discussion My gym crush is back at the gym.

[Johnny Jacobs]

4 hours ago, JohnWayneHolland said:

So I don't think you guys remember but before ATRL got cleared I made a thread about how my gym crush wasn't coming to my gym anymore and how sad I was  about it (some of you even called me a pervert/weirdo (?) for some reason, even though I wasn't doing anything creepy, I just looked at him from time to time) but today I finally saw him again  at least that confirms that he's not dead, he also got thicker   I was playing it cool but I was screaming inside.

 

I would like to talk to him but I'm too shy to do that, he also has this kinda "serious/tough/highschool jock" vibe that intimidates me  do you guys have any tips? I don't even care if he's straight, I want to at least be his friend  I know I sound desperate and miserable, believe me, I am.

 

Also do you have any gym crushes? I would like to hear about that and if you got to talk to them or even become something more feel free to tell your stories.

Girl he's a normal person not an MPG you can throw a few words don't be shy 

 

You can use the machines right next to him when you can.. Maybe you'll get something from him. 

 

Try using some of the machines next to him the wrong way.. Gym Hotties love correcting people and showing you how it's done. 

[aesthetic bih]

Go talk to him. Say hi or ask him how he's doing after not visiting the gym for long. Get his reaction. If he's nice then pursue being friends with him. If he's rude, then cross him out early on 

[jesus del rey]

Do squats next to him 

[Skins]

8 hours ago, Bloodflowers. said:

Ask him if he likes Lady Gaga

Nnnnnnnnnnnn

[Oxy]

Do you have his insta? Check the mentions of your Gym’s account or location.

 

We need pics.

[lovedaddy]

tell him to Hold My(Your) Hand

 

[Skins]

4 hours ago, Johnny Jacobs said:

Try using some of the machines next to him the wrong way.. Gym Hotties love correcting people and showing you how it's done. 

Wait this is the tea….

[Nazareth]

You need to tell him that you fancy him… Otherwise it won’t be long before you see him with someone else. 

[Aston Martin]

4 hours ago, Johnny Jacobs said:

Try using some of the machines next to him the wrong way.. Gym Hotties love correcting people and showing you how it's done. 

Wait, this is low-key brilliant. You could strike up a casual conversation as he's correcting you.

 

ot: I have horrid social skills so I never actually talk to guys I find attractive, but I wish you luck OP.

[favorite crime]

[Daddy]

Not this again  The plotting in here is hilarious tho.

 

Talk to him and either get rejected or hit the jackpot. I would love for you to get some from your crush but can't stop thinking about your intentions.

 

Friend-zoning yourself before the other guy even knows your name sounds horrible and not good for you. 

[cognitus.]

When he goes showering go next to him also and ask if you can borrow his shampoo 

Edited May 8, 2022 by cognitus.

[RockStarShit101]

I just hate it when us gays don't have the courage to talk to other men. 

 

[JohnWayneHolland]

8 hours ago, Chris said:

Try to be near him more BUT don't make eye contact and let him see you in his peripheral. 

I'll try this, I usually avoid the people I find attractive because I fear I may come across as a stalker or something like that, but maybe it's time to change my strategy, thanks 

 

7 hours ago, Johnny Jacobs said:

Girl he's a normal person not an MPG you can throw a few words don't be shy 

 

You can use the machines right next to him when you can.. Maybe you'll get something from him. 

 

Try using some of the machines next to him the wrong way.. Gym Hotties love correcting people and showing you how it's done. 

I know he's a normal person but he intimidates me  in a good way tho.

Also, not to brag but i do actually have some muscles, nothing crazy but i do look like I exercise regularly, so idk if he would believe that I don't know how to use the machines  I will try to be near him more tho, I think that would be helpful.

 

7 hours ago, aesthetic bih said:

Go talk to him. Say hi or ask him how he's doing after not visiting the gym for long. Get his reaction. If he's nice then pursue being friends with him. If he's rude, then cross him out early on 

But if I tell him this he will know that I noticed him not going to the gym, like if I was in his position and a stranger approached me and told me that, I would feel weird 

 

4 hours ago, boubour said:

when he's working at a machine you could go and get a plate on the machine he's working on, ask him if he needs it with a smile on your face and based on the tone of his response you could make a short convo asking him what he's working on etc. alternatively, you could maybe try to ask him to spot you whilst you're lifting, and maybe you could start talking from there. I'm sure he'd appreciate the fact that you're asking for his help.

