy. Like every guy she dates, I am not a fan but they’d never know that. I’m always kind and civil and recognize it’s my problem if I have a problem with someone who hasn’t given me a reason to dislike them. So lately, this new bf has been coming over and him and my sister will be in her room next to me as I’m trying to fall asleep (because I work and go to school full time) and they’ll either have the TV blaring sooooo loud (it’s mounted on the other side of my wall), which I know is their way of covering up other things, which is fine. Or, I’ll hear them talking so loud, to the point where I can hear their conversation verbatim. I’ll typically put in headphones to fall asleep and have two fans going to drown out the noise but last week it was ridiculously loud so I politely texted my sister, asking her to turn the TV down (this was at 10:30pm on a Wednesday). My sister didn’t see the text until morning (?) and the TV stayed blaring until 12:30 am and I tossed and turned until it was off. In the morning she said “**** sorry, I feel bad” and I said it was no problem and figured it was a fluke incident. TL;DR: Fast forward to last night, I’m in bed at 10pm, exhausted, about to fall asleep when BOOM! Suddenly the TV in her room is blaring so ******* loud, it’s like my walls were shaking. I texted her saying “can you turn that down plz”. It didn’t get turned down. Over the next 45 minutes, I texted two more times because I literally could not sleep. Finally, she texted saying “it’s not even loud” (lol girl what) but did turn it down slightly. Fast forward to 1 hour later at 12am and now I’m woken up to the two of them, once again, talking SO loudly. Her bf specifically was so loud. His grating voice was echoing through my room, I legit could tell you every word he said it was so loud. I texted asking them to quiet down again, to which she once again replied “we’re literally not even talking!” (girl is a class A gaslighter). I just tried to suck it up and then again, 30 minutes later, they get even louder. I text saying “I’m about to lose my ****”. It’s now 12:30am. I then hear the two of them talking mad **** about me- how I’m miserable and cranky and our other brother is “so much more chill” and after I text saying “I can hear you two”, I hear that ugly ass man literally *ROAR* super loudly, almost like he’s mocking me for asking them to shut tf up. They continue to talk **** about me very loudly, knowing I can hear every single word. I decided to just go upstairs and sleep on the futon cuz I don’t need to listen to the two of them talking **** about me. So not only did I not sleep last night, but I feel like **** too and now I truly hate this man so ******* much. She always picks the worst men but this mf- whew! So, tell me, am I the bad guy for asking a stranger in my home and my sister to be quiet ten times because they’re keeping me up at 1am? Edited March 11, 2023 by CottageHore
Donquizote Posted March 11, 2023 Posted March 11, 2023 One of the cons of staying with other people in your house. It's either you adapt or get your own place.
CottageHore Posted March 11, 2023 Author Posted March 11, 2023 13 minutes ago, Donquizote said: One of the cons of staying with other people in your house. It's either you adapt or get your own place. One of the expectations of co-habitating with other people is having some respect for their boundaries
Pendulum Posted March 11, 2023 Posted March 11, 2023 (edited) And what do your parents say? And no, you have the full right to complain here. Honestly if I were you I would just storm in her room and make some drama. It's your ******* home and you do not have to comply with guests and strangers. Edited March 11, 2023 by Pendulum
CottageHore Posted March 11, 2023 Author Posted March 11, 2023 14 minutes ago, Pendulum said: And what do your parents say? And no, you have the full right to complain here. Honestly if I were you I would just storm in her room and make some drama. It's your ******* home and you do not have to comply with guests and strangers. They hear it too and are pissed but everyone’s too scared to address her cuz she’s a puta. If it happens again, I will be storming her shores!
SinnerCity Posted March 11, 2023 Posted March 11, 2023 Wow, you're truly evil, how dare you get in the way of your lovely sister's romantic night.
BtDecember Posted March 11, 2023 Posted March 11, 2023 Record them while they’re talking and send it to them to show how loud they really are. Gosh, people like them are some of the worst
May Posted March 11, 2023 Posted March 11, 2023 i mean u do have a right to complain but they also have a right to completely ignore ur feelings , im assuming ur not paying rent ? if so .. ur paying $0 for a roof over ur head and ur complaining bc it’s too loud ? move out then …………. Free things aren’t perfect idk what to tell u
Stardom Posted March 11, 2023 Posted March 11, 2023 What You'll Need: A piece of paper Something to write with A nail or screw A place to discard the paper naturally Intention Steps: 1. Take your paper and write your target's name. I recommend giving as much information about them as you can (birthdays, parents' names, full names, etc.). I recommend also making a little drawing of your target as an effigy, even if it's just a stick figure. 2. Write what you would like to happen to your target on the paper. You can get creative with it! If you'd like to appeal more to The Chthonic Powers, I'd recommend briefly stating what the person did to you as well. Make sure you are placing your intention into the curse as you write! 3. Fold the paper in half. 4. Take your nail or screw and stab it through the paper. If you made an effigy, I recommend stabbing it through their heart or head, if possible. 5. Take your paper and return it to the earth. I recommend burying it to do this. You can even knock on the ground a few times to get the attention of The Underworld Deities. 6. You're all done! Great job! Now make sure to cleanse yourself and your space thoroughly. Take a cleansing bath/shower, burn incense, meditate - whatever you need to do.
