discussion Does that matter to you who your future partner stan?

[kellebrity98]

so i just ran into this man… and who tf cares who the other person listen to like it's so not important

[glitch]

He's just some bottom who's looking for a stereotypical "masc" top and doesn't want someone who might ruin his ideal of a manly man.

 

I'm laughing at "political right/left" though. You've got to pick one boo...

[RideOrDie]

i would never take a man who's 30 years old and has that for a bio seriously

 

[no_better]

Vegan a red flag??? This guy is a misogynist masc4masc, good luck babe to him finding a fulfilling connection

 

On a different note, I always told myself that I don't want to date a Lana stan and now I have a boyfriend who's got 14k Lana scrobbles on last.fm 

I guess there's a tunnel under ocean blvd…

[Alaska.]

All those requirements for a gay man who can't drive and seems to not have any sort of critical thinking 

[Taylor fanboy]

Kubi Alex welcome to your tape.

[MonsterNavy]

no, my ex wasn't even into pop music/culture at all dd 

 

but being a BTS fan is really where I only draw the line ew

[Alldeezy]

not really if he respects Allday & The Ready Set. we will get along. 

 

but all my exes were metalheads while I was into pop so

[TheVelvetRope]

I had an ex who was a notorious OGH and would always harshly drag me and make fun of me for listening to Gags, so maybe it is important to some 

[Johnny Jacobs]

My boyfriend isn't a stan. He has straight guys taste in music (Eminem and co.) and he hated Lana.  

 

I would never judge a guy/girl based on stanning, but in some cases certain fanbases has certain personality traits, so it will depend. 

 

 

Edited September 17 by Johnny Jacobs

[Kiss It Better]

not really but BTS stan is a red flag and if they hate who i hate that would be a bonus point/green flag 

[freshoutthebuffet]

Age says 30 but the arm is giving late 40s 

[Gelato]

well I would like to have kids so it's important my future wife isn't a swiftie as i don't wish for her music to be playing in the family home

[ChooseyLover]

Being vegan is the greenest flag possible but okay lol

[Mickie]

I prefer R&B, and my partner is a huge pop and Swift stan, we've been together for nearly 4 years and counting. This bio is such a red flag I'd immediately hit block. 

 

/to clarify - it's not like our discourse revolves around music 24/7 because, we have different, more important topics to talk about, too. 

Edited September 17 by Mickie

[Princess Aurora]

It depends 

[chaklux]

Only if you stan problematic people like R Kelly, Dr Luke, Andrew Tate, etc. I wouldn't be so comfortable with a Donald Trump or Elon Musk Stan either

[Klein]

If "stan wars" isn't reserved for online kiki, then it is a big no for me. I don't care at all if you are a huuuuge fan of someone, please enjoy your passions, but if you start "dragging" someone else for their music taste irl then get out. 

[Dolce Vita]

imagine being 30 years old and having a bio like that chile 

[tost1]

Who's reading the bio with thoae veiny forearms 

[Mr. Peanutbutter]

1 hour ago, freshoutthebuffet said:

Age says 30 but the arm is giving late 40s 

And bio giving 15

[Smarticle]

I just pray not all daddies are stanning Madonna 

[AshleyLovescats887]

I mean..if they don't stream Halsey's fifth album 'The Great Impersonator', then why should I spend my life with them? Like..it's 'The End' for us then.

 

(Honestly idc who streams who in the real world)

[KatyPrismSpirit]

They CANT stan Lana Del Rey!

[Selegend]

No, my bf is lovatic… maybe the only one standing outside of ATRL  and we have no problems about it at all 

 

this tinder bio is embarassing lmao