discussion Why are you still single?

[katara]

Because I am gay. It's that simple. If I were straight I would already be married and prolly have my first child already like all the other str8 men.

 

Being gay in this society is a curse. We are cursed to feel inadequate and like aliens so we never develop the emotional maturity that is important to form deep and long lasting bonds with other people. 

 

 

 

 

Edited August 6, 2022 by katara

[Jude]

Can't relate. In a happy relationship with my 60 year old fiance. 

[Daddy]

 

[DanyelP23]

8 hours ago, smmann said:

I’m asexual

 

54 minutes ago, Taylor Sniffs said:

I don't want anyone in my house. 

 

OT: Because I'm an insufferable c.vnt (derogatory) and an awful human being 

[hardbrit]

47 minutes ago, katara said:

Because I am gay. It's that simple. If I were straight I would already be married and prolly have my first child already like all the other str8 men.

 

Being gay in this society is a curse. We are cursed to feel inadequate and like aliens so we never develop the emotional maturity that is important to form deep and long lasting bonds with other people. 

 

 

 

 

I don't think I have ever read something this intelligent on here. Also, gay culture is toxic AF and the guys available are hook-up only "Straight dudes".

[Tower]

1 hour ago, katara said:

Being gay in this society is a curse. We are cursed to feel inadequate and like aliens so we never develop the emotional maturity that is important to form deep and long lasting bonds with other people. 

 

 

 

 

Tea

[terrorblade]

9 hours ago, Danny789 said:

I don’t actually think about it and I have no desire to date so I guess that’s why. 

[Dialamba]

I’m young, why would I start dating at 18. I want to be a in a relationship one day but I also don’t want. 

[Joyride]

10 hours ago, Buddy said:

I'm antisocial & in an endless state of "working on myself"

this hit me

[Raver]

Eh I don’t see myself getting into a relationship. 

[Simple]

I used to care about it for a while but now I don't, I got a lot of things to do before being in a relationship.

[zasderfght]

Because the guy I've been exclusively dating hasn't asked me to be his boyfriend yet. I'll probably ask the question, since it's getting to that point, but you gotta love anxiety lol 

[GentleEarthquake]

becuase i'm a social and academic failure and everyone at uni is prettier and smarter

[Harrier]

Right now, I'm simply not ready. I'm not comfortable enough with myself.

I do want to meet someone one day, but I am at peace with working on myself for a few more years before that. 

[spree]

On 8/6/2022 at 4:19 AM, Allday said:

Like Stay single guys unless you find a guy that will put your first and do anything for you (and they don't exist) 

false.  My bf would do anything for me.  He's even said it before to me numerous times.

[Theshigo Washidu]

Because a lot of men are rubbish.

 

I'm speaking to someone at the moment and I have hope that things will lead somewhere. We seem to have a lot in common.

[Europe]

On 8/8/2022 at 7:37 PM, St. Francis said:

 

 

I'm speaking to someone at the moment and I have hope that things will lead somewhere. We seem to have a lot in common.

Well did they?

 

[Patient Zero]

Because I just LOVE being alone.

 

I swear, my relationships always end because I eventually like being alone more.

 

It's not because I can date whoever I want in this situation - I just prefer to be alone. It's that simple.

 

I guess I'm a-romantic? If we're going with labels.

[Grumpy Cat]

because straights are cruel and i am mortified of them.

 

if you are a straight guy over 18, stay the **** away from me. if you are straight guy under 18, stay the **** away from me.

 

including alfa and beta brooos, incels and utter ******* lunatics. i hate you from the depth of my heart.

 

you'll not getting my body, money or anything else.

 

**** you straight alfa and beta bros and incels to the moon.

 

me and my gay friends will live just fine in a nice penthouse and share a rent. and i wont fear i'll get r-worded any day or any other way of harassment you like to do and say to women. I'm not having a single straight dude in my house.. nope. Ive been through too much to deal with straights. **** you straight alfa, beta, incel bros. you can all die by tomorrow if i'm asked.

 

my penthouse- me, my gay friends and best single life possible - peace, tea parties, pop music, nice meals and a fine garden.

Edited September 1, 2022 by Grumpy Cat
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[youresotoxic]

honestly... it's a lot better to be single imo  was in my first relationship, was told one month after dating he was moving to a different state for college and so it was going to be long distance (kinda short distance since it was only like an hour and a half drive for me). decided to give it a try and it was horrible. I drove every friday to go see him since he couldn't drive. felt like i was doing everything in the relationship, was more like 80/20  was such a waste of my time and i regret that whole relationship. just glad to be single now and not having to spend my time with someone who really didn't care about me or put any effort into the relationship. never went on any dates since and it's been much better not worrying about being in a relationship. 

 

plus a couple times after driving to see him, he slept in and I waited two hours after driving there to finally see him since he never responded. it was horrible 

[Bubble Tea]

Loved my last boyfriend but he was so unmotivated, unambitious and passive - like I was providing everything. Happily single and enjoying hanging out with my friends, just got a great new job and now hopefully buying an apartment.

 

I don't have time for meddling idiots. I'm busy.

 

[Grumpy Cat]

12 minutes ago, Tropical said:

Loved my last boyfriend but he was so unmotivated, unambitious and passive - like I was providing everything. Happily single and enjoying hanging out with my friends, just got a great new job and now hopefully buying an apartment.

 

I don't have time for meddling idiots. I'm busy.

 

you just described straights

[Bubble Tea]

2 minutes ago, Grumpy Cat said:

you just described straights

Straight men are awful, but so much more masculine and sexy (often). Obviously a lot of uglies on both sides of the fence.

[Grumpy Cat]

2 minutes ago, Tropical said:

Straight men are awful, but so much more masculine and sexy (often). Obviously a lot of uglies on both sides of the fence.

I'd rather not be near them idc how do they look outside

[brenda-walsh]

On 8/5/2022 at 11:23 PM, Buddy said:

I'm antisocial & in an endless state of "working on myself"

basically this. i feel as though i've fumble the bag a few times because i'm too afraid to open up