discussion I turned 30 today and my body feels like I'm 60. Is getting older hard on you?

[Radical Pessimism]

I spent the night before my birthday rubbing muscle pain relief cream on my back

I can't imagine what I will do when I turn 40 or 50! 

 

 

[MatiRod]

Eat well, sleep, no smoking, minimal drinking, sleep on a good mattress, don't overdo it at the gym, get massages, have good sex, reduce stress, stream The Loveliest Time

[tost1]

Stop being a radical pessimist. I'm 32 and feel like I'm 20, i wonder why...

[Alldeezy]

Yes as soon as I turned 30 I immediately lost my looks and can barely do anything psychical

 

Like I'm pretty much screwed now 

 

I haven't even been laid since I turned 30 like wtf is this bullshit. It's why I refuse to tell people my age and will still go out saying im 25 or 27 

[Harsh2256]

You guys are scaring me to turn 30 wtaf. I got 5 more years and already got problems where I cannot have a*al ever again. 

[Katamari]

Ok lets get you to bed grandpa 

[kellebrity98]

23 minutes ago, Alldeezy said:

Yes as soon as I turned 30 I immediately lost my looks and can barely do anything psychical

 

Like I'm pretty much screwed now 

 

I haven't even been laid since I turned 30 like wtf is this bullshit. It's why I refuse to tell people my age and will still go out saying im 25 or 27 

its time to be a top i fear

[Subzero]

My birthday was yesterday (17th), Happy Birthday! December babies 

 

But same  I feel like a grandpa sometimes, I get sciatica like twice a year and its the worst 

[YourFavoriteWeapon]

I'm only 24 and you're scaring me dd  

[WEEKND]

Yeah I'm 34 and it's not that bad but I 

 

 

- stopped doing drugs 

- stopped drinking

- supplements (fish oil, iron, a bit of collagen cuz I still wanna be able to twerk at the occasional function) 

- I go to the gym but I do just enough so my ass and my chest can look good 

- stopped using uber eats and actually cook ( it's a bunch of IG chefs with easy to follow recipes) 

 

 

those things have helped me transition successfully into my 30s 

[WEEKND]

44 minutes ago, Alldeezy said:

Yes as soon as I turned 30 I immediately lost my looks and can barely do anything psychical

 

Like I'm pretty much screwed now 

 

I haven't even been laid since I turned 30 like wtf is this bullshit. It's why I refuse to tell people my age and will still go out saying im 25 or 27 

what in the world? 
 

 

[IBeMe]

30s seem like a nightmare ....its the first time u can see noticeable aging signs no matter how good looking or in shape you are. I'm dreading it even tho I am still in my early 20s...it just seems like no fun at all. Plus as a twink / femboy ur career literally ends by that point. A nightmare

[getBusy]

It only gets worse from here on so get ready 

[Illuminati]

I've been feeling old since I was 20 and every time I looked back I wished I enjoyed the years before more

 

You're currently the youngest you'll ever be, which is a scary thought but in a way also kinda exciting

[Yawn]

i just need to wake up in the night to pee now 

 

30s is actually prime cause you have money and independence and some(!) are still peaking in hotness 

[katara]

Oh STFU, I am so tired of yall complete IDIOTS spreading the wildelst delusions and misconceptions about age

 

I just started my thirties and it's the most secure and energized I have ever felt

 

Maybe it's a you problem. If you lay off the grease, smoking and/or drugs and go out and do some activity here and there instead maybe you'll feel less like a slop

[Alldeezy]

49 minutes ago, kellebrity98 said:

its time to be a top i fear

im a girl xD idk if top or bottoms is a thing for us 

[sugarysunflower]

no offence, but are you white? 
 

anyways….. no excuses. exhibits A through D. Keep on pushing!! 
 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Edited 2 hours ago by sugarysunflower

[glitch]

There's no reason that you should be feeling old and creaky in your 30s. Please start doing some stretching and exercise. It's super important to keep your muscles active. If you don't use them, your muscles start to atrophy in your 30s. It's mostly a reversible process though, so it's never too late to start. You don't have to be lifting serious weights or anything, just get a couple of dumbbells and follow a few home workouts off youtube a 3 or 4 times a week. You'll fee much better for it. And go for lots of walks

[KillingYourCareer]

2 hours ago, tost1 said:

Stop being a radical pessimist. I'm 32 and feel like I'm 20, i wonder why...

Very well said tostie. While I'm still in my 20s, I do feel a whole decade younger at the moment!  

[Capris Groove]

I feel better physically and look better at 32 than I ever did at 22. I'm much more confident too.

 

- Sunscreen every day

- Tretinoin

- Cleanser every day, moisturizer every day

- Silk pillowcases

- Eat well

- Sleep well

- Exercise (cardio, strength training, and stretching!)

- Positive relationships

[Dolce Vita]

i turn 24 in a few days yall are scaring me

[Dante Silva]

I feel blessed that my maternal shapeshifting presence on Grindr makes me a magnet for 18 yo, 9 inch D. 
 

At the same time, I'm kind of glad my libido has fallen through the floor and I no longer feel compelled to engage in the kind of cruising activities I used to indulge in when I was younger before that stuff switched to online and the running away from police cars in city parks and hiding in bushes at 4am.

 

The memories and flashbacks of being so permanently horny when I was younger are so embarrassing to me now. I am glad to be free of that compulsion.

[Radical Pessimism]

4 minutes ago, glitch said:

There's no reason that you should be feeling old and creaky in your 30s. Please start doing some stretching and exercise. It's super important to keep your muscles active. If you don't use them, your muscles start to atrophy in your 30s. It's mostly a reversible process though, so it's never too late to start. You don't have to be lifting serious weights or anything, just get a couple of dumbbells and follow a few home workouts off youtube a 3 or 4 times a week. You'll fee much better for it. And go for lots of walks

I'm with you but my problem is I had an accident while running on the treadmill back in 2020 and since then both feet haven't been the same.

I try my best to exercise though, but I can't do it for a long time. 

 

[Maneater]

2 hours ago, MatiRod said:

Eat well, sleep, no smoking, minimal drinking, sleep on a good mattress, don't overdo it at the gym, get massages, have good sex, reduce stress, stream The Loveliest Time

I do all of this and still wake up feeling like death