GentleEarthquake Posted March 11, 2023 Posted March 11, 2023 Destroy that damn TV and end their ugly relationship
CottageHore Posted March 11, 2023 Author Posted March 11, 2023 4 minutes ago, May said: i mean u do have a right to complain but they also have a right to completely ignore ur feelings , im assuming ur not paying rent ? if so .. ur paying $0 for a roof over ur head and ur complaining bc it’s too loud ? move out then …………. Free things aren’t perfect idk what to tell u I actually am paying rent, my sister is not does that suddenly make my request to not have her yelling next to my room at 1am validated? if it was my parents whose home I am living in making the noise, your point would have some rationale to it. Pfff your takes are always so insufferable and unempathetic. Who hurt you, Mary?
Richmond Posted March 11, 2023 Posted March 11, 2023 You’re stronger than me. If I heard some random bozo talking **** about me or mocking me past midnight in my own home where I grew up, we would’ve thrown hands
CottageHore Posted March 11, 2023 Author Posted March 11, 2023 11 minutes ago, BtDecember said: Record them while they’re talking and send it to them to show how loud they really are. Gosh, people like them are some of the worst I did lmao, if she tries it again, I’ll send it in the family GP, perhaps
BtDecember Posted March 11, 2023 Posted March 11, 2023 Just now, CottageHore said: I did lmao, if she tries it again, I’ll send it in the family GP, perhaps How did she react? Lol
Donquizote Posted March 11, 2023 Posted March 11, 2023 1 minute ago, CottageHore said: I actually am paying rent, my sister is not does that suddenly make my request to not have her yelling next to my room at 1am validated? if it was my parents whose home I am living in making the noise, your point would have some rationale to it. Pfff your takes are always so insufferable and unempathetic. Who hurt you, Mary? 47 minutes ago, CottageHore said: One of the expectations of co-habitating with other people is having some respect for their boundaries You can't expect people to follow your rules or respect you all the time. There are different types of people. If you don't like them, you have to move out and get your own place. Sorry the world doesn't revolve around you all the time.
CottageHore Posted March 11, 2023 Author Posted March 11, 2023 Just now, BtDecember said: How did she react? Lol Oh I meant I took the video but didn’t send it cuz I thought that’d make matters worse. But when I confront her this AM and she gaslights with “we weren’t even talking”, I’ll slap the receipts down
Antisocialites Posted March 11, 2023 Posted March 11, 2023 the tl;dr being longer than the original post
BtDecember Posted March 11, 2023 Posted March 11, 2023 Just now, CottageHore said: Oh I meant I took the video but didn’t send it cuz I thought that’d make matters worse. But when I confront her this AM and she gaslights with “we weren’t even talking”, I’ll slap the receipts down Cool, video yourself far from the wall while they’re talking to show that they’re still loud despite you on the opposite side of the room. You might need to put that puta back to your mom’s womb lol
CottageHore Posted March 11, 2023 Author Posted March 11, 2023 1 minute ago, Donquizote said: You can't expect people to follow your rules or respect you all the time. There are different types of people. If you don't like them, you have to move out and get your own place. Sorry the world doesn't revolve around you all the time. Lmao stfu, weirdo. The man in question is not paying rent and is not the child of my parents. I 100% have every reason to expect that he won’t be talking **** about me so loud I can hear it at 1AM. How are you this dense? Go away, girl, no one asked you.
BtDecember Posted March 11, 2023 Posted March 11, 2023 Just now, CottageHore said: Lmao stfu, weirdo. The man in question is not paying rent and is not the child of my parents. I 100% have every reason to expect that he won’t be talking **** about me so loud I can hear it at 1AM. How are you this dense? Go away, girl, no one asked you. I bet that user is as annoying as your sister and her bf lol. Asking for a basic decency is now being self-centered 🙄
CottageHore Posted March 11, 2023 Author Posted March 11, 2023 2 minutes ago, Antisocialites said: the tl;dr being longer than the original post The part that wasn’t TL;DR was just the background. I prefer to be thorough!
Buffy Posted March 11, 2023 Posted March 11, 2023 Ask your parents to shut off the electricity after 10PM. That will solve at least 1 problem. Your parents can also make a rule to not allow either of you to let anyone spend the night. It’s their house, their rules. If y’all get to live there rent free, that’s the price you pay. Live with parents, obey like children, because you still are their children regardless of age. If they are too scared to parent their child, then yikes…
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