The7thStranger Posted Friday at 11:12 AM Posted Friday at 11:12 AM The problem is that she sat down and viewed it, knowing full well that it was major invasion of somebody's privacy. And then throwing her two cents out there without regard for the people involved. Pamela has always been very clear on how she feels that tape being stolen from her, and I have to imagine she doesn't need some inexperienced twenty-year-old know-it-all drudging it up for no reason. That tape was not only a violation, it also severely impacted her career. While it's all good and lovely that Lorde saw beauty in the footage on the tape, she never should have watched it in the first place, and she certainly should have kept her thoughts on it to her damn self. I don't know what happened to Lorde, but she seems to only get more and more immature the older she gets. It's sad to see. 5 2
PopFan Posted Friday at 11:22 AM Posted Friday at 11:22 AM Of course Internet will try to destroy another female artist with the smallest **** they say 1 2 1 10
HausOfPunk Posted Friday at 11:35 AM Posted Friday at 11:35 AM 5 hours ago, Genie in a Bottle said: You know Katy Perry is CELEBRATING right now and is probably so thankful for this She said 1
OreoCookie Posted Friday at 12:00 PM Posted Friday at 12:00 PM She's always been out of touch and bad-mouthed people who have nothing to do with her.
SpaceOddity Posted Friday at 12:14 PM Posted Friday at 12:14 PM I get that she meant no harm but even if you take away the aspect of her accidentally glorifying revenge porn, what she said in itself sounds so pretentious and stupid. I still believe in her though, Virgin is going to slay.
okgo Posted Friday at 12:23 PM Posted Friday at 12:23 PM (edited) this wont have any affect on Lorde (and it shouldn't) and everyone will forget about it soon enough but I do hope she doesn't view it as just another "that friend thats too woke" moment and ppl understand why it's not ok to bring it up (let alone have that "beautiful" take) cuz some the ignorant ass takes I've seen online.... Pam isn't perfect herself (no one is) but this also isn't just about her it affects anyone who might feel like their own privacy/trauma can be overlooked over (unauthorized) silly/trivial public consumption Edited Friday at 12:23 PM by okgo 1
The7thStranger Posted Friday at 01:48 PM Posted Friday at 01:48 PM 2 hours ago, PopFan said: Of course Internet will try to destroy another female artist with the smallest **** they say Says the ATRL user with an avatar designed to ridicule Lana Del Rey. Give me a break. 5 5
ImpressMeMuch Posted Friday at 02:35 PM Posted Friday at 02:35 PM (edited) 5 hours ago, Kayseri Mantisi said: "I remember vividly in that first year of being famous, so many people saying — I'm paraphrasing — 'It's so good you don't take your clothes off like these other sluts,'" she says. "I was up on a pedestal because I wasn't employing the same tools. And I remember being like, 'No, no, I will take my clothes off one day. Be ready.' I've always known that having those qualities ascribed to me so young [meant that] me being more open with my body, with my sexuality, [would] carry real weight and agitate and alienate." I don't understand this... I wish she'd just own that she spoke out against other artists back then (Selena, Taylor, etc) and it taught her a lesson that she now knows. This "I always knew, I was just waiting" doesn't make sense because, why would she have spoken out against them back then if that was the case? Art is inspiring when it demonstrates growth and change, she should just lean into that. Edited Friday at 02:35 PM by ImpressMeMuch 1 2
AvadaKedavra Posted Friday at 03:05 PM Posted Friday at 03:05 PM (edited) I dont mean to be rude but Charli XCX/Taylor Swift rise is one of the best things to happen to the music world and one of the worst too Cause now all the singers are trying the songwriting tryhard poetic stick or goin for the charli xcx one edgy im a rebel stuff im ready for this lorde era but she's definitely better as a classy artist than this unhinged one im honestly scared cause this is lookin like another solar power situation hope the music is good enough to pass over that This pamela thing is definitely a bad look and really **** tone deaf from her but she better stay silent We dont want more attention and headlines goin to the sex tape. The less people watch it the better this sex tape was probably one of my first contacts with porn ever i was like 11 and someone gifted a cd room with this to my dad and i found out while exploring our cd shelves i remember how horrified i was back then cause this was straight porn Edited Friday at 03:14 PM by AvadaKedavra 1
Digitalism Posted Friday at 03:32 PM Posted Friday at 03:32 PM I just know half the people who act enranged here watched it. 1 1 2
bielneira Posted Friday at 03:33 PM Posted Friday at 03:33 PM 15 hours ago, Kimi said: who even remembers pamela in 2025, yet alone a sex tape she did, before entering this thread i didn't even know she had one me lol
Atlantis Posted Friday at 03:34 PM Posted Friday at 03:34 PM She's such a boring tryhard with 0 personality 1
bielneira Posted Friday at 03:37 PM Posted Friday at 03:37 PM 6 hours ago, Carter said: didn't she try to "drag" selena for being too sexy and selling sex back in 2013 and she's doing it now 12 years later. yikes lorde She never did that lmao
thatsmydemi Posted Friday at 03:42 PM Posted Friday at 03:42 PM (edited) It's so interesting how you can easily spot what artist is not really well trained for the media as soon as a new era starts. Some artists may spend years hiding that it doesn't really matter, the moment they return they will say some inappropriate **** and ruin almost everything. Some artists would be better off without doing interviews. Edited Friday at 03:43 PM by thatsmydemi
paperfectdelusion Posted Friday at 04:49 PM Posted Friday at 04:49 PM The quote literally sounds like something Kanye West would say… this is bad 2
$ebert Posted Friday at 04:53 PM Posted Friday at 04:53 PM I'm glad I only listened to her first album, WHY would she say that
Marianah Adkins Posted Friday at 05:38 PM Posted Friday at 05:38 PM No offense but she's always been like this. Her random statements is on-brand for her 1
ImpressMeMuch Posted Friday at 05:40 PM Posted Friday at 05:40 PM 2 hours ago, Rama said: It's getting weird I blame Charli why is it Charli's fault that someone is using her as the blueprint?
Carter Posted yesterday at 07:33 AM Posted yesterday at 07:33 AM 15 hours ago, bielneira said: She never did that lmao yes she did that lmao 1
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