Gangsta4alife Posted June 9, 2022 Posted June 9, 2022 The issue with Crystal is she has the mentality that she should be able to speak on her experiences. Without tone policing or having anything she experienced being invalidated. Which does work in a very controlled social media and academic setting. But when you are interacting with individuals with different age groups, ethnicities, races, and mentalities it’s not practical. the other issue with Crystal is that she is not a solution oriented person. She speaks evasively and frequently without taking into account context, and it’s through these conversations does she grasp the meaning of what she feels. So questioning her is almost challenging her or rushing her to a conclusion even if it’s not. It’s really annoying but the group should at this point know how to navigate how she communicates. Lastly, Crystal doesn’t have healthy boundaries because she is attempting to be right and not authentic. So she keeps talking from an angle, and it’s why it comes across so intense and ice Queen ish. Where Kyle goes wrong is that she confuses confrontation for handling conflict. Like she never goes in with an end goal to make whatever crime salvageable to her. So she keeps spinning the drain which leads to longer campaigns than need be. If she just told Sutton and Crystal from the beginning what solution would work best to get back to equal. Then it wouldn’t have dragged the way it did.
G.U.Y. Gaga Posted June 9, 2022 Posted June 9, 2022 1 hour ago, BlueTimberwolf said: Lol, please. Everyone knows what a Rorschach test is, so the fact that Garcelle didn't know shows that she is not as smart as she thinks she is. She's a model, not a scientist. whether or not this is true... you can't be have a storyline about microaggressions and then do one during an argument about microaggressions
ShouldersSideways Posted June 9, 2022 Posted June 9, 2022 37 minutes ago, Gangsta4alife said: Where Kyle goes wrong is that she confuses confrontation for handling conflict. Like she never goes in with an end goal to make whatever crime salvageable to her. So she keeps spinning the drain which leads to longer campaigns than need be. If she just told Sutton and Crystal from the beginning what solution would work best to get back to equal. Then it wouldn’t have dragged the way it did. Oh she knows exactly what she's doing 1 hour ago, Jennifer said: Lol the funniest part about this whole thing is that someone like Crystal never gave a **** about race prior to 2020. Crystal has shared her own experiences witnessing her parents be the victims of racism and the racism she herself faced as a kid and growing up so this is not the take you think it is.
G.U.Y. Gaga Posted June 9, 2022 Posted June 9, 2022 Garcelle was messy for saying what she said to crystal Crystal was messy for her response. that's pretty much it
aahaspider Posted June 9, 2022 Posted June 9, 2022 1 hour ago, MAKSIM said: Crystal also said on WWHL that Sutton is the most power hungry and Garcelle is the biggest gossiper Somebody still so badly wants to be in the FF5.
Lexiel Posted June 9, 2022 Posted June 9, 2022 Apparently what Crystal's holding on Sutton is 'the word Racism is a worse virus than COVID in America'
Khamis Posted June 9, 2022 Posted June 9, 2022 1 hour ago, Gangsta4alife said: The issue with Crystal is she has the mentality that she should be able to speak on her experiences. Without tone policing or having anything she experienced being invalidated. Which does work in a very controlled social media and academic setting. But when you are interacting with individuals with different age groups, ethnicities, races, and mentalities it’s not practical. the other issue with Crystal is that she is not a solution oriented person. She speaks evasively and frequently without taking into account context, and it’s through these conversations does she grasp the meaning of what she feels. So questioning her is almost challenging her or rushing her to a conclusion even if it’s not. It’s really annoying but the group should at this point know how to navigate how she communicates. Lastly, Crystal doesn’t have healthy boundaries because she is attempting to be right and not authentic. So she keeps talking from an angle, and it’s why it comes across so intense and ice Queen ish. Where Kyle goes wrong is that she confuses confrontation for handling conflict. Like she never goes in with an end goal to make whatever crime salvageable to her. So she keeps spinning the drain which leads to longer campaigns than need be. If she just told Sutton and Crystal from the beginning what solution would work best to get back to equal. Then it wouldn’t have dragged the way it did. But that’s the thing…. The bolded is NOT her goal. She doesn’t wish to end conflict unless it involves HER. She can’t stand when people just say “ok your right, I’m sorry. Love you” bc to her “it’s not being honest” she has no interest in mending fences unless it benefits her. her goal is to repeat the same drama over and over without ever really coming to a conclusion or resolution. She’s been in the game too long and knows exactly what she’s doing
