discosean Posted February 4, 2023 Posted February 4, 2023 15 minutes ago, MJHolland said: you kinda have to be shameless and have no self worth so why would u care what people think lmao the issues comes from pervy behavior (cruising) that comes with gay culture it’s weird how gay community are obsessed with genitals y’all deserve more than genitalia I don’t want community shared Grindr dick I will not let you our anyone police what I do with my hands, holes, or my dick or make me feel bad because I am in control of my passions and desires.
anti-bitch Posted February 4, 2023 Posted February 4, 2023 4 minutes ago, discosean said: I will not let you our anyone police what I do with my hands, holes, or my dick or make me feel bad because I am in control of my passions and desires. Quote of the century, haha.
bunnyeyes Posted February 4, 2023 Posted February 4, 2023 Sam Smith literally got spat on the street when they came out as non-binary. Trump is threatening to erase the existence of trans people and certain Western policies are now meeting the UN's definition of trans genocide. Whether he's elected or not this thought has hit the mainstream. I'm a prude myself but don't think purity policing to be the solution. The hate stems from any gender divergence "pure" or not.
#Beautiful Posted February 4, 2023 Posted February 4, 2023 I watched the beautifully written 3rd episode of The Last of Us last night and it was the first time in my life that I saw myself represented in any mainstream gay media, no gimmicks or embarrassing behaviors to attract attention and sales.
Robert Posted February 4, 2023 Posted February 4, 2023 (edited) I’m not even a Sam fan but they can express themselves how they want as long as they’re not hurting anyone. LGBT people don’t have to pander to their oppressors. There are issues around hyper-sexualisation that are concerning and should be addressed because of how they affect actual people in the community (body image, white washing, sexual harassment in clubs etc) but certainly not to appeal to conservatives, who would take away our rights at a moments notice. Edited February 4, 2023 by Robert
RussianRoulette Posted February 4, 2023 Posted February 4, 2023 Who cares tho. People will always have different opinions on everything. Some arab countries execute males who perform gay acts, does that mean we should stop being gay? At the end of the day, what do you care what some random thinks of you even if you don't behave in a way they expect you to just because you belong to "a group". In Rap music there is violence and drugs in almost every lyric, does that mean that people who enjoy rap are all a part of a gang that do drugs? You let your fear of how other perceive you dictate your life and that won't take you far or allow you to enjoy life.
#Beautiful Posted February 4, 2023 Posted February 4, 2023 and no youre not the only one seeing the chess game being played where the only gays given huge platforms are the ones playing the jester role built on every other stereotype the hets can came up with. it's embarrassing and degrading to us as a community but god forbid anyone say anything about that because you'll get called a self hating ******
HANZ94 Posted February 4, 2023 Posted February 4, 2023 You made several points and gays celebrating that disgusting Sam smith video are honestly insane there is nothing artistic about it just sexual suggestions all over it and obviously leaves a bad taste in everyone’s mouths
Technicolor Posted February 4, 2023 Posted February 4, 2023 Idk. For one part I agree that Sam's new music video was tacky and that the hyper-sexualisation of the gay community is a problem that should be adressed but I don't like this idea of having to appeal to conservatives because at the end of the day they are stil gonna hate us either way. so we should let them fume while we are at it
Cain Posted February 4, 2023 Posted February 4, 2023 Homophobes will want you dead whether you adhere to their made up rules or not Just live your life babes x
SpaceOddity Posted February 4, 2023 Posted February 4, 2023 1 hour ago, Last Boy on Earth said: You really thought you were doing something but wrote nothing but nonsense. Imagine where society would be if buttons had not been pushed and everyone wanted to appeal to the conservatives. Back to the board .
RussianRoulette Posted February 4, 2023 Posted February 4, 2023 2 minutes ago, #Beautiful said: and no youre not the only one seeing the chess game being played where the only gays given huge platforms are the ones playing the jester role built on every other stereotype the hets can came up with. it's embarrassing and degrading to us as a community but god forbid anyone say anything about that because you'll get called a self hating ****** But people should be allowed to listen and watch whatever they please. I never listen to Sam, his music and voice is annoying and he's horrible to look at, but that doesn't mean i'll judge someone who is his fan. What Sam does in a video shouldn't be idicative of what kind of people we are and how we behave even if we're all gay. That's the beauty of being people, we can be unique, have differences, interests and passions regardless of our skin colour, sexual orientation or where we come from.
