Barovi Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 So last week I went out to a gay club and kept seeing a group of really cute guys. As the night progressed I saw almost all of them making out with girls and i approached one and he said he was straight. It’s not the first time I’ve seen some of them at the gay club so it’s not a one time thing. So do you find it annoying when the straights go to the gay club? Why don’t they go to the straight club? I know I sound bitter but like not ALL the guys I wanted at the GAY club being straight Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MingYouToo Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 the straight men go to gay clubs because straight women flock there bc its 'safer' or 'quirky', we all know how problematic some straight women are with gay men, the 'oh i support gay rights' to 'i need a flamboyant gay bff' pipeline is insanely common. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Happylittlepunk Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 I wonder this too. Also anyone notice more so called “straight” men particularly married men hooking up with gays more now? Or is it just my area? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anomaly Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 A lot of straight men I know just go with their girlfriends to gay clubs to get stronger alcohol and watch drag shows. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brazil Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 Straight men go to gay clubs mainly to hook up with girls who are there with their gay friends, or in some cases like some friends of mine because of the music or because they just end up being pushed there by the rest of the group. I think some clubs have more of a tendency to attract this kind of crowd, I don't really see that as a problem because there are a lot of options of clubs here where I live Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nightingale Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 Because there’s a lot of straight girls there and little competition As long as they’re respectful of gay culture I don’t really care Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
discosean Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 (edited) A lot of the good looking, muscular ones go there because they like to show off their body and get attention because it makes them feel good. But I have seen some that claim they are super straight and by the end of the night they are totally butt naked ******* some twink bareback on the stage. TOTALLY SOBER BTW. Edited May 2, 2022 by discosean Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roman_xxi Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 cuz they gay Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oktober Knight Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 For many reasons... They come with their girlfriends. They like to watch drag shows. They like the music. They like the attention. They are secure enough with their sexuality to mingle with LGBTQ crowd. I see nothing wrong here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 They're secretly gay. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GentleEarthquake Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 because straight men are like cockroaches Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Distantconstellation Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 The same reason why gay people go to straight clubs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BLΔCKP!NK Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 1 hour ago, Oktober Knight said: For many reasons... They come with their girlfriends. They like to watch drag shows. They like the music. They like the attention. They are secure enough with their sexuality to mingle with LGBTQ crowd. I see nothing wrong here. this. it’s hilarious when atrl finds out that straight men can actually be comfortable in lgbtq+ circles without being homophobic and secretly gay I have straight friends that go to gay clubs with me and they have hella fun and will literally even dance with me it’s not that big of a mystery Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oktober Knight Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 Just now, Bussea said: this. it’s hilarious when atrl finds out that straight men can actually be comfortable in lgbtq+ circles without being homophobic and secretly gay I have straight friends that go to gay clubs with me and they have hella fun and will literally even dance with me it’s not that big of a mystery Exactly. My extremely redneck brother in law went to a gay bar with me and my sister and he still claims it was one of the best nights of his life. Imagine hating on people who just to have a good time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GoodGuyGoneGhetto Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 (edited) 1) They come with their Girlfriends. 2) They like to watch Drag shows. 3) They like the variety of music played. 4) They’re comfortable enough to be within a Gay space and enjoy themselves and have Gay friends. Or… 1) They want attention from ‘Gay’ men as a way to boost their self-esteem and uplift their insecurities. 2) They’re not actually “straight” but ‘bisexual’, ‘curious’ and/or ‘on the DL’. Whatever the case, as long as they’re respectful of Gay/LGBT+ culture and not judgemental of it in any way then I don’t see the issue. Life goes on. Edited May 2, 2022 by GoodGuyGoneGhetto Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bowdown Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 1 hour ago, Oktober Knight said: For many reasons... They come with their girlfriends. They like to watch drag shows. They like the music. They like the attention. They are secure enough with their sexuality to mingle with LGBTQ crowd. I see nothing wrong here. 5 minutes ago, Bussea said: this. it’s hilarious when atrl finds out that straight men can actually be comfortable in lgbtq+ circles without being homophobic and secretly gay I have straight friends that go to gay clubs with me and they have hella fun and will literally even dance with me it’s not that big of a mystery Exactly, it's not that serious. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ToMmY Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 Maybe he didn't like you and he pulled the reverse "I'm a lesbian" to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rotunda Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 - A lot of straight girls go to them - They may have gay friends who wanted to go - They may have just wanted to go/see a drag show - They may be Maddy Morphosis - Club may be 18+ and the straight ones may be 21+ - They may like the attention Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thetea Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 i don't know but I kinda don't like it, depending on the people. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Taylucifer Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 it’s annoying lmao they have every other club but they decided to infest our space Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thetea Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 11 minutes ago, Taylucifer said: it’s annoying lmao they have every other club but they decided to infest our space exactly this. some of them go to gay clubs and then get offended and violent when gay men flirt on them. they can come to gay clubs safely, but if gay people go to straight clubs, we're susceptible to all sorts of hatred. it also takes away the ability to freely flirt and dance with anyone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oxy Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 Don’t care about them coming, but the worst is straight women. They are insulting and aggressive, thinking it’s a gay man’s dream to have a girl bff. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bethenny Frankel Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 literally who cares, as long as they're having fun and you're having fun, why does it matter? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pop Life Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 32 minutes ago, Oxy said: Don’t care about them coming, but the worst is straight women. They are insulting and aggressive, thinking it’s a gay man’s dream to have a girl bff. Tbh alot of straight women are socialized to believe that everything men do revolves around them and they don't quite understand that it doesnt apply to gay men. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sourtwink Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 straight girls go to gay clubs to get away from toxic straight men and then the toxic (mostly homophobic) straight men follow, making it an unsafe and uncomfortable place for everyone besides straight women who seek male validation it’s different if queer people or straight women allies bring straight men who are allies too but that’s rarely the case i fear Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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