base talk Music recommendations: Self-sabotage/being the bad guy songs

[Dear Reader]

Hello guys! I'm in need of some music recommendations with the theme of ******* a relationship up due to insecurities/self-sabotage. Something along the lines of Anti-Hero or The Bolter by Taylor Swift. 

 

Hit me with anything you have on this theme 

[punisher]

 

[The7thStranger]

[popmusicisdead]

 

[itshyolee]

 

[itshyolee]

But in all seriousness, stream this bop

 

[Dear Reader]

3 minutes ago, itshyolee said:

 

girl i've been going through IT 

 

thanks for the recommendation though 

[itshyolee]

Just now, Dear Reader said:

thanks for the recommendation though 

The therapy or the song? 

[KillingYourCareer]

P!nk - Could've Had Everything

[Dear Reader]

2 minutes ago, itshyolee said:

The therapy or the song? 

I need both 

[itshyolee]

1 minute ago, Dear Reader said:

I need both 

Skskjsjhs but fr I hope you feel better soon sis

[West Coast]

this one is pretty unknown and underground but i think you'll like it 

 

[3R1K]

Basically half of her catalogue is about this topic

[Taylor fanboy]

I Blame Myself - Sky Ferreira

[The7thStranger]

 

[Kiss It Better]

 

 

also this 

 

Edited Monday at 10:00 AM by Kiss It Better

[Dark Miracles]

 

 

[Princess Aurora]

Old but gold

 

[Europe]

Kesha's Dancing With Tears In My Eyes is exactly about this. Look at the lyrics:

I have destroyed our love, it's gone
Payback is sick
It's all my fault

 

When did I become such a hypocrite?
Double life, lies that you caught me in
Trust me, I'm paying for it
With every move, I die

 

And particularly the bridge:

I'm faded, I'm broken inside
I've wasted the love of my life
I'm losin' it (Losin' it, losin' it, losin' it)
With every move, I die

 

I also think that the acoustic performance of Gaga's Marry The Night also speaks to this feeling place in a powerful way, particularly the "kiss the bartender twice, I'm a loser" part:

 

 

[pavi]

This classic 

 

 

[Julia Fox]

 

 

[blastoisebaby]

Maggie Lindemann - Self Sabotage

[CBC]

 

[GraceRandolph]

 

[Dante Silva]

 

 

 

 

 

Edited Monday at 01:30 PM by Dante Silva