discussion What are some subtle ways to know if someone's gay?

[Dual Lips]

How do you know if someone's gay in a subtle way? Without making it obvious that you're gay.

[GraceRandolph]

Pay attention to their eyes if they are around a hot guy. If they check out men it might be a hint. 

[KahnumDash]

if they walk at the speed of someone being hunted

 

also if they like dicks

Edited 7 hours ago by KahnumDash

[Josh]

who he stans for 

[Princess Aurora]

There's a certain aesthetic that tells the difference between straight, bi, and gay men. There are a few cases where they mix up though 

[PrettyHurts]

Subtly ask them are you gay 

[MidnightsAtPeace]

they sleep with other men 

[Pheromosa]

They have more than 1 post on ATRL 

[Sannie]

If they have an ATRL account.

[HANZ94]

They never thirst for women not even once and when they talk about women you can clearly tell they fake it 

[Everyperfectsummer]

As a wise woman said when you know, you know

[HANZ94]

oops double post 

Edited 6 hours ago by HANZ94

[Zeferino]

1 minute ago, Everyperfectsummer said:

As a wise woman said when you know, you know

Came to post the exact same thing 

[єѕℓαм]

It's all about the eyes pay attention to them

they can tell u a lot abt a person 

[terrorblade]

face/posture

[liam13]

i came here to take notes of how to subtly give out signs that trigger their gaydar and so far, im disappointed 

 

i wanna know too cuz with the way i carry myself, others still ask me when will i marry a wife. 

 

anyway, one way that might tell you about their sexuality (as it happened to me) is that you can offer to find a gf for the guy then immediately offer to find him a bf too, if he doesn't react negatively to that, then you might have a good idea about his sexuality. of course some straight guys can be playful so it doesn't always work.

Edited 6 hours ago by liam13

[pigeon]

I don't have any tips but a friend of mine told me that she understands someone's gay by the way they hold their phones. 

 

[pigeon]

I don't have any tips but a friend of mine told me that she understands someone's gay by the way they hold their phones. 

 

[Dolce Vita]

if they have a tote bag

[Everyperfectsummer]

2 hours ago, Zeferino said:

Came to post the exact same thing 

Great gay minds think alike

[Johnny Jacobs]

2 hours ago, Sannie said:

If they have an ATRL account.

I was told that there are a few heteros here. 

 

[Colmillo]

The way you can't be sure these days  everybody wants the gay aesthetic but nobody wants to suck dicks anymore!!! I see all of these guys with painted nails, crop tops, tote bags and listening to Mitski and Caroline Polachek and then you see them holding hands and kissing girls? What the hell is going on in this world? What happened to the traditional values?

[playboi]

Ask him who's his favorite gay adult movie actor

[Bloodflowers.]

If they talk through their nose

[ReneighIsHere]

if you know his name you just have to find his instagram and look at his following list, if there's too many pop girls or too many shirtless guys.. there's your answer!