selena_lavigne Posted September 26 Posted September 26 Almost everybody wants a serious relationship. Not everybody knows what that looks like for them.
JonginBey Posted September 26 Posted September 26 If Devin's age were an issue, you wouldn't have entertained him in the first place. Either commit or backup and stop wasting his time. 1 1
LovingDays Posted September 26 Posted September 26 6 hours ago, PoisonedIvy said: I can save him the embarrassment of showing up alone after hyping me up to all of his friends and coworkers this whole week.. OMG... then you HAVE to show up. At least then he can just say he didn't really like you or you just didn't click to save face
Katamari Posted September 26 Posted September 26 i have some advice but i need to know if you are okay with the possibility of going to prison 1
KahnumDash Posted September 26 Posted September 26 (edited) 3 hours ago, jesus del rey said: Does Devin have an iphone or an android? if he had an android it probably would have exploded and killed him by now, so likely an iphone Edited September 26 by KahnumDash 1
PoisonedIvy Posted September 26 Author Posted September 26 3 hours ago, jesus del rey said: Does Devin have an iphone or an android? iPhone
PoisonedIvy Posted September 26 Author Posted September 26 26 minutes ago, Katamari said: i have some advice but i need to know if you are okay with the possibility of going to prison I need you to share the advice regardless of my answer to this question
PoisonedIvy Posted September 26 Author Posted September 26 5 hours ago, Mr. Peanutbutter said: I'm sorry but I feel like you're the one not wanting to miss out a fun night with friends. Just end it and move on, it's gonna suck for him but at least he won't feel used by you for a quick little night out where he expressed love in front of his friends only to be discarded the next day They're not friends they're strangers, I genuinely wouldn't mind missing it but it seems cold hearted to go back on my word when I already told him I'd go with him. What if I tell him before the event that it will be the last date we go on, so that way he can just introduce me as a friend or someone visiting or something random that softens the blow of my eventual disappearance
jesus del rey Posted September 26 Posted September 26 3 minutes ago, PoisonedIvy said: iPhone Then you know you have to continue Spoiler End this before it gets more messy
Mr. Peanutbutter Posted September 26 Posted September 26 21 minutes ago, PoisonedIvy said: They're not friends they're strangers, I genuinely wouldn't mind missing it but it seems cold hearted to go back on my word when I already told him I'd go with him. What if I tell him before the event that it will be the last date we go on, so that way he can just introduce me as a friend or someone visiting or something random that softens the blow of my eventual disappearance This would be the equivalent of saying "I don't want to be with you but since I pity you I can go on that date if you still want to be with me". Also you both will either have to pretend to be together or you'll probably have to explain to everyone the situation. Girl just end it.
Katamari Posted September 26 Posted September 26 wait i read through everything twice not you having issues with th 19 yr old is this event at a pizza hut or best buy or something idk how old you are but arent you worried you are going to be judged for dating a younger person because they will ask if the age gap is wide to some degree honestly i lowkey think you should just ride it out until he loses interest or something because you might break him u don't
PoisonedIvy Posted September 26 Author Posted September 26 46 minutes ago, Katamari said: wait i read through everything twice not you having issues with th 19 yr old is this event at a pizza hut or best buy or something idk how old you are but arent you worried you are going to be judged for dating a younger person because they will ask if the age gap is wide to some degree honestly i lowkey think you should just ride it out until he loses interest or something because you might break him u don't It's at like an event center, somewhat like Main Event or Dave & Busters if you're familiar with them. Bowling/rock climbing/laser tag type stuff. Im 27, and it's less about the "being judged" for dating someone so young and more so that I know better. When I was 20 I met a guy that was 27 and we dated, but now that I'm 27 I know how vastly different those two ages are and I can't believe someone of that age ever pursued me when I was so young and inexperienced/immature. So there's no way I can genuinely end up on the other side of that spectrum when I know he still has so much of his 20s left to grow and experience. Yeah I don't wanna hurt him by just ending it out of the blue, but like I've said I already told him we LITERALLY cannot be together 1
tost1 Posted September 26 Posted September 26 When do you find the time to date two guys and make the worst threads ever here on a daily basis?
tost1 Posted September 26 Posted September 26 1 hour ago, Katamari said: i have some advice but i need to know if you are okay with the possibility of going to prison Does it include a bakery? 3
PoisonedIvy Posted September 26 Author Posted September 26 (edited) 2 hours ago, tost1 said: When do you find the time to date two guys and make the worst threads ever here on a daily basis? I also have a full time career, the discipline to spend 2 hours in the gym 6 days every single week, and an extremely healthy social life balanced between my friends and family. Not to brag or anything. The answer, though, is that I basically sacrifice sleep. Edited September 26 by PoisonedIvy
PoisonedIvy Posted September 26 Author Posted September 26 4 minutes ago, EtherealCat said: go to the event and end things with him there Oh you're messy I like it, I'm listening
Katamari Posted September 26 Posted September 26 2 hours ago, PoisonedIvy said: It's at like an event center, somewhat like Main Event or Dave & Busters if you're familiar with them. Bowling/rock climbing/laser tag type stuff. Im 27, and it's less about the "being judged" for dating someone so young and more so that I know better. When I was 20 I met a guy that was 27 and we dated, but now that I'm 27 I know how vastly different those two ages are and I can't believe someone of that age ever pursued me when I was so young and inexperienced/immature. So there's no way I can genuinely end up on the other side of that spectrum when I know he still has so much of his 20s left to grow and experience. Yeah I don't wanna hurt him by just ending it out of the blue, but like I've said I already told him we LITERALLY cannot be together dd i thought the event was AT his job that's not too bad i guess maybe he just didn't want to go alone and he plans to break up with you afterwards
Quiqui4eva Posted September 26 Posted September 26 You should never have agreed to attend in the first place At that age, I would definitely be the most embarrassed if I hyped up a guy to all my coworkers/friends just for them to not show up. Appearances are everything, especially at such a vulnerable stage in life. So I would still go but reiterate to him beforehand that he shouldn't expect anything serious to develop. Then wait until the end of the week and break the news that you "found someone new" it'll suck for him, but that way you never led him on and kept your promise
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