 

I had a crush on this dude at my gym but I never got the courage to speak to him there. one night, I was out clubbing in my town and I saw him with his friends, I was outside and we spotted each other, and he actually came to me and we had a quick convo. I'm so bad at things like this so I rushed into asking him if he had a girlfriend and he said that he had one but he had to break up with her recently. From then on I was like err he's probably straight lemme just leave it. but ugh when I tell you this dude wears the tightest booty shorts at the gym 

Yeah, I'll try to interact more in that way, I don't know about the spotting, but asking him if he's using something could work.

Also I don't know many 100% straight guys who wear tight booty shorts, you should try to make a move, he may be bi

 

[JohnWayneHolland]

4 hours ago, jesus del rey said:

Do squats next to him 

Oh you best believe I will

 

 

4 hours ago, Oxy said:

Do you have his insta? Check the mentions of your Gym’s account or location.

 

We need pics.

I have been doing research but so far I haven't found anything, I don't even know his name  but he kinda looks like Tom Holland but buffer and he actually has lips, his ass 

 

4 hours ago, lovedaddy said:

tell him to Hold My(Your) Hand

 

I do want to

 

 

4 hours ago, Mercurio said:

You need to tell him that you fancy him… Otherwise it won’t be long before you see him with someone else. 

I mean, he may not even be gay, and even if he was gay or bi he may not even be into me 

 

3 hours ago, Aston Martin said:

Wait, this is low-key brilliant. You could strike up a casual conversation as he's correcting you.

 

ot: I have horrid social skills so I never actually talk to guys I find attractive, but I wish you luck OP.

Honestly same, thank you 

 

3 hours ago, favorite crime said:

I won't 

 

 

2 hours ago, Daddy said:

Not this again  The plotting in here is hilarious tho.

 

Talk to him and either get rejected or hit the jackpot. I would love for you to get some from your crush but can't stop thinking about your intentions.

 

Friend-zoning yourself before the other guy even knows your name sounds horrible and not good for you. 

I'm just being realistic 

Spoiler

Spoiler

 

 

1 hour ago, cognitus. said:

When he goes showering go next to him also and ask if you can borrow his shampoo 

I think he showers at his house because I have never seen him shower here 

 

1 hour ago, Rocky94 said:

I just hate it when us gays don't have the courage to talk to other men. 

 

I hate it too sis  I'm not really shy around people I'm not attracted to, but if there's one attractive person near me I try to avoid them 

[Nazareth]

Just now, JohnWayneHolland said:

I mean, he may not even be gay, and even if he was gay or bi he may not even be into me 

That’s exactly why you should speak to him. You need to find out as soon as possible, it’s for your own good. If he’s not gay, you can move onto someone else.

[Johnny Jacobs]

1 hour ago, JohnWayneHolland said:

I know he's a normal person but he intimidates me  in a good way tho.

Also, not to brag but i do actually have some muscles, nothing crazy but i do look like I exercise regularly, so idk if he would believe that I don't know how to use the machines  I will try to be near him more tho, I think that would be helpful.

You've nothing to be nervous about. 

 

Just do it.. At your own time.. All good. It's better to try than wonder what if. 

 

It will do wonders to your shyness as well. 

[JohnWayneHolland]

3 hours ago, Mercurio said:

That’s exactly why you should speak to him. You need to find out as soon as possible, it’s for your own good. If he’s not gay, you can move onto someone else.

I can change him 

 

 

2 hours ago, Johnny Jacobs said:

You've nothing to be nervous about. 

 

Just do it.. At your own time.. All good. It's better to try than wonder what if. 

 

It will do wonders to your shyness as well. 

Thanks, I'll try my best 

[Chris]

5 hours ago, JohnWayneHolland said:

I'll try this, I usually avoid the people I find attractive because I fear I may come across as a stalker or something like that, but maybe it's time to change my strategy, thanks

This one usually works though at least for me.

[JohnWayneHolland]

59 minutes ago, Chris said:

This one usually works though at least for me.

I'll give it a shot, thanks 

[RunUpDoneUp]

Gays that keep their mouths closed, swallow no sum. Live with knowing or live in fantasy, your choice.

[JohnWayneHolland]

5 hours ago, RunUpDoneUp said:

Gays that keep their mouths closed, swallow no sum. Live with knowing or live in fantasy, your choice.

Omg  it's true, but damn.

[nhatpb]

do some wrong work out near him, and let's wait if he corrects you or not 

[JohnWayneHolland]

4 hours ago, nhatpb said:

do some wrong work out near him, and let's wait if he corrects you or not 

When he laughs at me and records me to post it online 

[nhatpb]

On 5/9/2022 at 9:00 PM, JohnWayneHolland said:

When he laughs at me and records me to post it online 

lmao that's not what i expect. but if he does that, i think you are allowed to punch at his face