discussion Why do some gays think it's cute to be a sidepiece to a "straight" man?

[Queen of Wembley]

On 6/26/2022 at 2:17 PM, #Beautiful said:

low self esteem

lack of attention

not very intelligent emotionally like most men

self hatred

oh here's the tea

 

[sweetkiss]

how are they straight if they are into men? they are bisexual at least ?

 

[Planet Mars]

46 minutes ago, sweetkiss said:

how are they straight if they are into men? they are bisexual at least ?

 

It's why I put straight in quotes.

[Jynx672]

As a gay man I want affection, love and passionate sex from another man. Straight guys can't give me any of that and more gay men should realise it too.

[Guest]

On 6/26/2022 at 3:33 PM, Sept said:

Well for some people sex is just sex, like physical contact

 

So if he's hot af, does it matter if he's married or single or str8 or gay? 

This

[Mr. Blue_Shirt]

On 6/27/2022 at 4:41 AM, Planet Mars said:

The hit dogs hollering in this thread, some gays are mad because they "can't get them", get who? A bored, married, conservative suburban dad of 4?

 

The complete lack of self awareness, y'all be weak in the knees, STAND UP! 

I- 

 

But honestly though, i love how these gays complain about how gay people are the worst for not being faithful in the relationship while at the same time they hooking up with married men with wife and kids 

 

Just because these men are in a heterosexual relationship, doesn't mean it's right to f*ck them, especially on the down low

 

I just know the karma will hit them HARD nnn

[Katamari]

1 hour ago, Mr. Blue_Shirt said:

I- 

 

But honestly though, i love how these gays complain about how gay people are the worst for not being faithful in the relationship while at the same time they hooking up with married men with wife and kids 

 

Just because these men are in a heterosexual relationship, doesn't mean it's right to f*ck them, especially on the down low

 

I just know the karma will hit them HARD nnn

 

 

Lindsay grahams karma will be inch resting to see

[CaptainMusic]

On 6/27/2022 at 11:54 PM, Blade said:

The thing is we're not out there SEEKING married men. We are seeking men that fit our standards for attraction. Handsome, masculine, etc and these men just HAPPEN to be married more often than not. It's one of those things that comes with the territory. Of course I'd prefer that they weren't. But what am I gonna choose the hot guy I'm attracted to and is attracted to me or the ugly gay who I have zero attraction to?

 

On 6/28/2022 at 5:38 PM, Blade said:

Trash but still getting hotter men than you! Have fun with your bleached hair, limp wrist, high pitched voice gays!

 

On 6/29/2022 at 1:53 AM, Tropez said:

True. A majority of the “masc” guys are into trans women or ultra femme guys. 

Regardless, I use quotes because there aren’t really any masculine gay men. Sorry, just don’t think it’s possible. Even the ones that try have a really high or soft voice. 

 

 

The stupidity on this site continues to amaze me. 

[Tropez]

3 hours ago, CaptainMusic said:

 

 

 

 

The stupidity on this site continues to amaze me. 

No need to use personal insults on an opinion. Please don’t bend the rules. 

[Negev]

Few years back, I hooked up with this hot, older, hung, masc-presenting bottom in my city back home. He invited me to an apartment and said he was babysitting his niece and nephew and that they are sleeping. We had sex in a side room and it was great. Some months after that we met again for a hook up, this time in my house. After we were done and getting dressed, I've asked him about it and he confessed that those were in fact his kids and that he is married to a woman. 

 

I remember feeling very disgusted that I've slept with a married man. His profile was blank and he never mentioned it only after the second time and only because I asked about the children he was "babysitting"... personally I'd never pursue anything with someone who's in a relationship because I don't wanna be the person he cheats on their significant other with. 

 

I'm more mature mentally now so obviously I see that it's problematic to be with married men or people who are in a relationship. It's disrespectful to myself. 

[Damien M]

I do think being attracted to “straight” men is a phase a lot of gay men go through pretty early (at least I did, once upon a time).

 

The thing is that it’s a stage you’re supposed to outgrow. You get therapy, you learn your worth, and set boundaries with people who haven’t done ANY of the thought work themselves (aka closeted men in relationships w/women).

Like…why date/smash someone who’s ashamed of you? 

 

Besides, gay men are typically more attractive, put together/fashion, better careers and hygiene standards than straight men. Most straight men are NOT cute and barely wash their butts-

 

Outside of p0rn this “omgggg straight guys” fetish doesn’t hold up well IRL.

[scenekiller]

On 6/29/2022 at 12:01 AM, Blade said:

masc men sleeping with masc men = no self respect

fem men sleeping with fem men = empowering

 

very weird. 

its funny how my choices aren't viewed differently by my straight friends but the gays really get riled up! must be some rejection issues bubbling up.

It isn’t the masc aspect, it’s the married aspect. 

 

I mean this with total care and sincerity, but your posts in this thread have just been sad. You’ve been spilling whatever trauma you’ve internalized onto every reply and I really hope you either get help or find peace some day. 

[i spit on haters]

On 6/26/2022 at 5:39 PM, Planet Mars said:

Girl bye x 10, we're talking about a married man who probably got a couple kids, unless your talking about photos on your phone then keep dreaming. This man isn't going anywhere with you in public

[DanyelP23]

I might get dragged but...simply put, mental illness. And not the cute kind where you should go and post about it on social media to receive encouraging messages and praises for raising awareness. The nasty kind that studies should be made about, to answer "how the hell did we get here?"

 

[DoubleRainbow!]

That's weird but there are a lot of gays who fantasize with straight men

[ACaseOfBlues]

As a wise woman once said, "Close your legs to married men."