OnlyManInTheWorld Posted August 21 Posted August 21 I recently chatted to some random guy for like 2 hours and it all started with both of us agreeing Chappel Roan deserves to slay. Unfortunately he left after I got wasted 2
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mons†er Posted August 21 Posted August 21 Since you don't have experience I say go with a girlfriend for support as well as someone for safety. Easiest way to strike up a conversation with someone is to give a genuine and honest compliment. Not everyone will react the same that's why I say make sure it's a genuine compliment. This way YOU can walk away knowing you were being kind in the interaction. This will help the conversation flow easily since you both will have something in common. 1
Trash Posted August 21 Posted August 21 Just a vibe and if you notice someone staring, a nice smile and nod in acknowledgement would work, then wait a little and if they keep staring you can approach them and start a conversation, small talk whatever, if they approach you first it's even easier to follow their lead. If you need any generic conversation tip you could use some like these. "I hadn't seen you around, Is it your first time here? Are you having a good time?" I'm usually a pretty god wingman, whenever I go out I help my friends put themselves out there, even my straight girlie picks up bi men or curious gays at the bars she goes with me 2
Dante Silva Posted August 21 Posted August 21 If there is something going on in the Bar I'd comment on that first. If not I'd say "How is your day going?"/ "What do you think of Madonna's surgery?" or if you're in the U.S. "What's your favorite Kylie song?" .. 2
PoisonedIvy Posted August 21 Posted August 21 For me I didn't know how to talk to people either, but I got a side job at a gay bar when I was 21 and started getting spoken to or even flirted with pretty much every day by multiple different guys. It was a nice ego boost that gave -me- the confidence to go into any bar and speak to anyone. Now I feel like I could pretty much infiltrate any group. It just takes confidence, and that comes with time and practice. Approach everyone, and don't let "failures" get you down, because they are the building blocks of success. For every failed conversation, you work your way closer to many successful friendships.
Princess Aurora Posted August 21 Posted August 21 It depends on the role. Since I'm more effeminate, I just stare at them and then pretend to ignore them and let them approach to me like I did once. 1
VerdantHue Posted August 21 Posted August 21 I think complimenting someone's outfit or how good they smell is a simple yet effective. Maybe ask what they are drinking or if they want to take a shot with you for fun. Don't forget to smile. 2
tjspy Posted August 21 Posted August 21 1 hour ago, Dante Silva said: If there is something going on in the Bar I'd comment on that first. If not I'd say "How is your day going?"/ "What do you think of Madonna's surgery?" or if you're in the U.S. "What's your favorite Kylie song?" .. "Get Outta My Way" 3
Pendulum Posted August 21 Posted August 21 that's a privilege reserved only for the conventionally attractive people 2
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