discussion Do you believe in vibes shifting?

[PerfectCure]

Hello ATRL. This is my first thread in the lounge.

 

Do you believe in vibes shifting after meeting someone?

 

I feel like a whole new person because I've had a crush for like a month since we met professionally. And this one is sooo much more DIFFERENT than before. We've been talking and talking but I'm so unsure if the feelings are reciprocated and I'm very much afraid of ruining what we have now since we've become friends. But everything's been so different since then. 

 

Has this ever happened to you? This feeling that the whole world was never the same after you met someone? A bit shakier (  ) than usual?

 

Felt like this topic is rarely ever discussed and I'm curious to hear your thoughts.

 

[May]

yes with 90% of guys ive ever met

 

one day u realise its just the cycle 

 

thats why whenever i need to get over a guy/crush i just go on a date w someone else  on to the next one!

[Illuminati]

Slang aside, yes. There's a reason people say you can tell who someone is by who their friends are.

 

I don't feel the same after truly embracing someone because a piece of them, or what we had together, stays with me forever.

 

That being said, it's just a crush, don't build your entire life around this person just yet

Edited 15 hours ago by Illuminati

[gab00]

Yes

 

Who you are is very influenced by who's around you. 100%

[Princess Aurora]

Of course

[єѕℓαм]

Well the complete opposite happened to me recently cos i had a friend with benefits a few years ago that i liked a lot then we stopped meeting for a year and a half but we started meeting again recently and i noticed that i lost every bit of sexual attraction towards him for some reason i just see him as a friend now and he just told me that he wants me to be more than just a friend so i had to let him go

[TaggedGalaxy]

Yes I'm going through this now. I met a guy, we could never be together for multiple reasons however my feelings for him got so intense, this man literally flipped my world upside down and has no idea. Now he's leaving and it's all come crashing down, I'll never be the same after meeting him and I was just another person to him

 

 

[Quasar]

Yeah, but he wasn't really what I thought he was…which is actually fine, because it means I wasn't into him, just the version of him I made up in my head.

 

Also shoutout to my regular uber driver: handsome, sweet, progressive and painfully straight 😭

Edited 12 hours ago by Quasar