discussion Why do some gays think it's cute to be a sidepiece to a "straight" man?

[Planet Mars]

I've noticed that ALOT of DL men love putting that in their bio on Grindr, they're also really bold in letting you know they have wives/GF's, yet they still successfully get laid on that app because alot of gay men think it's cute...

 

There was one on Twitter yesterday talking about how alot of straight women need to know that their husbands have a f*g on the side, literally bragging about the married "Chad's" he's had, and you can tell he thought he ate 

 

What's cute about being a "straight" man's (and I use that word loosely) sidepiece? He'll never claim you, will continue to act like you don't exist outside of when he wants his d*ck wet, and you're essentially this hole he can go to when he pleases because he knows you lack the self respect to call him out on it...

 

Is it low self esteem? Or just the feeling of having a "straight" man? it's weird.

Edited June 26, 2022 by Planet Mars

[Nano]

It's not degrading if he's a bottom.

[Godontop]

It just depends on the situation ? 

[EtherealCat]

they delude themselves into thinking that they are just so attractive that they can turn straight men 

[P.O.P]

22 minutes ago, Planet Mars said:

 

What's cute about being a "straight" man's (and I use that word loosely) sidepiece? He'll never claim you, will continue to act like you don't exist outside of when he wants his d*ck wet, and you're essentially this hole he can go to when he pleases because he knows you lack the self respect to call him out on it...

The fact that you wrote all of that to be insulting but ATRLers will cream their panties reading that.

 

Married straight people are f*cking on the side like crazy, stop hoping on every opportunity to drag gays.

[Material Girl]

4 minutes ago, EtherealCat said:

they delude themselves into thinking that they are just so attractive that they can turn straight men 

it’s this mixed with being hung up on the idea of a “masculine straight man” 

 

kinda sad

[#Beautiful]

low self esteem

lack of attention

not very intelligent emotionally like most men

self hatred

[Bussea]

they don’t love themselves

[Cain]

A lack of affection and love in their childhood/lives

[dussel_06]

Well they’re there to do the “nasty stuff” like fellatio. Straight men “respects” their wives/gf so much. And oh, they won’t kiss a mouth that has been on their dick. The gays only purpose on this f*cked up misalliance. 

[wehavetostan]

It’s disgusting, degrading, and disrespectful. Some people might desire that though

[OrgVisual]

Well for some people sex is just sex, like physical contact

 

So if he's hot af, does it matter if he's married or single or str8 or gay? 

[~Start The Music]

They smell like ****

[~Start The Music]

Just now, Sept said:

Well for some people sex is just sex, like physical contact

 

So if he's hot af, does it matter if he's married or single or str8 or gay? 

Yes it does you sex obsessed weirdo!

[BOOMBAYAH]

Misogyny. A lot of gay men hate women on the low and this causes them to have absolutely no sympathy when it comes to sleeping with their husbands and father of their children. In the UK there’s this well known sex worker who exclusively makes content with DL “straight” black men and their captions are always like “their girl can’t do it like me”. That’s the extreme cases, but in every day life we know some gays who exhibit casual misogyny (especially stans) who like to tear women down and tell them how to dress, how to behave, judge their makeup, and so on. 

[Planet Mars]

38 minutes ago, P.O.P said:

The fact that you wrote all of that to be insulting but ATRLers will cream their panties reading that.

 

Married straight people are f*cking on the side like crazy, stop hoping on every opportunity to drag gays.

We're not talking about straight people, this was a question proposed by a gay man for other gay men, thanks.

[Planet Mars]

1 minute ago, BOOMBAYAH said:

Misogyny. A lot of gay men hate women on the low and this causes them to have absolutely no sympathy when it comes to sleeping with their husbands and father of their children. In the UK there’s this well known sex worker who exclusively makes content with DL “straight” black men and their captions are always like “their girl can’t do it like me”. That’s the extreme cases, but in every day life we know some gays who exhibit casual misogyny (especially stans) who like to tear women down and tell them how to dress, how to behave, judge their makeup, and so on. 

I notice alot of them put themselves in direct competition with the women in their lives. It's so embarrassing

[Hurem]

56 minutes ago, EtherealCat said:

they delude themselves into thinking that they are just so attractive that they can turn straight men 

End thread.

 

It's literally not deeper than this.

[What_A_Mess]

Gay guys in London are only looking for Instagram followers. Not into real dates, meets etc. Only “straight guys” are into meeting up. I don’t have a choice.

[arceus]

I just love dicks that taste and smell like a married woman's ?

[HANZ94]

It’s Degrading and also kinda cruel knowing that the poor wife doesn’t know anything about this mess you are part of 

the “straight” man is trash for cheating like that and the Gay is also trash for knowing all of that and still doing it 

Edited June 26, 2022 by HANZ94

[Mohit]

A hot straight man is like a forbidden fruit for a gay

[Pop culture]

1 hour ago, Cain said:

A lack of affection and love in their childhood/lives

This

[Robert]

Lack of self-respect.

[ConceptD]

I feel terrible even typing this and owning up to it and it’s embarrassing, and it’s probably some type of trauma induced internalised homophobia but I can’t help it so here goes. I’m attracted to men who come across as just like an everyday straight man. I’m not attracted to feminine gays in the slightest and I’m not sure why because they’re always the nicest, least complicated ones to be in a relationship or just hook up with but I just don’t feel it. A lot of the time if you do want to go for someone who does come off as 100% straight then you have to make peace with the idea of being a side ***** because they normally want to live a normal straight life with a wife and children and it’s a sacrifice. It’s not common to find a straight acting gay who’s willing to walk the walk.