Khamis Posted June 9, 2022 Posted June 9, 2022 (edited) 29 minutes ago, Lexiel said: Apparently what Crystal's holding on Sutton is 'the word Racism is a worse virus than COVID in America' Now THAT is pretty dark. Bc one can easily argue how can the word “racism” be worse than ACTUAL RACISM. When the word affects you more than the action, and you equate that to a global pandemic…. Chile. But Crystal doesn’t know her angle and gets so wrapped up on principle and semantics than to just keep it 100. If she said this, she’s in the clear Edited June 9, 2022 by Khamis
Mitsouko Posted June 9, 2022 Posted June 9, 2022 Dark means disturbing, threatening, sinister. What Sutton said was none of those things, in fact it was understandably twee. The opposite of dark. Crystal needs to brush up on her vocabulary methinks. Crystal('s husband) spent over $80,000 USD on a single leather good. As an "investment." I cannot in good conscience take her seriously when she attempts to point out perceived injustices. She may not be out of touch when it comes to anti-Asian racism (she wasn't lying or exaggerating about her personal experience, she's not Dorit) but that doesn't mean she's not out of touch re: inequality in general. She is. You don't 1) spend that 2) then flaunt that 3) in this day and age without being rotten to the core, sorry. Sutton serving Hallmark card sentimentality is not nearly as "dark" as that Hermès handbag.
MAKSIM Posted June 9, 2022 Posted June 9, 2022 41 minutes ago, Lexiel said: Apparently what Crystal's holding on Sutton is 'the word Racism is a worse virus than COVID in America' That was aired in the episode though last season. I recall seeing it and it being discussed and Kyle agreed
MAKSIM Posted June 9, 2022 Posted June 9, 2022 Queensofbravo not posting a single thing on social media about the RHOBH episode this week after hyping up Crystal this whole past week is so transparent
BlackJesus Posted June 9, 2022 Posted June 9, 2022 Crystal just tell us what Sutton said. It’s so annoying when someone says “I won’t repeat what was said, but it was bad”
BlackJesus Posted June 9, 2022 Posted June 9, 2022 I don’t believe Diana is as ditzy as she’s trying to come across as. How could it take 1.5 hours to get from her house in Beverly Hills to Kyle’s house in Encino. I googled the exact addresses and it’s only 15 miles at 35 minutes.
SimpleKindofLife Posted June 9, 2022 Posted June 9, 2022 I’m starting to think Atlanta has run its course. Kenya is just on another level compared to the rest of them, she has absolutely nothing to work with.
BlackJesus Posted June 9, 2022 Posted June 9, 2022 Crystal: “can we move on, go forward” also Crystal: *brings up a conversation from a year ago that she feels hurt her even though they squashed their beef* Crystal really seems like a mean girl. What was her motive?
slw84 Posted June 9, 2022 Posted June 9, 2022 5 hours ago, ShouldersSideways said: They were all so scared to say the word racist but Erika was like nope I’m gonna make sure we associate that word with Sutton tonight Erika is drunk and ready for messy revenge. Erika better not make me like her again
ShouldersSideways Posted June 9, 2022 Posted June 9, 2022 1 hour ago, BlackJesus said: I don’t believe Diana is as ditzy as she’s trying to come across as. How could it take 1.5 hours to get from her house in Beverly Hills to Kyle’s house in Encino. I googled the exact addresses and it’s only 15 miles at 35 minutes. I don't think she was trying to be ditzy in that moment honestly. I think she was probably running late and then got legit lost without her GPS 38 minutes ago, BlackJesus said: Crystal: “can we move on, go forward” also Crystal: *brings up a conversation from a year ago that she feels hurt her even though they squashed their beef* Crystal really seems like a mean girl. What was her motive? I'm not sure if she's a mean girl or if she's just not cut out for this and can't take the pressure. She was really bad on WWHL too and Andy was visibly annoyed with her because she kept clamming up over the simplest questions.
