discussion Cis woman gets harassed in bathroom by transphobe who thinks she's trans

[Wolf Alice]

Just now, Mobility Mary said:

I don't have anything against him, I'm just scared of him and the way he treats me

Can you pls block and move on then instead of making these passive aggressive comments everywhere 

[IBeMe]

this is so sad but the person really handled it well. I love that she did not want to give her an answer for ANYTHING. Good for her

[Headlock]

7 minutes ago, Mobility Mary said:

He's not one, but he is the type of person who constantly speaks over them and thinks their opinions are worthless. A very dangerous attitude to have.

 

4 minutes ago, Mobility Mary said:

I don't have anything against him, I'm just scared of him and the way he treats me

Literally who are you omfg 

Like I want receipts, posts, something. Literally what are you referring to??

Edited October 30, 2022 by Headlock

[Communion]

49 minutes ago, Mobility Mary said:

Looks staged

Were you shocked to see yourself posted online? 

[Headlock]

10 minutes ago, xclusivestylesz said:

That should also work. Unless you're a biological women, you shouldn't speak for them

*gestures to the statistical majority of cis women who state they have no issue sharing a bathroom with trans women* 

 

Loving the “biological woman” dog whistle btw 

[dman4life]

12 minutes ago, Wolf Alice said:

Honestly god I'll be in jail if this happened to me

Seriously tho!! It be the audacity for me...

[Communion]

19 minutes ago, xclusivestylesz said:

Yeah, that's what I'm saying. A bathroom for women and another for trans women

So instead of this cis woman yelling at another cis woman she perceives as trans to go to the men's room, you'd want her to instead be yelling at another cis woman she perceives as trans to go to the trans women's bathroom? 

[Cruel Summer]

This thread having a cross over episode with the Midnights thread 

 

Transphobia is vile. Accosting a stranger for simply using the bathroom is bizarre and their genitals are none of anyone else’s business. The “it’s a girl” at the end was super uncomfortable, too.

[infrared]

She's not making any sense  "figure out what you identify as and then we'll accept it" - clearly if she's in the woman's bathroom, that already tells you what you need to know turd  

 

 

34 minutes ago, xclusivestylesz said:

Why isn't there a separate bathroom for trans people though? I personally don't care but I could understand why it makes some people uncomfortable.  

  I'm sure they said the same thing about people of color before 1970 or men with aids in the 80s. It's really not that big of an issue as people are making it out to be. Unless you're a cruising gay man or a sleazy predator, no one is going into a bathroom to hook up. Every stall is individual. 

 

Most places don't have the infrastructure to suddenly make them gender neutral.

 

 

 

 

[Into The Void]

Why is she following someone she thinks is a child to harrass them though? Very odd behavior tbh it makes it even worse. She should be embarrassed 

[Ombre]

One time I was visiting this cited called Toronto in a country called Canada and I stopped by huge mall that had a unisex bathroom. It had all stalls and a janitor constantly in it. It was actually really nice and clean and it didnt even feel weird.

[GraceRandolph]

1 hour ago, Mobility Mary said:

So a bathroom for cis women?

Cis women aren’t uncomfortable though:

[GraceRandolph]

1 hour ago, Mobility Mary said:

He's not one, but he is the type of person who constantly speaks over them and thinks their opinions are worthless. A very dangerous attitude to have.

Yet… his opinion reflects the views of the average American women more closely than your opinion.

 

[Scars]

That was so scary, she handled it so well.

 

It reminded me of a incident which a sikh man was at the receiving end of an islamophobic hate crime because the attackers had no idea what a muslim person is actually supposed to be. Yes, religious identity and gender identity are not the same, of course, but people are clearly on a witch-hunt against communities they have no idea about other than whatever bullshit they were exposed to.

 

This the clear result of the western modus operandi of painting a tiny minority group as a threat to the norm of their society, on top of using that group as a spacegoat to their problems. Considering the rise of transphobic tropes being pushed by western media and political parties, anti-trans attacks are sadly going to become even more common all over the globe.

