discussion Dating people larger than you

[dussel_06]

If you're not attracted to him, then there's no point of building something. I had a situationship before where the guy told me to go to the gym. I got really insecure and actually did work out. I lost weight and toned my body. I ghosted him after. Like, don't date someone who will make you feel bad about yourself.

[dumbsparce]

You don't have to say anything, especially if that one date was the last time you had any contact with him.

[Khal]

2 hours ago, Weld_E said:

Does he have a fat ass? If so hit it then quit it.

I guess it's due to how the fat is stored, but fat people rarely ever have juicy asses in my experience

[MasterExpose]

No fatties allowed in this household but I'd nicely decline any future dates by just disappearing. That weight gain could be caused by poor mental state too and I ain't got time to drag someone out of depression or maybe not but not gonna try my luck. 

[Joyride]

11 minutes ago, Khal said:

I guess it's due to how the fat is stored, but fat people rarely ever have juicy asses in my experience

correct, most fat people are built like a triangle.

[Princess Aurora]

God yes, especially If they look like bears or If they're just thick. I know they like skinny legends like me 

[Kimi]

you said you're not superficial but my god you actually are, like you're obsessed  you clearly shouldn't be dating him and you don't need to explain to him either. but why are you so weird about him gaining weight. 

[LoveInStereo]

The other guy dodged a bullet. If your mindset doesn't change, just being real, get used to being alone. Like draws to like. You're not gonna meet a good man who wants to make an honest commitment with this type of attitude

[DawnAnti]

3 hours ago, Wonbin said:

Yes, but I feel like several have turned him down due to his weight gain, and not providing a genuine reason might come across  as mean. He was once extremely handsome, similar to how Taylor Lautner and Robert Kardashian looked before they gained weight  

I understand this but i wouldn't want someone to date me out of pity and feeling bad or sorry and i don't want someone to force themselves to make me feel good about myself cause sooner or later it will "explode" cause from the start the relationship doesn't have a good foundation but to be honest maybe it will work who knows we can't generalise , maybe being with him will make him gain confident and flourish and he will start working out and gaining his shape back so at the end follow both your heart and your reason 

[Distantconstellation]

1 hour ago, Dante Silva said:

Your boomerang has not yet returned I see.

Karma is as real as Bible stories. If u wanna believe in it fine but don't expect people to take it seriously. 

[DoItHonestly]

Give me his number.

[Dante Silva]

1 hour ago, Distantconstellation said:

Karma is as real as Bible stories. If u wanna believe in it fine but don't expect people to take it seriously. 

You know what life has in store for you? You'd be the first human ever who does.

[stars]

If you were fat and someone said they wouldn't date you because of it, would you be offended? If so, then maybe you shouldn't say that. 

[Sad Beautiful Tragic]

17 minutes ago, stars said:

If you were fat and someone said they wouldn't date you because of it, would you be offended? If so, then maybe you shouldn't say that. 

It depends, some fat people love being fat/ might be okay with being fat? I think their image would be the last of their problems, especially if they're successful/ wealthy. So I don't know.

 

[UnusualBoy]

Just tell him that there was no connection or something like that, be gentle and move on since it's clear that you're not interested on him, at least not physically.