bocelli Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 Before you come at me with "troll!!!", no Im not trolling. Obesity is extremely unhealthy and by pointing out someone is overweight, we are pushing them to go after a healthier lifestyle. Why is that a bad thing? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kyliefever2002 Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 simple google search https://www.healthline.com/nutrition/fat-shaming-makes-things-worse Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Virgos Groove Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 5 minutes ago, bocelli said: pointing out someone is overweight, we are pushing them to go after a healthier lifestyle Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wish Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 It's called treating people with respect Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Goofy Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trent W Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 (edited) Because bullying is wrong? No one should he bullied for their shape However, encouraging someone to be fat like Lizzo or others do is what’s really wrong. All those viral videos calling morbidly obese people “queen” “slay” etc are encouraging them to harm themselves. One thing is to bully someone and another to recognize that is really a dangerous lifestyle and could ruin/kill someone. Edited July 7, 2022 by Trent W Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Devin Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 Do you think fatshaming is a good thing tf? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fentypark Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 the same reason you wouldn’t like someone calling you a ******… tf? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bocelli Posted July 7, 2022 Author Share Posted July 7, 2022 4 minutes ago, Trent W said: Because bullying is wrong? No one should he bullied for their shape However, encouraging someone to be fat like Lizzo or others do is what’s really wrong. All those viral videos calling morbidly obese people “queen” “slay” etc are encouraging them to harm themselves. One thing is to bully someone and another to recognize that is really a dangerous lifestyle and could ruin/kill someone. Who is talking about bullying people? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
terrorblade Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 cuz it hurts the feelings Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Redstreak Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 Because mind your own business? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
popularmoonlight Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 Y'all come up with the dumbest questions (that just shows you're not smart at all) to try to get a hit thread Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Resquid Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 Most comments are made in bad faith, no matter how much you want try to claim ‘concern’ or ‘real encouragement’. It’s fake. It’s just bullying. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bocelli Posted July 7, 2022 Author Share Posted July 7, 2022 6 minutes ago, popularmoonlight said: Y'all come up with the dumbest questions (that just shows you're not smart at all) to try to get a hit thread What if your family member is extremely overweight - you wouldnt tell them? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beyonceist Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 28 minutes ago, bocelli said: we are pushing them to go after a healthier lifestyle. This is the only type of "pushing" you're talking about Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beyonceist Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 8 minutes ago, popularmoonlight said: Y'all come up with the dumbest questions (that just shows you're not smart at all) to try to get a hit thread Well, welcome to ATRL. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
On The Bound Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 i hate atrl Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Virgos Groove Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 4 minutes ago, bocelli said: What if your family member is extremely overweight - you wouldnt tell them? Do you actually think overweight people don't know they're overweight? If so, let me reiterate my last post: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trent W Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 (edited) 16 minutes ago, bocelli said: Who is talking about bullying people? Calling fat someone and reminding them all the time is bullying them And stop looking for attention with your threads, your intentions are very transparent Edited July 7, 2022 by Trent W Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
applestar Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 generally, fat people are unhappy with their bodies, so fatshaming could be considered kicking someone while they're already down Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kweenofxanax Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 It’s literally in the word “shame”. Why would you wanna partake in a negative act of making people feel bad for how they look. It just really isn’t nice, and telling people something they’re already aware of is a futile effort. It’s universally known that it’s not healthy also some of them could be already working on it and are actually losing weight, so shaming them ruins how they feel about their progress. Just don’t do it, period. Speaking from my own experience (lost 60lb in the past year, 20 more to lose), many of us really have no need for “push” or “encouragement” from outside parties. It has to come from yourself to do the work to get healthy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UnusualBoy Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 Girl, what kind of question is this? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
illia Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 of course it's bocelli Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kevin Parker Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 You’re ******* disgusting Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
May Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 this is a messy thread and im probs about to post a messy post but when i was fat i kinda liked being fatshamed bc it motivated me to lose the weight i don’t speak for everyone tho ofc… or maybe im into humiliation idk . either way Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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