discussion Have you ever meet up with a guy and he didn't look like the photos?

[Galaxy]

If yes, what did you do?

[May]

yeah, I just left

 

im lowkey a catfish too tho, I can't help it, I just look infinitely better on photos than irl

[єѕℓαм]

Yeah actually my first bf catfished me but he turned out to be hot so I didn't mind it lmao

[Yossarian]

9 minutes ago, May said:

yeah, I just left

 

im lowkey a catfish too tho, I can't help it, I just look infinitely better on photos than irl

sameeee I look so much better in person

[Domination]

Yes, in one case the face of this person was heavily edited and he looked far more unconventional in person, but in my opinion, better.

 

I tend to go for older guys (50+) when it comes to hookups and they almost always look better in person because they have no clue how to take a good or flattering photo.

[smartalek22]

No but this guy in my town has repeatedly tried to catfish me and every time he debuts a new name and identity and I can always tell cuz of his typing style. He's so so so weird. 

[Pheromosa]

he turned out to be twice as hot. (it was clearly the same person but how do you manage to look better IRL)

lordt we wasted no time when we got back to his place

Edited November 2 by Pheromosa

[Galaxy]

3 minutes ago, Domination said:

I tend to go for older guys (50+) when it comes to hookups and they almost always look better in person because they have no clue how to take a good or flattering photo.

This is so accurate. The way that they're always out of focus, blurry or they're literally a screenshot from their phone

[itshyolee]

1 minute ago, Pheromosa said:

he turned out to be twice as hot.

lordt we wasted no time when we got back to his place

Omg was he that fine for you to buss it open on the first day of meeting up? 

[Spicy Pisces]

10 minutes ago, Galaxy said:

a screenshot from their phone

This screams catfish for me. When you can see the arrows or even Grindr's own UI... 

 

But OT thankfully I haven't, but I did get disappointed a few times after hearing their voice

[Pheromosa]

11 minutes ago, itshyolee said:

Omg was he that fine for you to buss it open on the first day of meeting up? 

No time to waste

[Dancehall Queen]

22 minutes ago, Domination said:

I tend to go for older guys (50+) when it comes to hookups and they almost always look better in person because they have no clue how to take a good or flattering photo.

I like men in their 40s and so many have pictures that are clearly over ten years old. I don't need to see what you looked like before your first marriage  

[visions]

Yes I got d*ckfished once and never trust out of perspective d*ck pics anymore. I'm not a size queen but this went from looking like a 7 to a 3 (hard) and I was shocked n felt like I was mislead. 

 

I still sucked cos I was young and stupid and felt too awkward to tell him to leave my student accommodation 

[Illuminati]

55 minutes ago, May said:

yeah, I just left

 

im lowkey a catfish too tho, I can't help it, I just look infinitely better on photos than irl

I was gonna say it's usually me I know my angles

[americanlife]

Yes. It was from sn*ffies, idk if I ever got a face pic but his body did not look the same in person. He was smelly and was into "hot sweaty play" or something. Smelled like no deodorant on hasn't showered in 5 days. It was bad. I stuck around for a few minutes then left. Thank god I don't do hookups anymore.

[Illuminati]

 

48 minutes ago, Galaxy said:

This is so accurate. The way that they're always out of focus, blurry or they're literally a screenshot from their phone

That's when you know the D is good

[Falsetto]

Not gonna lie, that's what I'm low-key anxious of when I meet someone online. I know what angles I look pretty in but I don't know if that translates accurately into real life when someone sees me

[Princess Aurora]

Luckily not.

[MP3]

I always ask for videos or I-ask-what-to-do-pics

 

The nicest thing is when they are better looking in person, personality change it all too, in a good or bad way

[Chris]

4 hours ago, May said:

I just look infinitely better on photos than irl

Why would you admit this?

 

[May]

22 minutes ago, Chris said:

Why would you admit this?

 

ur inability to openly talk about your shortcomings and reflect on yourself realistically without the need to portray yourself on a pedestal probably stem from extremely deep insecurity. i hope someone one day will be able to love you for who you are and you'll be able to take the stick out of your ass.  otherwise your bones will one day collapse into dust and be carried away with the winds and the memory of your existence will be a mere muffled whisper to the trees. 

[Chris]

3 minutes ago, May said:

ur inability to openly talk about your shortcomings and reflect on yourself realistically without the need to portray yourself on a pedestal probably stem from extremely deep insecurity. i hope someone one day will be able to love you for who you are and you'll be able to take the stick out of your ass.  otherwise your bones will one day collapse into dust and be carried away with the winds and the memory of your existence will be a mere muffled whisper to the trees. 

And I hope one day you can type coherent sentences without sounding like a f*cking dumbass who's just babbling words.

 

[May]

1 minute ago, Chris said:

And I hope one day you can type coherent sentences without sounding like a f*cking dumbass who's just babbling words.

 

and i hope you break your wrist

[qegqeg]

I've only ever gone through with a handful of hook ups and thankfully the pics were always pretty accurate. I know some gays find it annoying, but I would always just ask to talk on Snapchat briefly for verification first  

[John Slayne]

4 hours ago, visions said:

Yes I got d*ckfished once and never trust out of perspective d*ck pics anymore. I'm not a size queen but this went from looking like a 7 to a 3 (hard) and I was shocked n felt like I was mislead. 

 

I still sucked cos I was young and stupid and felt too awkward to tell him to leave my student accommodation 

this happened to me too and the guy was actually fairly handsome and i wouldn't mind a smaller d but the fact that he lied about it... i had to send him home halfway through the hookup lol