discussion Do you use Grindr?

[katara]

Not anymore. Deleted this year.

 

Barely had any luck there anyway since it's filled with uglies, flakes and bored ghosters. Even those who want to meet up do it for drugs or fast anon sex. As a romantic into cuddles and love making kind of gal I just never got anything from it.

 

Now I only have Tinder and looking for a relationship again. 

[Cain]

Yes, I haven't been on it for a few weeks but it's great if you want spontaneous sex

 

I'm mostly looking to date but sometimes you have one of those days/nights

[Suilen]

Is that a kitchen appliance? I don't drink coffee.

[itshyolee]

1 hour ago, Lil' Oz said:

Omg, this is so true. Everywhere I look there's a guy checking me out.

So real. Like why use an app when I already have everything I need in that locker room

[Twilish]

Yes even though i live in the suburbs and see the same 5 people on it. I also seem to only attract bottom twinks and old men which is not necessarily my type so it ends up being more frustrating if anything. Live to far from the bar/lack the social skills unless I'm wasted to make that happen so i don't have many options 

 

 

[єѕℓαм]

Yes ofc it's been a lot of fun for me since i'm not really looking for anything serious and i met some nice guys tbh

[katara]

14 minutes ago, itshyolee said:

So real. Like why use an app when I already have everything I need in that locker room

So how do you instigate? Where does the action happen?

 

I def see some guys staring sometimes but I am way too afraid of being wrong and then getting hate-crimed 

[Venice B]

Yes, but only when I really want to have sex and uninstall right after I get what I want. Otherwise I just jack off and go to sleep.

 

Last week I hooked up with a guy from grinder and is2g it was the best sex I had in my whole life. Made him come three times and literally put him to sleep. I never felt this powerful 

[CottageHore]

No because I don't hate myself anymore and I mean that 

[itshyolee]

26 minutes ago, katara said:

So how do you instigate? Where does the action happen?

 

I def see some guys staring sometimes but I am way too afraid of being wrong and then getting hate-crimed 

I have the same fear so I don't ever approach any guys, even if I think they're really fine.
 

They just kinda come to me, which lets me know that they're interested too I'm not gonna have to defend myself lol so I guess it's really based on luck.

[Bloodflowers.]

I use it when I am bored but only to find a relationship, never used it for hookups but I also never found a relationship  I did went to a coffee with few guys who were normal and also seeked relationship but we simply didn't match 

[ThousandMiles]

yes when i'm h*rny

 

I usually message people for a few hours.. Pretend i'm gonna meet up with them when I know I'm not.. *** to my senses in my room alone and realise how disgusting the app is..  Hate myself.. delete the app and ghost everyone i spoke to. 

 

The cycle repeats maybe once every fortnight. 

[Namie-Knowles]

The people in this thread who manipulate people via ghosting/flaking and contribute to the culture they complain about all the time acting like victims. 

 

Y'all are demonic and I hope that you wake up with a massive hemorrhoid. 

Edited July 17 by Namie-Knowles

[Nico Robin]

I only use it when Im horny

 

[Kiel D-01]

I used it very briefly when I was single but instantly regretted so I guess the answer is not really. no.

[YourFavoriteWeapon]

It's so boring and tiring now that you have to pay premium to see profiles past a certain distance or profiles with specific tags. Recon and Sniffies >>>>

[jakeisphat]

It honestly feels dangerous. The amount of profiles I have seen that allude to meth/other drugs being used...