discussion Having a child via surrogacy

[Jennifer]

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[getBusy]

Literal human trafficking. If you wouldn’t buy a 50 year old, why would you buy a newborn? 

[Grumpy Cat]

5 hours ago, Gorgeous said:

 

Speaking of...

 

Wanna kid or 2 fab?

 

[terrorblade]

5 hours ago, midnightanswer said:

you look very cute. do u have insta? id love to be ur surrogate! 

[katara]

7 hours ago, shark_heather said:

I was actually thinking if there is a cheaper way of using a surrogate ( stranger ) maybe in South America 

I have seen a documentary about surrogacy being very common in Ukraine. I imagine that's kinda halted due to the war though. 

[Johnny Jacobs]

You have 3 options 

 

1.Adoption 

 

2.Surrogacy —pay a stranger or ask someone close to you. 

 

3.Finding a woman willing to have a baby and co-parent 

 

Good luck. 

[katara]

6 minutes ago, Johnny Jacobs said:

You have 3 options 

 

1.Adoption 

 

2.Surrogacy —pay a stranger or ask someone close to you. 

 

3.Finding a woman willing to have a baby and co-parent 

 

Good luck. 

Co-parenting seems to be very popular in Germany with the gays. Prolly coz the other options are almost impossible to pull off legally. 

[Gottasadae]

10 hours ago, midnightanswer said:

you look very cute. do u have insta? id love to be ur surrogate! 

I- 

[Jagger]

Y'all are so weird being against surrogacy or calling it human trafficking  

 

also **** the women who agree to do this and then decide to keep the baby. they should not have those rights once they agree to the procedure. especially if they are getting paid 

[shark_heather]

4 hours ago, katara said:

I have seen a documentary about surrogacy being very common in Ukraine. I imagine that's kinda halted due to the war though. 

In Ukraine is only for heteros ...

 

 

8 hours ago, getBusy said:

Literal human trafficking. If you wouldn’t buy a 50 year old, why would you buy a newborn? 

You are literal an idiot 

[wehavetostan]

12 hours ago, shark_heather said:

I was actually thinking if there is a cheaper way of using a surrogate ( stranger ) maybe in South America 

This sounds kinda predatory

[shark_heather]

20 minutes ago, Jagger said:

Y'all are so weird being against surrogacy or calling it human trafficking  

 

also **** the women who agree to do this and then decide to keep the baby. they should not have those rights once they agree to the procedure. especially if they are getting paid 

Actually i have seen a tv series based on that .

 

2 girls when they grow older one is rich the other is poor but the rich one cant have children and asks the poor one to become the surrogate and to help her financially 

And during the pregnancy you see the emotional connection the pregnant woman is creating with the baby 

Thats why it needs to be with a stranger and papers needs to be signed 

 

Also i met once a Swedish man he had the same problem ( lesbian friend carried his child and then she wanted to keep it) but he told me in Sweden the law was on his side 

[shark_heather]

3 minutes ago, wehavetostan said:

This sounds kinda predatory

Well i have some money saved but im not a Rihanna . I just wonder if there is a cheaper way to get what i want 

[wehavetostan]

13 minutes ago, shark_heather said:

Well i have some money saved but im not a Rihanna . I just wonder if there is a cheaper way to get what i want 

I understand. I’ve also considered having kids when I get older via surrogacy (or adoption) as well but there can be a lot of exploitation involved with transnational surrogacy (and adoption). I hope there’s an affordable and ethical option you’re able to find

[cockatoo]

On 9/3/2022 at 9:46 AM, midnightanswer said:

you look very cute. do u have insta? id love to be ur surrogate!