Illyana Frost Posted June 9, 2022 Posted June 9, 2022 (edited) Girls...I don't know who else watches M2M but the trailer for the new season is FINALLY here!! This show ALWAYS serves...I'd recommend it to everyone and Simone's: "I don't **** with you because THIS IS AMERICA!!! AND I GET TO CHOSE WHO I **** WITH." is instantly ICONIC. Edited June 9, 2022 by SRIRACHA
BlackJesus Posted June 9, 2022 Posted June 9, 2022 6 hours ago, ShouldersSideways said: They were all so scared to say the word racist but Erika was like nope I’m gonna make sure we associate that word with Sutton tonight Just like I make sure to associate the words PATHETIC, THIEF, CRIMINAL, LOSER, *****, GOLDDIGGER with Erika
Illyana Frost Posted June 9, 2022 Posted June 9, 2022 Btw, Crystal was a MESS last night on WWHL. Like girl...Sutton, the most power hungry? And then accepting that the "dark" thing was the pool conversation but contradicting herself 5 seconds later. The only part that I liked was when she called Kyle out because she used the word "gaslight" incorrectly.
HausOfGerard Posted June 9, 2022 Posted June 9, 2022 Eva hinted that Jill is the biggest pot-stirrer of the group this season next to Vicki Gunvalson. I'm shaking since Jillsus wasn't in the trailer very much.
MAKSIM Posted June 9, 2022 Posted June 9, 2022 (edited) They should have Dubai on another weekday. I don’t want to watch 2 hours of housewives back to back. RHOBH continues to reign supreme. I’m convinced they will go with a “if it’s not broke, don’t fix it” strategy with casting next season and will keep the current cast with the possibility of demoting Diana or Dorit to a FO or have them off the show. Edited June 9, 2022 by MAKSIM
cypriotpcdfan Posted June 9, 2022 Posted June 9, 2022 So, let me break down that BH dinner party for ya... What Sutton said is in no way problematic. Like, how? She's literally saying a multiracial society is what's right. Crystal initially didn't like Sutton, and Garcelle was absolutely right. She tried to set Sutton up with the 'tell me you're that girl' comment, exactly how she's trying to use THAT comment made by Sutton, to allude that Sutton said something very dark, problematic and possibly racist, to deflect from the fact that she indeed tried to set Sutton up... This is what I don't like, people using the equality movement to excuse themselves. Her only argument is that 'her feelings aren't validated. Like, we just HAVE to accept her feeling a way about what was said.. Which is ridiculous. I'm glad Garcelle told her off. Garcelle truly is the voice of reason. Erika's only storyline being that she looks for ways and comments to try and attack Sutton The new girl has obviously started the beef with Sutton. She's been making these snarky side comments every time Sutton speaks. I get very bad vibes from her. In conclusion...Sutton is the star of the show, alongside Garcelle
cypriotpcdfan Posted June 9, 2022 Posted June 9, 2022 2 hours ago, SRIRACHA said: Girls...I don't know who else watches M2M but the trailer for the new season is FINALLY here!! This show ALWAYS serves...I'd recommend it to everyone and Whitney's: "I don't **** with you because THIS IS AMERICA!!! AND I GET TO CHOSE WHO I **** WITH." is instantly ICONIC. I love M2M, but from this trailer, it looks a bit over-produced :/ Why I really like this show is it managed to stay more raw and organic than other shows. I hope they don't **** this up too
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