#Beautiful Posted February 4, 2023 Posted February 4, 2023 4 minutes ago, RussianRoulette said: But people should be allowed to listen and watch whatever they please. I never listen to Sam, his music and voice is annoying and he's horrible to look at, but that doesn't mean i'll judge someone who is his fan. What Sam does in a video shouldn't be idicative of what kind of people we are and how we behave even if we're all gay. That's the beauty of being people, we can be unique, have differences, interests and passions regardless of our skin colour, sexual orientation or where we come from. i didnt say people cant do any of that so im not sure what youre on about but i ageee about sam
RussianRoulette Posted February 4, 2023 Posted February 4, 2023 11 minutes ago, #Beautiful said: i didnt say people cant do any of that so im not sure what youre on about but i ageee about sam I doubt only the most flamboyant gays are given a big platform. I think it's just that they find success with a certain image or songs. Lil Nas X was being called a one hit wonder after some failed attempts to get another hit, until he literally gave the devil a lapdance. That doesn't mean he was being given a platform just to be over the top.
getBusy Posted February 4, 2023 Posted February 4, 2023 2 hours ago, BrentB said: What we need is more modest representation No. This is what they want you to think we need.
Karla Cabello Posted February 4, 2023 Posted February 4, 2023 1 hour ago, Jynx said: The LGBTQIA+ are OVER; Sam Smith destroyed their society. Back to the pre-stonewall era they go.
#Beautiful Posted February 4, 2023 Posted February 4, 2023 (edited) 27 minutes ago, RussianRoulette said: I doubt only the most flamboyant gays are given a big platform. I think it's just that they find success with a certain image or songs. Lil Nas X was being called a one hit wonder after some failed attempts to get another hit, until he literally gave the devil a lapdance. That doesn't mean he was being given a platform just to be over the top. the only time we're given attention or a platform is either when we're progressive side props or overdone products of stereotypes that surround the community, which is where your lil nas devil lapdance example fits perfectly. dont get it twisted **** the conservatives and "pandering" for them whatever that might even mean is not the answer. people deserve to be themselves and at the same time we need to be wary of how the elites choose to portray us for profit and other's entertainment. sam smith voice stays annoying from the start when he was pandering for the conservatives or whatever i guess, i found them boring back then and i do now Edited February 4, 2023 by #Beautiful
jordanjm Posted February 4, 2023 Posted February 4, 2023 This is a thread made purely out of fear and cowardice. The people who you are trying to please will never accept you. Not being "hyper-sexual" will not save you from them. They will move the goalposts as they always do. If you are scared, don't blame your own community, blame those who wish you harm. I suggest you take time to reflect and if you are still scared take the time to learn how to protect yourself and have a plan.
mystery Posted February 4, 2023 Posted February 4, 2023 Enjoy being a conservative pick me, they will always hate you no matter how hard you try to be one of them.
Arthoe Posted February 4, 2023 Posted February 4, 2023 Or we could flip the tables and actually arm ourselves like straight people do.
ABeyBraith Posted February 4, 2023 Posted February 4, 2023 I could not care less about what conservatives think about me. They can stay ******* mad and if they want to try me, let them. I am a grown ass man, I can fight too.
ABeyBraith Posted February 4, 2023 Posted February 4, 2023 1 minute ago, Arthoe said: Or we could flip the tables and actually arm ourselves like straight people do. Period
Istan4R Posted February 4, 2023 Posted February 4, 2023 It goes both ways. The whole industry and pop culture as a whole is so sexualized. You really can’t watch anything without a random sex scene or reference being somewhere and I’m not even a prude like that. People are just doing it for shock factor to compensate for lackluster music, films, shows, etc. Everything is about what gets the most attention and not quality of a script or lyrics, etc.
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