discussion Gays, at what age do you find happiness?

[Bloodflowers.]

When do gays finally become happy? Or are we depressed our whole lives? Asking for a friend

[PieceByPiece_KC]

I Still Haven't Found What I'm Looking For - U2

[Protocol]

Tops become happy when they hit their early/mid 30s, are in a stable career owning their condo with good income, their bodies have fully filled out and are muscular and hairy, and have an inexhaustible supply of willing bottoms. That lasts until they're in their early 50s at most, when their bodies really start to age.

 

For anyone not in that demographic, there's anti depressants available.

[Jotham]

[smartalek22]

My happiness is as close as a Sky Ferreira album release

[EtherealCat]

never

[Virgos Groove]

20, but I fear it might be temporary.

[Venice B]

Hopefully soon because I'm at my limit is2g

 

[Bloodflowers.]

20 minutes ago, PieceByPiece_KC said:

I Still Haven't Found What I'm Looking For - U2

 

14 minutes ago, Jotham said:

 

Whew these two classics

 

[Bencharmer]

What you ask for isn't pure happiness i'm afraid 

[Bencharmer]

17 minutes ago, Protocol said:

Tops become happy when they hit their early/mid 30s, are in a stable career owning their condo with good income, their bodies have fully filled out and are muscular and hairy, and have an inexhaustible supply of willing bottoms. That lasts until they're in their early 50s at most, when their bodies really start to age.

 

For anyone not in that demographic, there's anti depressants available.

This isn't happiness sis, that's ego satisfaction 

[Protocol]

Just now, Bencharmer said:

This isn't happiness sis, that's ego satisfaction 

I know, it was a tongue in cheek post

 

Find happiness whatever way you can. No one's life is perfect. 

[TheFameCurse]

You don't find it. You shape it. 

 

Ok. By for now, sunshine.

[PMKARDASHIAN]

23 minutes ago, Protocol said:

Tops become happy when they hit their early/mid 30s, are in a stable career owning their condo with good income, their bodies have fully filled out and are muscular and hairy, and have an inexhaustible supply of willing bottoms. That lasts until they're in their early 50s at most, when their bodies really start to age.

 

For anyone not in that demographic, there's anti depressants available.

The first paragraph applies to me but I am far from happy so recommend some anti depressants please 

[diamondsky]

22 minutes ago, Jotham said:

i came here to post this 

[halcyonday]

35 minutes ago, Protocol said:

Tops become happy when they hit their early/mid 30s, are in a stable career owning their condo with good income, their bodies have fully filled out and are muscular and hairy, and have an inexhaustible supply of willing bottoms. That lasts until they're in their early 50s at most, when their bodies really start to age.

 

For anyone not in that demographic, there's anti depressants available.

[postsus]

Late 20s when all insecurities are gone. I’m so ready for my 30s.

 

Edited April 16, 2022 by postsus

[Adam’s Eve]

You don’t

[The Next Day]

I don't think happiness is sth you "find", it's a temporary emotional state. Sadness (or rather the absence of happiness) is necessary to feel happiness or else you wouldn't know how happiness feels in comparison to sadness. There's no stage in life that's purely composed of happiness. There will always be happiness, sadness and a lot of inbetween in our lives. We have no choice but to deal with those changes. So, I would rather ask the question "When did you learn how to cope with your emotions?" cause learning to handle sadness seems very hard while being the best option we have. 

 

 

[Bubble Tea]

Happiness is an emotion - not a permanent state of being. Contentment is the most you could ever hope to be I believe, with flashes of happiness amongst other things as part of your daily life. 

[James_Dean]

You're asking the wrong group of ppl

[Jynx672]

I'm 27 and relatively happy, actually. I got my degree and am working on getting another one, found a well-paid and fulfilling job, was able to move from a small student room to an actual apartment, have a small group of great friends, and am no longer a virgin as of last year. I have my insecurities and things I don't like about myself, but I've given up on thinking I need to change everything about myself to be accepted by others, as people turn out to like me just fine the way I am.

[TheFameCurse]

3 minutes ago, James_Dean said:

You're asking the wrong group of ppl

[byzantium]

For me 23.

[Totami Legend]

I accepted the fact that I can have only little glimpses of happiness during the day long.

 

I’m not meant to be fully happy