HauntinglyHollow Posted August 6, 2022 Posted August 6, 2022 25 and I can count on my two hands the amount of gays I have met during my entire life not yet desperate enough to go dating sites either
Jynx672 Posted August 6, 2022 Posted August 6, 2022 12 minutes ago, Bloodflowers. said: I'm in a relationship Oh really? This must be fresh because last I checked you were complaining about not being able to find a guy
Bloodflowers. Posted August 6, 2022 Posted August 6, 2022 3 minutes ago, Jynx672 said: Oh really? This must be fresh because last I checked you were complaining about not being able to find a guy Because technically we still didn't break up, I am unhappy in my relationship
ProudLBS Posted August 6, 2022 Posted August 6, 2022 1 minute ago, Bloodflowers. said: Because technically we still didn't break up, I am unhappy in my relationship that's sad, huh? have you brought that up with your bf?
Buddy Posted August 6, 2022 Posted August 6, 2022 I'm antisocial & in an endless state of "working on myself"
Bloodflowers. Posted August 6, 2022 Posted August 6, 2022 5 minutes ago, ProudLBS said: that's sad, huh? have you brought that up with your bf? We did in fact talk about our problems last time we saw each other, that's it I kinda want him to break up with me cuz I don't want to be the cruel person who breaks up with him
Solaria Posted August 6, 2022 Posted August 6, 2022 14 minutes ago, Buddy said: in an endless state of "working on myself" This 100 %. I keep putting dating off because I just don’t feel like the current version of myself should date. I don’t wanna do that to a person
Dolce Vita Posted August 6, 2022 Posted August 6, 2022 (edited) working on myself and focusing on uni is the main priority which is why i only “date” older men (40+) because there’s no pressure to commit with them. they only want a young piece of ass to parade around and i get free meals/experiences for my time Edited August 6, 2022 by Dolce Vita
ProudLBS Posted August 6, 2022 Posted August 6, 2022 11 minutes ago, Bloodflowers. said: We did in fact talk about our problems last time we saw each other, that's it I kinda want him to break up with me cuz I don't want to be the cruel person who breaks up with him Let me know when you break up and I'll come over with ice cream
BOOMBAYAH Posted August 6, 2022 Posted August 6, 2022 I think if I was to get a serious boyfriend who ticked all the boxes I would have to invest a lot of time and money that I simply do not want to right now. I feel like straight people are conditioned into dating because they’ve had the luxury of doing it their entire lives, but as a young gay person who’s never been on a date, the idea of seeing different people every week and spending money on a date just for 99% of them to probably not be the one sounds like hell.
M.R. Posted August 6, 2022 Posted August 6, 2022 4 hours ago, suneclipse121 said: Well for me it’s a combination of reasons- 1. I am very inconsistent with my active dating phases. I would try dating for about a month or two and go on a couple of dates. And when they don’t pan out I pause dating for years at a time. 2. I notice that a lot of the guys I go out with are emotionally unavailable and that usually leads to very uneven power dynamics where someone gives more than the other person. I recognize that this might be an issue I need to correct because my taste seems to be trash. Usually people can’t match my energy. Even when I tone it down. I’m a bit more aggressive with weeding these guys out so I don’t waste my time. 3. I believe in monogamy. I don’t compromise on this core value at all. I would compromise on a lot of things but on monogamy their is no room for negotiation. So that usually wipes out a lot of guys who want to just have fun. I think I know if I put a LOT more effort into dating and really go all in I could maybe find someone who is compatible and shares the same core value that I do. But honestly most of the time I’m just not motivated enough to even try. I agree with everything you said and these are my reasons as well. It’s just that I simply can’t be bothered to go that hard and try to date.
Troll Idle Posted August 6, 2022 Posted August 6, 2022 I used to be single my whole life. Now I have a boyfriend for 6 months and it's cool, but I don't feel better than before. It's an interesting realization since I always thought a boyfriend and the feeling of being loved is everything I need to feel complete.
Alldeezy Posted August 6, 2022 Posted August 6, 2022 When your single that is WHEN you go out every weekend! ive been in long distance relationship for over a year and haven't gone out clubbing or do anything fun for ages because im loyal Like Stay single guys unless you find a guy that will put your first and do anything for you (and they don't exist)
MALAMENTE Posted August 6, 2022 Posted August 6, 2022 A combination of things, but I guess it all boils down to me having social anxiety disorder
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