Popular Post Darkgalord Posted Tuesday at 11:09 PM Popular Post Share Posted Tuesday at 11:09 PM (edited) I hired this new straight male employee ( I own a bakery) I promised I would keep a professional relationship with him, and guess what? First day we got drunk and I really don't know what the hell happened but he woke up in my bed. ( I guess I went to his bedroom and told him to go to my bedroom, a mess! ) I barely remembered what happened but I think I gave him a bj. When we woke up I was still drunk and asked if he wanted another bj. He rejected me and told me he was straight and that in rare occasions he was into trans only) I apologized to him and he told me everything was okay. I FEEL EMBARRASSED. I FEEL LIKE A CRIMINAL. Do I deserve to go to jail? Edited Tuesday at 11:10 PM by Darkgalord 1 23 11 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ATRL Administrator Popular Post Ryan Posted Tuesday at 11:13 PM ATRL Administrator Popular Post Share Posted Tuesday at 11:13 PM Yes you should. 97 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matchatea Posted Tuesday at 11:14 PM Share Posted Tuesday at 11:14 PM 4 minutes ago, Darkgalord said: I hired this new straight male employee ( I own a bakery) I promised I would keep a professional relationship with him, and guess what? First day we got drunk and I really don't know what the hell happened but he woke up in my bed. ( I guess I went to his bedroom and told him to go to my bedroom, a mess! ) I barely remembered what happened but I think I gave him a bj. When we woke up I was still drunk and asked if he wanted another bj. He rejected me and told me he was straight and that in rare occasions he was into trans only) I apologized to him and he told me everything was okay. I FEEL EMBARRASSED. I FEEL LIKE A CRIMINAL. Do I deserve to go to jail? sorry hide other comment bc I didn't read the whole thing and just saw the employee thing…. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post dumbsparce Posted Tuesday at 11:14 PM Popular Post Share Posted Tuesday at 11:14 PM Who are you trying to fool by saying you feel bad? 1 19 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matchatea Posted Tuesday at 11:16 PM Share Posted Tuesday at 11:16 PM 5 minutes ago, Darkgalord said: I hired this new straight male employee ( I own a bakery) I promised I would keep a professional relationship with him, and guess what? First day we got drunk and I really don't know what the hell happened but he woke up in my bed. ( I guess I went to his bedroom and told him to go to my bedroom, a mess! ) I barely remembered what happened but I think I gave him a bj. When we woke up I was still drunk and asked if he wanted another bj. He rejected me and told me he was straight and that in rare occasions he was into trans only) I apologized to him and he told me everything was okay. I FEEL EMBARRASSED. I FEEL LIKE A CRIMINAL. Do I deserve to go to jail? I'm confused on why was he at your house? How did it get to the point that on the FIRST day ur straight employee is in ur bed… sorry bestie but this is a mess since ur the boss and could avoid it…. 4 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DockDock Posted Tuesday at 11:17 PM Share Posted Tuesday at 11:17 PM nah u were drunk, its okay, you tried tho but stay professional sis 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digitalism Posted Tuesday at 11:17 PM Share Posted Tuesday at 11:17 PM I hate the gaslighting straights 6 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katamari Posted Tuesday at 11:18 PM Share Posted Tuesday at 11:18 PM That escalated quickly yall live together too? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matchatea Posted Tuesday at 11:18 PM Share Posted Tuesday at 11:18 PM The most jarring thing is that you are there boss and it's the first day…. Sorry I'm just shook how did it get so messy 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darkgalord Posted Tuesday at 11:18 PM Author Share Posted Tuesday at 11:18 PM Just now, Matchatea said: I'm confused on why was he at your house? How did it get to the point that on the FIRST day ur straight employee is in ur bed… sorry bestie but this is a mess since ur the boss and could avoid it…. I own a bakery and there are three rooms for employees to stay. We were tired after a tough day at work and went to buy alcohol. Huge mistake! