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reading stories like this makes me think that i need more drama in my life

 

i don't have roomies because my parents pay for my whole rent until i finish my masters but i don't want to miss having a roomie, even if they are evil like this, it's an experience you have to live at least once in your lifetime 

 

that being said, only because of your dog's safety, you should move out asap OP. 

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You are not on the lease, you just leave. Don't tell them anything and move out.

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13 minutes ago, shyboi said:

reading stories like this makes me think that i need more drama in my life

 

i don't have roomies because my parents pay for my whole rent until i finish my masters but i don't want to miss having a roomie, even if they are evil like this, it's an experience you have to live at least once in your lifetime 

 

that being said, only because of your dog's safety, you should move out asap OP. 

Said by someone who clearly has never dealt with abusive people. This post is so tone deaf.

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10 hours ago, MasterXPosed said:

Yeah, he rents the house and I have no lease or written agreement. I just know It's getting close to December 1st, and I have not told them yet. But I wanted to be 100 percent In this new apartment, and have It confirmed before I bring It up. But my friends will be here with me If I need help

Hire a moving company to do all the moving for you. This way you're not alone and have witnesses if anything shady happens. Install cameras in your room too as a precaution in case something does happen.

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5 hours ago, Robyn. said:

Without even reading the rest, that was your first mistake.

 

Because why are you moving with people you barely know? It's no joke living with people 24/7, you gotta know in advance if you guys bear with each other on a daily basis.

Sadly was In a desperate situation after a traumatic break up with my ex. I knew him on Instagram for like five years, and we've talked for a while. But he ended up being extremely nasty fast. Have been looking for a place everyday that I can afford that Is roughly the same I'm paying now, or a little more. However thankfully my coworker Is helping, and the place will be seen today

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Girl just run. I wouldn't even go back there to grab my things, I'd just get my dog and then pay for a moving company to pack all my **** and take them to my new apartment. This sounds terrifying and I hope you find a better place because no one deserves to live in this fight or flight mode constantly.

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Leaving to go see my "new place" If all works out! Very excited

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2 hours ago, MasterXPosed said:

Leaving to go see my "new place" If all works out! Very excited

Good luck! These people sound absolutely f**king nuts. As suggested by several others, keep someone else with you cause your flatmates sound horrendous. Not a normal experience by any means 

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