Edited October 30, 2022 by Scars

[Attitude]

She should've shown us the lady's face. You wanna act dumb in public then you should face the repercussions. 

[Jooj]

5 hours ago, xclusivestylesz said:

Unless you're a biological women, you shouldn't speak for them.

Well you just did a few posts before lol

5 hours ago, xclusivestylesz said:

Yeah, that's what I'm saying. A bathroom for women and another for trans women

OT.: Imagine taking your time to behave like this over nothing. Yikes.

[Mobility Mary]

6 hours ago, Headlock said:

*gestures to the statistical majority of cis women who state they have no issue sharing a bathroom with trans women* 

 

Loving the “biological woman” dog whistle btw 

Wait, so one statistic that is based on a small sample from one country and still shows that almost a third of women are not comfortable with it, means that a male ATRL user Headlock is an official spokesperson for women now

[GraceRandolph]

4 minutes ago, Mobility Mary said:

Wait, so one statistic that is based on a small sample from one country and still shows that almost a third of women are not comfortable with it, means that a male ATRL user Headlock is an official spokesperson for women now

A third of women probably don’t support gay marriage, and a huge chunk of women didn’t feel comfortable sharing bathrooms with black people either. Women’s feelings don’t dictate policy. 

Edited October 30, 2022 by GraceRandolph

[BlackStar_93]

What a vile, hateful, and disgusting person; that transphobe created a scene for absolutely no reason. I just know that person considers themselves religious and probably shares 'inspirational' 'love thy neighbor' quotes on Facebook.  

 

The person recording handled that so well - I hope they're okay. 

[Bloodflowers.]

Lmao, I wish there's a full video where its finally revealed that she's not trans and the look on that dumbass Karen's face when she realized she harassed her for no reason  

[Lucas32]

As per usual the only group of people who make women‘s bathroom unsafe are TERFs

[Headlock]

1 hour ago, Mobility Mary said:

Wait, so one statistic that is based on a small sample from one country and still shows that almost a third of women are not comfortable with it, means that a male ATRL user Headlock is an official spokesperson for women now

So nothing can get done unless 100% of people agree, as we know this is how everything works in the world 

Racist white people? Better keep segregation! Homophobic people? Bye bye gay marriage! Evangelical Christians? Go back to your country Muslims! 

 

Btw, you can just come out and saw you're transphobic 

[Mobility Mary]

1 minute ago, Headlock said:

So nothing can get done unless 100% of people agree, as we know this is how everything works in the world 

Racist white people? Better keep segregation! Homophobic people? Bye bye gay marriage! Evangelical Christians? Go back to your country Muslims! 

 

Btw, you can just come out and saw you're transphobic 

I didn't say that 100% of people need to agree, just that men like you need to stop telling women how to feel about issues that impact them. You using some worthless statistic doesn't change anything.

 

I'm not transphobic, I'm a transmedicalist which means I support trans rights. Hope that helps.

[Headlock]

1 minute ago, Mobility Mary said:

I didn't say that 100% of people need to agree, just that men like you need to stop telling women how to feel about issues that impact them.

How does trans women using the women's restroom impact you?

 

2 minutes ago, Mobility Mary said:

You using some worthless statistic doesn't change anything.

So anecdotal feelings are more important that statistical data. Got it.

 

3 minutes ago, Mobility Mary said:

I'm not transphobic, I'm a transmedicalist

Oh jesus 

[Mobility Mary]

Just now, Headlock said:

How does trans women using the women's restroom impact you?

 

So anecdotal feelings are more important that statistical data. Got it.

 

Oh jesus 

Girl, as I said, you are using a tiny sample of women from one country to prove your point lmao. Look, we got 20 women from America and asked them this question and all 8 of them said they support it, oh wow That statistic definitely proves men get to tell women how they feel about issues that are about them.

 

I'm not even saying you don't get to voice your opinion, the same way no one can stop you from voicing your opinion about issues like abortion, but you are constantly talking over women and acting like their opinions are worthless by labeling any issues they have as transphobic. Who do you think your way of thinking is benefiting exactly? It's not helping women and it's not helping trans people either even tho you think it is.