Blankspace2010 Posted November 19, 2022 Share Posted November 19, 2022 I’ve never been fat so no one would make this comment about me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Konril Posted November 20, 2022 Share Posted November 20, 2022 I'm trying again to lose weight, I'd be glad of the complement. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alldeezy Posted November 20, 2022 Share Posted November 20, 2022 I get the "you look healthier" meaning in polite way oh you put on weight Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kandicha Posted November 20, 2022 Share Posted November 20, 2022 it would make me very happy to see someone notice the effects of me trying to exercise more and eat healthier Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roberto Posted November 20, 2022 Share Posted November 20, 2022 I feel embarrased myself to admit it, but I would feel very happy if someone tells me that (I've been eating heathier and doing exercises the last month and a lot of people is already noticing my body is changing, so, yes, it feels great, tbh). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gladiator Posted November 20, 2022 Share Posted November 20, 2022 (edited) I would feel happy for whoever its being said to. I don't feel bad or embarrassed for feeling that way, or care how people read that. If it was said to me, I would feel like I did something wrong because I'm into fitness and trying to become a muscle daddy. Though I am cutting now... 7 hours ago, Konril said: I'm trying again to lose weight, I'd be glad of the complement. Here is an unsolicited trick that has helped me. My go-to way to lose weight is to utilize my crockpot every day for every meal I eat (which often means I eat the same thing or a slight variation of the same thing). Back when COVID started and stores were closed is when I started this and every time I have been in a weight loss phase, I have done this. I bought all the stuff I needed to make chicken noodle soup and made that every day or every other day. You'll lose weight incredibly quickly this way and mentally its not as exhausting since you can usually make about 5 servings that you can eat throughout the day. Once you get tired of it, you can switch to something else or make adaptations to it. I've also learned that if you put rice in it, it pretty much dissolves into the soup and makes it the consistency of what you would find inside of a chicken pot pie and its absolutely delicious. Chicken is preferred though because 3 breasts equates to 175-190g of protein which is what I care about the most. I honestly struggle to lose weight if I don't do this anymore, because I have poor impulse control. Relying on this mentally limits me in a way that I don't feel limited. If that makes sense. And then once a week I will go out with friends. Edited November 20, 2022 by Gladiator Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harry Posted November 22, 2022 Share Posted November 22, 2022 isnt that a good thing to tell people? i cant see anyone being mad over that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hypnodemiluv Posted November 24, 2022 Share Posted November 24, 2022 it's tricky for me because i love that comment but i realise how much it's enhancing my eating disorder and lowering my self-image when i have some days with too much food Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carla Rosón Posted November 24, 2022 Share Posted November 24, 2022 On 11/18/2022 at 9:45 AM, shookspeare said: It would make my day fatties need to stop making weight loss compliments into something bad !! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theweekend Posted November 24, 2022 Share Posted November 24, 2022 lately I've been in love to be a skinny legend so I'd like to receive this compliment Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grumpy Cat Posted November 24, 2022 Share Posted November 24, 2022 i'd love to experience it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tropical Posted November 24, 2022 Share Posted November 24, 2022 I'll take any compliment meant positively. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Right Now Posted November 24, 2022 Share Posted November 24, 2022 I get that a lot when I see someone I haven’t seen in a while and it makes me happy because I do put a lot of effort in the gym. Now if I ate properly… I’d see even faster results. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crazy kid Posted November 25, 2022 Share Posted November 25, 2022 I understand it is a compliment but also feels backhanded. I also fear saying that to someone who has or had an ED. If i ever compliment someone on their appearance, it is exclusively regarding their proportions, such as: Your waist looks so tiny! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TurntUp Posted November 25, 2022 Share Posted November 25, 2022 On 11/18/2022 at 9:54 AM, americanlife said: "You've lost weight" is rude. Just say "you look great." . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
makeme Posted November 25, 2022 Share Posted November 25, 2022 On 11/19/2022 at 4:29 AM, Blankspace2010 said: I’ve never been fat so no one would make this comment about me. lmao this Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kamil24 Posted November 25, 2022 Share Posted November 25, 2022 I don't see an issue with telling the truth. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PMKARDASHIAN Posted November 25, 2022 Share Posted November 25, 2022 I’ve heard it dozens of times and I used to love it, and it wouldn’t bother me now, but as a whole I’m tired of people commenting on my looks. I own mirrors, I know what I look like. I might take offense to it considering I’ve been on a bulking/fitness journey for a few years and have since slowed down and as a result lost a significant portion of muscle, but otherwise I would just say thank you and keep it moving Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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