discussion Is it justified that straight men think gays are lusting over them?

[fememeist]

Be honest

[Cesar]

any gay guy who actively chase after straight men are weird af, and need to see a therapist

 

the minute a man tells me he's straight, i'm going to respect it

[Princess Aurora]

No, I find it gross. 

[RideOrDie]

well yes, have you seen any atrl thread about a hot straight guy? 

[Kavish]

No. Straight men who assume gay men will lust over them are just uncomfortable at the idea of it happening, and it stems from homophobia. Just like straight men aren't lusting over all women, they shouldn't be expecting gay men to lust over all men.

[ChooseyLover]

I mean, we're attracted to men, period. Being attracted to someone and pursuing that someone are two different things. Some people are very impulsive, pushy and unable to respect boundaries, those are the cringy ones. I can have all the fantasies I want in my head and keep them there.

[Alyssa Edwards]

[magazine]

Yes!

[Spicy Pisces]

11 minutes ago, Kavish said:

No. Straight men who assume gay men will lust over them are just uncomfortable at the idea of it happening, and it stems from homophobia. Just like straight men aren't lusting over all women, they shouldn't be expecting gay men to lust over all men.

This. Straight men keep saying "I'm okay with men being gay, as long as they leave me alone" 🚩

[Taylor fanboy]

Obviously illogical to generalize.

[Malkuth]

Sometimes yes. It happens quite a lot, I've seen it when gays are drinking around hot straight guys especially.

 

I've even seen straight men lusting (or at least being very flirtatious) towards other men quite a lot when drinking too.

[BOOMBAYAH]

They fear that gay men will treat them the way they treat straight women they find attractive—with harassment, dehumanization, and obsession. They're projecting their own behavior onto gay men. It's ironic because 99% of the time, gay men are smart enough not to even try it with a straight man because we know how dangerous they can be.

[Slap]

There is a subsection of gays with low self esteem that list over straight men who haven't washed their ass since 2011 and dress like they're homeless. It's so annoying when straight men assume you're into them especially the extremely MID ones, I've had quite a few fuggos think I'm into them and it's like honey sexuality does not define STANDARDS. 

[EtherealCat]

you are on atrl you already know the answer

[jrd30121994]

40 minutes ago, BOOMBAYAH said:

They fear that gay men will treat them the way they treat straight women they find attractive—with harassment, dehumanization, and obsession. They're projecting their own behavior onto gay men. It's ironic because 99% of the time, gay men are smart enough not to even try it with a straight man because we know how dangerous they can be.

100% pure tea.

[Solaria]

1 hour ago, ChooseyLover said:

I mean, we're attracted to men, period. Being attracted to someone and pursuing that someone are two different things. Some people are very impulsive, pushy and unable to respect boundaries, those are the cringy ones. I can have all the fantasies I want in my head and keep them there.

This part especially. There is nothing wrong with fantasizing. But acting on them when you know someone's isn't into men (or when they are in a relationship) is cringy asf and disrespectful

[Kristie Kuwa]

Most gays feel attracted to masc gays, thats just a fact. And while there are some masc gays, obviously the sheer amount of very masc men can be found in straight men.

 

And obviously theres a whole industry dedicated to the idea of converting straight men

[Maneater]

I don't pursue straight men but if one of them messages me because they're curious I will happily have sex with them 

[shyboi]

what about the other way around tho, if they lust after you, are they really straight? or bisexual even if they don't admit it 

[Bloodflowers.]

Gays would need to stop lusting after straights first

[єѕℓαм]

3 hours ago, Cesar said:

any gay guy who actively chase after straight men are weird af, and need to see a therapist

 

the minute a man tells me he's straight, i'm going to respect it

Period

[Rev8]

No?

There are loads of straight men on the planet..

most of them aren't even good looking, so why would gays lust over them?

Ofc gays will lust over good looking men (or of their taste) in general, but there is a small percentage that go after straights Specifically.

[Digitalism]

I know people say it's because homophobia but I think it's because a lot straight men lust for most women constantly and they think gay men will be the same.

So if the straight man is a super horny dude, he will probably think gay men are the same.

[JO1s]

If they're a member of this forum maybe, I've seen a lot of ya'll lust after any straight passing guy with a pulse.

[MasterExpose]

Edit: thinking about it now. No y'all phaguettes lust over any hot guy doesn't matter if they are gay, bi or straight because you are born this way baby.

But can't deny a lot suddenly lose interest on someone when they come out as gay.

Edited September 1 by MasterExpose