discussion do you close your legs to married men?

[Reginald]

Lately, most of the guys hitting on me are bisexual in open relationships. I'm not opposed to that, if their wives are aware.

 

A lot of these guys want to get pounded while their wives watch, though, and that's just doing too much for me.

[Namiskine]

Does that include threesomes with both married men? Because that is by far the best kind 

[Vespertine]

23 minutes ago, Reginald said:

Lately, most of the guys hitting on me are bisexual in open relationships. I'm not opposed to that, if their wives are aware.

 

Ngl I get hit up by guys like this a lot now, but I never believe them when they say it's open   I'd rather be safe than sorry tbh. 

 

Men are LOW DOWN LIARS. 

 

(also, at the risk of sounding ~biphobic~, I find that men like this are usually total limp noodles in bed, think kissing is too intimate etc )

[Illuminati]

It does make me very uncomfortable, but as someone who's mostly interested in older men I'm aware that half of them are married and the other half are lying

[jezebelvictoria]

Why would I care? He's going to cheat whether I say yes or no. I just want D. 

[West Coast]

i don't disciminate 

 

[Lagerfeld]

If I know about it, yes.

[Dolce Vita]

no. when they choke you and you feel the ring press into your neck >>>

[Charmed Life]

I met a married man through work and he was so attractive, I couldn't say no. He basically pursued me until I gave in.

Knew he was married with Children but the temptation was just too much. It only happened once though and hasn't happened with anyone else since.

 

Edit: Forgot to say I was only 19 at the time, and he was 33.

Edited November 4 by Charmed Life

[alexrex]

I don't approach commited men. 

 

Spoiler

But if they approach me and I like them, I don't say no. 

 

Not my fault since they made the move. 

 

Edited November 4 by alexrex

[Reginald]

3 minutes ago, Dolce Vita said:

no. when they choke you and you feel the ring press into your neck >>>

[itshyolee]

Y'all are some damn whores with no shame

 

3 minutes ago, Dolce Vita said:

no. when they choke you and you feel the ring press into your neck >>>

Now…

[Virtuesque]

I'm a trans girl who deals with so much hyper sexualization and fetishization. Marrried/partnered men start to seem like a norm. It gets to a point where you can't say it's just a poor reflection of the married men to cheat. You start to ask yourself why you mess with married men: are you that unloved, deprived, etc. Is this the only source of romance that I can attain?

 

It just perpetuates a narrative that it's okay for these men to cheat and being with a married man is something to boast about. Eventually all that muck starts to build up on your conscience that you can't help but think is this who I am? It's easier to love yourself rather than seek validation in others.

 

TLDR, I know.

[Venice B]

Yes I'd never do to someone something I'd hate if was done to me 

[pigeon]

11 minutes ago, Charmed Life said:

I met a married man through work and he was so attractive, I couldn't say no. He basically pursued me until I gave in.

Knew he was married with Children but the temptation was just too much. It only happened once though and hasn't happened with anyone else since.

 

Edit: Forgot to say I was only 19 at the time, and he was 33.

Babygirl you were groomed

[Charmed Life]

Just now, pigeon said:

Babygirl you were groomed

I didn't think of it like that, but you're probably right.

[SapphireSky]

Idgaf I'm sorry 

[Loca]

Nope 

[BrokenMachine]

I close my legs to single men too 

[Totami Legend]

I am constantly looking for married daddies, knowing they have kids and wife at home makes me feel like a total **** machine I love It I can't help It 

[45seconds]

1 hour ago, Comedor said:

Happened to me once and yes I closed my legs + blocked him.

It is your responsibility to be a decent human being. Don't excuse yourself because you have a kink and is horny.

Oh brother this guy STINKS

 

 

 

[MerveAksak]

The thing is if the third person knows that they are married, it's an awful thing to do for both of them, so I'm not gonna be a part of something like that.
but if they dont know about it because the husband lied about their marital status then it's different, it's husband's fault.

Edited November 4 by MerveAksak

[dumbsparce]

I never understood why entrance shall be blocked for m-worded men, especially when they're the ones making the first move. Their marriage is already over if they wanna **** around.

[Mtjjproducer]

No not my problem. I've hooked up with married men, married women, both spouses at the same time. It's not my marriage not my problem either way. 

[Odette Violet]

I have family members that has been cheated and I have human decency  

Edited November 4 by Odette Violet