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post aotearoa Posted Tuesday at 11:20 PM Popular Post Share Posted Tuesday at 11:20 PM 10 minutes ago, Darkgalord said: straight male employee 11 minutes ago, Darkgalord said: asked if he wanted another bj 29 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darkgalord Posted Tuesday at 11:20 PM Author Share Posted Tuesday at 11:20 PM Just now, Katamari said: That escalated quickly yall live together too? It's a tough job that requires waking up extremely early, therefore I have rooms to stay. It's my home as well at the same time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Matchatea Posted Tuesday at 11:20 PM Popular Post Share Posted Tuesday at 11:20 PM Just now, Darkgalord said: I own a bakery and there are three rooms for employees to stay. We were tired after a tough day at work and went to buy alcohol. Huge mistake! WHY DO YOU HAVE A BAKERY INN?!?! WHY ARE EMPLOYEES STAYING AT NIGHT?!?! WHAT KIND OF CULT ARE YOU RUNNING BESTIE!"?!? 1 47 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MP3 Posted Tuesday at 11:21 PM Share Posted Tuesday at 11:21 PM (edited) It looks like sexual agression to me but hey it's none of my business Spoiler bakery business Edited Tuesday at 11:42 PM by MP3 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darkgalord Posted Tuesday at 11:21 PM Author Share Posted Tuesday at 11:21 PM Just now, Matchatea said: WHY DO YOU HAVE A BAKERY INN?!?! WHY ARE EMPLOYEES STAYING AT NIGHT?!?! WHAT KIND OF CULT ARE YOU RUNNING BESTIE!"?!? Girl this is normal in my flop country. 11 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
єѕℓαм Posted Tuesday at 11:22 PM Share Posted Tuesday at 11:22 PM It's the fact that u offered him another bj like wtf yup you should feel embarrassed 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DockDock Posted Tuesday at 11:22 PM Share Posted Tuesday at 11:22 PM its common to have "room" for ur workers there to stay? i want to apply. 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TouchinFree Posted Tuesday at 11:22 PM Share Posted Tuesday at 11:22 PM Don't think too much, these things happen when you're drunk. Just stay casual and try and overlook it. Especially at work. Keep it professional from now on ( unless he wants to stay for drinks and get drunk again , then go for it if you like). Straight guys do the weirdest things when drunk. That's their safe space. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darkgalord Posted Tuesday at 11:23 PM Author Share Posted Tuesday at 11:23 PM 3 minutes ago, Matchatea said: The most jarring thing is that you are there boss and it's the first day…. Sorry I'm just shook how did it get so messy I know. I have ruined everything and can't fire him because I fear that he could go to the police. You never know. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orsay Posted Tuesday at 11:23 PM Share Posted Tuesday at 11:23 PM Girl if he said it's fine it's fine… I get how that's embarrassing but it's one of those things that's best to pretend it never happened! You are probably thinking about it more than him lol 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darkgalord Posted Tuesday at 11:24 PM Author Share Posted Tuesday at 11:24 PM 1 minute ago, TouchinFree said: Don't think too much, these things happen when you're drunk. Just stay casual and try and overlook it. Especially at work. Keep it professional from now on ( unless he wants to stay for drinks and get drunk again , then go for it if you like). Straight guys do the weirdest things when drunk. That's their safe space. Thank you. I'm trying to stay calm. We were both drunk and I'm sure I didn't force him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Odette Violet Posted Tuesday at 11:24 PM Share Posted Tuesday at 11:24 PM not in a bakery of all places 14 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matchatea Posted Tuesday at 11:28 PM Share Posted Tuesday at 11:28 PM 2 minutes ago, Darkgalord said: I know. I have ruined everything and can't fire him because I fear that he could go to the police. You never know. I would start causal like others said tbh. Ur not gonna do it again and learned ur lesson 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post mons†er Posted Tuesday at 11:28 PM Popular Post Share Posted Tuesday at 11:28 PM Talk about unprofessional. And you messed with a straight man at that. And you're the owner? Oh babe, you're down real bad. Learn some boundaries please. 14 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoldierofLove Posted Tuesday at 11:28 PM Share Posted Tuesday at 11:28 PM It's giving 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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