Breathe On Moi Posted July 22 Posted July 22 hm? had an amazing date with this great guy, marine that I've known since 2019, have hooked up with plenty of times, trying to go about it the right way and actually dating, and it was just so perfect Friday night…drinks, arcade, smoked tons, talked tons, ended up at beach at 2am watching lightning show, did everything but sex to much of both our dismay. days later I feel sad, can't stop thinking about it, and want more, but don't want to come off clingy and trying to overplan, and pushy. do you feel like that ever? is it a gay thing? will Kamala win? 2
alexrex Posted July 22 Posted July 22 It's normal You got a boost of dopamine, so you're dealing with the aftermath. Give it a few days and when you feel relaxed text back again 1
glitch Posted July 22 Posted July 22 Just message him girl! We get so in our heads about not being too pushy, leaving the perfect amount of time to respond and trying to play it cool. I think we do it to give us the illusion of control; if we follow the correct formula it will work out. Unfortunately, we have no way of influencing how the other person will respond and all these games do nothing but cause us more anxiety. If he's into you, he's not thinking about any of that, he'll just be happy to hear you also enjoyed the date and want to see him again. 2 2
theweekend Posted July 22 Posted July 22 normal. because you're feeling in love and all you want to do it to be with him good luck and hope you don't get your heart broken because it feels y'all been in touch for a long time.
KillingYourCareer Posted July 22 Posted July 22 It never hurts to try! If you want to see him again, ask him at the risk of sounding clingy. Maybe he feels the same!
Batsy Armada Posted July 22 Posted July 22 Yes, because I know that it still probably won't go anywhere. Which, it never does. At this point I'm just happy to enjoy the moment for what it is.
єѕℓαм Posted July 22 Posted July 22 Maybe when i was younger but now i have good control over my emotions and i just enjoy the moment
Breathe On Moi Posted July 22 Author Posted July 22 4 hours ago, alexrex said: It's normal You got a boost of dopamine, so you're dealing with the aftermath. Give it a few days and when you feel relaxed text back again 4 hours ago, glitch said: Just message him girl! We get so in our heads about not being too pushy, leaving the perfect amount of time to respond and trying to play it cool. I think we do it to give us the illusion of control; if we follow the correct formula it will work out. Unfortunately, we have no way of influencing how the other person will respond and all these games do nothing but cause us more anxiety. If he's into you, he's not thinking about any of that, he'll just be happy to hear you also enjoyed the date and want to see him again. 4 hours ago, theweekend said: normal. because you're feeling in love and all you want to do it to be with him good luck and hope you don't get your heart broken because it feels y'all been in touch for a long time. 3 hours ago, KillingYourCareer said: It never hurts to try! If you want to see him again, ask him at the risk of sounding clingy. Maybe he feels the same! (you guys are so sweet, thank you for entertaining my idiocy and embarrassing sad self lol.) but- I texted him on Sunday that I wanted to see him again lol my body was buzzing. I couldn't wait. He told me he feels the same and that i need to let him know when I'm free so we can, he basically had to take the weekend off just to. So like yes, clearly I should know he's interested, but i just feel like we aren't talking enough. I wanna talk to that damn man all ******* day, like alllllllllll day! but it's not like that. he's even told me in the past years ago that he's not the texting type, or stay on the phone type. I try to remind myself, but I still can't help but to feel crazy. Idk how you guys do it. 1
Breathe On Moi Posted July 22 Author Posted July 22 4 hours ago, .Odyssey. said: No, because no one will go on a date with me stop! I bet you never ask, probably waiting for someone to, like girl no.
Breathe On Moi Posted July 22 Author Posted July 22 3 hours ago, Batsy Armada said: Yes, because I know that it still probably won't go anywhere. Which, it never does. At this point I'm just happy to enjoy the moment for what it is.
ThousandMiles Posted July 22 Posted July 22 Just message him. The worst that could happen is he ghosts you but at least then you'll know if he's interested or not and you can move on to someone who actually wants to spend time with you. 1
Breathe On Moi Posted July 23 Author Posted July 23 6 hours ago, єѕℓαм said: Maybe when i was younger but now i have good control over my emotions and i just enjoy the moment can I ask whether you're single or in a relationship?
Alldeezy Posted July 23 Posted July 23 I had a cute date on saturday and he flew back to tassie but I'm not sad tbh but if its with someone you love deeply for .. yeah I do but havent had that feeling in a long time
єѕℓαм Posted July 23 Posted July 23 2 hours ago, Breathe On Moi said: can I ask whether you're single or in a relationship? Single for two years now
Onyxmage Posted July 23 Posted July 23 I read this as ended up banging at beach at 2am watching lightning show. 1
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