PoisonedIvy Posted October 24 Posted October 24 I'm currently in mine and I never want it to end It's been 2 months and I'm as infatuated as I was on day 1 (if not more).
Popular Post tost1 Posted October 24 Popular Post Posted October 24 It's done when I see them naked, so the first date 15
Gladiator Posted October 24 Posted October 24 My longest one was legit like a year. We lasted 6 years. It was my longest relationship. My shortest one was a few months.
LovingDays Posted October 24 Posted October 24 (edited) This is like the 50th update we've gotten about PoisonedIvy's love life But good fro you! Be happy!!!!! Edited October 24 by LovingDays 3
Illuminati Posted October 24 Posted October 24 I've never lived with a partner together, I feel like some distance helps to extend the honeymoon phase for as long as you want
UnusualBoy Posted October 24 Posted October 24 I've heard it goes from 3 months up to 1 year, it varies tho.
May Posted October 24 Posted October 24 like 3 months and then i want to rip their head off for the smallest things i once broke up w a guy bc he would phone me and then ask 'hello???' when i picked up .. like .. you ******* called ME !!! 10 1
itshyolee Posted October 24 Posted October 24 A year me thinks because that's how long it's been for me and I'm still very much infatuated just like I was on the first date 1
byzantium Posted October 24 Posted October 24 In my opinion experience, 3 months to a year. I think I am still in that phase about 9 months in right now and agree that I don't want it to end. 1
ariananext Posted October 24 Posted October 24 I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years, will be 6 in march, feels like the more years go by the more I feel like that, not in a cheesy way, it just gets more and more intimate and overall better than the beginning. 5
PoisonedIvy Posted October 24 Author Posted October 24 17 minutes ago, Gladiator said: My longest one was legit like a year. We lasted 6 years. It was my longest relationship. My shortest one was a few months. I've never even had a relationship last a year, I'm so terrified of the thought of giving YEARS of my life to a relationship that doesn't last for life
PoisonedIvy Posted October 24 Author Posted October 24 16 minutes ago, LovingDays said: This is like the 50th update we've gotten about PoisonedIvy's love life But good fro you! Be happy!!!!! Those other updates were false reports, this is the first glimpse into my real life I have given my little ivies. 1
Arrows Posted October 24 Posted October 24 At first you're in love, which is great and all that, but also sometimes filled with anxiety. But then, you start to just love them instead after a year or two, which is honestly amazing. It's the same feeling as when you love a family member. 5
PoisonedIvy Posted October 24 Author Posted October 24 12 minutes ago, itshyolee said: A year me thinks because that's how long it's been for me and I'm still very much infatuated just like I was on the first date That's what I want happy for u bb 1
PoisonedIvy Posted October 24 Author Posted October 24 13 minutes ago, byzantium said: In my opinion experience, 3 months to a year. I think I am still in that phase about 9 months in right now and agree that I don't want it to end. 11 minutes ago, ariananext said: I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years, will be 6 in march, feels like the more years go by the more I feel like that, not in a cheesy way, it just gets more and more intimate and overall better than the beginning. 6 minutes ago, Arrows said: At first you're in love, which is great and all that, but also sometimes filled with anxiety. But then, you start to just love them instead after a year or two, which is honestly amazing. It's the same feeling as when you love a family member. These are all very heartwarming responses and I appreciate you guys sharing. I'm very optimistic and your input secures that hopefulness I feel. 3
LovingDays Posted October 24 Posted October 24 12 minutes ago, PoisonedIvy said: Those other updates were false reports, this is the first glimpse into my real life I have given my little ivies. We are rooting for you and the other lucky person 1
skwonderfactory Posted October 24 Posted October 24 It depends on the relationship. With my first one, it was about a month; with my second one, it never ended because we were only together for a month; and with my third, I honestly don't think there ever was a honeymoon period for me but for him it was after about 5.5 months when he broke up with me for B.S. reasons that included manipulation and gaslighting, which led me to realize a lot I didn't see about him/us in hindsight afterwards. With my fiancé/the love of my life, things were very different. Of course, we didn't trauma dump on the first date but we were vulnerable to a certain extent from the very beginning, like having beyond surface level conversations about our intentions and what we eventually want, etc. It is truly why I think our relationship is so amazing; we have A+ communication and are able to love and care for each other while understanding limitations and how we feel in general on any particular day. Literally as I am typing this, they texted me: Quote Finally!! Some answers! Some treatment! Can't wait to tell you about it. Love you and miss you my sunshine! ☀️🥰😘💜💜💜💜 because they are currently at a doctors' appointment while I am working from home today. 1
PoisonedIvy Posted October 24 Author Posted October 24 9 minutes ago, skwonderfactory said: It depends on the relationship. With my first one, it was about a month; with my second one, it never ended because we were only together for a month; and with my third, I honestly don't think there ever was a honeymoon period for me but for him it was after about 5.5 months when he broke up with me for B.S. reasons that included manipulation and gaslighting, which led me to realize a lot I didn't see about him/us in hindsight afterwards. With my fiancé/the love of my life, things were very different. Of course, we didn't trauma dump on the first date but we were vulnerable to a certain extent from the very beginning, like having beyond surface level conversations about our intentions and what we eventually want, etc. It is truly why I think our relationship is so amazing; we have A+ communication and are able to love and care for each other while understanding limitations and how we feel in general on any particular day. Literally as I am typing this, they texted me: because they are currently at a doctors' appointment while I am working from home today. Congratulations on your engagement!! I wish you many more happy years together. I'm glad you found a partner to join you on your journey in this life. 1
50thStateofMind Posted October 24 Posted October 24 Btw just because the honeymoon phase ends does NOT mean the relationship is any less fulfilling. The relationships simply evolve over time. You won't need to be with each other 24/7 or need to hang on to each other every second of the day, but the love and commitment deepens 1
Alldeezy Posted October 24 Posted October 24 Normally a month because my relationships either only last a month and yearly long ones were just a huge waste of time because honeymoon period ended 11 months ago
Chainsmoker Posted October 28 Posted October 28 (edited) I've only had one serious relationship and it died immediately after I met his parents. Edited October 28 by Chainsmoker .
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