discussion Bisexuals! Do you have a "bidar"/bi-fi?

[Doctor Dick]

As a bisexual male, I have been with both men and women. When I was in a relationship with my ex girlfriend I never told her about my orientation. Then after we broke up, I come to find out she came out as bisexual. When I was a kid I had a huge crush on Chloë Grace Moretz and she recently revealed she's in a relationship with a woman. I've had that happen and I think it's micro-expressions and energy a person gives off. With guys, I find lots of men hot and attractive but when I feel they're straight I get turned off. 

 

Do you have a bi-dar/bi-fi? If you're gay, do you have a gay-dar? Tell me your experiences. 

[alexrex]

I have a gaydar...but no, unfortunately I didn't come with a bidar installed 

[May]

sounds like the next iPhone feature

[CBC]

yes, they never shut up about it

[Doctor Dick]

12 minutes ago, CBC said:

yes, they never shut up about it

Do you just feel someone is bi or gay? It doesn't count if they mention it. 

[Doctor Dick]

15 minutes ago, alexrex said:

I have a gaydar...but no, unfortunately I didn't come with a bidar installed 

How does your gaydar work then? Based on macro or micro expressions? Stereo types included. 

Edited 21 hours ago by Doctor Dick

[Illuminati]

I imagine it would be the same as gaydar because in both cases you're looking for signs if they're into men or you, and only then if they're also into women.

 

Not a bisexual myself though,  

Edited 21 hours ago by Illuminati

[cOe]

Chlöe Grace Moretz is actually a lesbian, though, not bi.

I'm mainly gay (slightly bi but not gonna act on it tbh) and I do have a pretty strong bi-dar. I'd describe it as a sort of midpoint between gay and straight vibes. The best guys I've been involved with were bi, you are amazing guys

[Janet]

Bi-Fi    

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[Kevin Parker]

I can have Ariana's brother in front of me that I still won't be able to tell if they're gay or no. Sadly I wasn't born with a gaydar or even bi-fi.

[IBeMe]

As an gay…All I know is bisexuals know how to hit the spot tbh. 

[Doctor Dick]

1 hour ago, cOe said:

I'd describe it as a sort of midpoint between gay and straight vibes. The best guys I've been involved with were bi, you are amazing guys

Would you say it's vibes or energy? I can't explain either exactly, for me it's a vibe. Like, even when they're seen as straight by everyone I'm like "hooooold, on". 

 

People would call me straight as well if I don't tell them, so I guess I recognize ones that are like me, subtle signs here and there but not in your face. 

[Junipero]

I heard a way to detect is if they look or "peek" at both genders?

[Revolution]

yes

[Doctor Dick]

25 minutes ago, Junipero said:

I heard a way to detect is if they look or "peek" at both genders?

Hmm. Do you have an example? Just trying to understand. 

[Doctor Dick]

24 minutes ago, Revolution said:

yes

How successful have you been at spotting them? And what kind of signs did you see? It's quite fascinating. 

[YoungDreamer]

I wish I had one bc honestly I have a crush on a lot of ppl and that would help a lot 

[Mewtroyshka]

I don't have one unfortunately 

[aesthetic bih]

2 hours ago, Kevin Parker said:

I can have Ariana's brother in front of me that I still won't be able to tell if they're gay or no. Sadly I wasn't born with a gaydar or even bi-fi.

Me too! I am absolutely clueless and come out surprised when certain people comes out. Maybe becuz I don't judge people based on gender stereotypes 😅

[Kid A]

Its almost impossible to tell. Maybe bi woman are a bit easier to spot but the men tend to walk the middle line so they don't really come off as overtly gay/straight either way. You cant go by their fashion either bc straight men have also adopted similar styles.

 

The amount of people shocked/thought I was lying when I tell them I go both ways is hilarious 

[JoeAg]

no and I honestly don't like thinking about it too much because then I start getting extremely angry that people always assume that I'm just gay because of my voice and obsession with pop culture. idk i might talk about this later more but i feel very impassioned about this sort of thing and i don't wanna spiral rn 

[Doctor Dick]

2 hours ago, Kid A said:

Its almost impossible to tell. Maybe bi woman are a bit easier to spot but the men tend to walk the middle line so they don't really come off as overtly gay/straight either way. You cant go by their fashion either bc straight men have also adopted similar styles.

 

The amount of people shocked/thought I was lying when I tell them I go both ways is hilarious 

I don't think it's impossible. It's more that you can spot them from things and clues that are similar to yourself. So when you are bi you can also attract bi people because the ones that think and act like you will flock to you. 

[alexrex]

6 hours ago, Doctor Dick said:

How does your gaydar work then? Based on macro or micro expressions? Stereo types included. 

When you know, you know.  

[Dragonfly]

BiFi

[TouchinFree]

Yes my bifi is good. I can spot a muscular hairy manly guy that craves D and loves to get on all fours blindfolded in a dark room tied in the corner with a gag ball in its mouth ... from a mile away. I attract that energy and i sense it as soon as that meaty ass is in the same raduis as me. Think of it as a grindr GPS installed in my system. No ringtone except a vibration in my dick tip that alerts me a dick hungry ***** is 0 metres away. 200 meteres away or 130kms away. 

 

Also i can usually tell when their eye contact/ stare is lower...making eye contact the waist area. I can also tell when a guy is resting his shaft on my back on a busy public train. Or when a delivery driver is on his knees licking my balls at the local truck stop. I guess you get the idea.