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Don't think you'll get a better job or a better salary just by learning more things in school without having a job. Working experience is more important and more rewarding.

 

Don't hide your true feelings. Let them if know you love them. Let them if know you don't like them. Let all the people around you know how you really feel about them.

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Don't go to university, the debt is not worth it and a lot of industries don't even care for degrees anymore:rip: 

 

Don't waste so much time in your 20's dedicated to making your boyfriend(s) happy and make sure to prioritise more of that time with your own friendships & (especially parents :heart2:

 

 

 

 

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Don't worry so much what people think of you because the vast majority of people just aren't thinking of you at all. Realized this a couple years ago and it's so freeing. 

Passed on wearing what I wanted and doing things like acting for fear of looking silly for much of my life because of this.

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12 hours ago, Princess Aurora said:

Getting a stem degree instead of a humanities one

If only we all got the brains and mathematical/logical understanding for that... :monkey:

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13 hours ago, KatyPrismSpirit said:

i dont know honestly. maybe in the past i wouldve handled some situations more maturely and not be too sentitive. i dont really have education related regrets.

You should have especially when you stan Katy Perry 

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I have no regrets thank god BUT if i continued my life like last year, i would have a lot of regrets. 
 

i'm very grateful god gave it in my heart and made me take those risks :heart:

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50 minutes ago, TheVelvetRope said:

If only we all got the brains and mathematical/logical understanding for that... :monkey:

I should have taught math and algebra myself just like I did with English, Art History, Geography, and Literature tbh :gaycat1:

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My life is so full of **** I don't know where to begin. I'm still learning. But, here's one:

 

Don't show your affection if there are red flags. 

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13 hours ago, Mandalay said:

My life is so full of **** I don't know where to begin. I'm still learning. But, here's one:

 

Don't show your affection if there are red flags. 

THIS ONE

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13 hours ago, Mandalay said:

My life is so full of **** I don't know where to begin. I'm still learning. But, here's one:

 

Don't show your affection if there are red flags. 

Are you talking about romantic affection? Or are you talking about friends too?

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16 hours ago, Homebrand said:

Don't go to university, the debt is not worth it and a lot of industries don't even care for degrees anymore:rip: 

 

Don't waste so much time in your 20's dedicated to making your boyfriend(s) happy and make sure to prioritise more of that time with your own friendships & (especially parents :heart2:

 

 

 

 

this generation is full of debts lol

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not giving **** for people's opinions and validation

 

that it's okay to be alone and single

 

Sticker, ning,

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1 hour ago, Strawberry Bubble said:

Are you talking about romantic affection? Or are you talking about friends too?

Both. I'm sick of it.

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let my birthed symptom dictates my lifestyle too much that isolates other interests instead of embrace it and blend with society. gradually starting over and i realizes that so much to catchup on.

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i have rot and worms for brains. im unlearning lessons i fear

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That I can't do everything myself and that it's okay to ask for help and support. I wouldn't say I was "too late" in learning that, but it would have definitely changed the course of my life within the last several years. Now, as I regain stability over various areas in my life, things have been really great.

 

Also, I should have been more focused on building and forming friendships as opposed to looking for a relationship. I let many people go that would have been a good friend, maybe, because I wasn't focused on what they were offering—friendship. I think I killed good things from forming before they even had a chance to. In some regards, as it stands, that is something I did learn "too late." Or, perhaps, it's something I learned right when I needed to for whomever may come my way in the possible near future.

 

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Life is the most random **** and thats ok i guess :giraffe:

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Setting boundaries and saying no is a good thing. I'm still trying to learn that one, actually.

 

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Trust nobody, take your secrets to the grave b*itch

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you shouldn't waste your energy worrying about what other people think of you :heart:

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5 hours ago, Bacardo Royale said:

Trust nobody, take your secrets to the grave b*itch

I trusted the wrong person in my job... So, yeah, this one lol

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4 minutes ago, Strawberry Bubble said:

I trusted the wrong person in my job... So, yeah, this one lol

I'm intrigued... what happened? 

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Just now, Saintlor said:

I'm intrigued... what happened? 

 I actually don't want to talk about it, I'm sorry sis :chick3:. But everything is better now lol

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6 minutes ago, Saintlor said:

I'm intrigued... what happened? 

Okay, I'll tell you one part lol. I told someone that I didn't like my boss making homophobic jokes and mocking me for being gay. The gossip got back to him, and he didn't like it at all. It was BAD for me lol. But yeah, everything is better now.

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People aren't thinking of you as much as you think or want 

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1 minute ago, Strawberry Bubble said:

Okay, I'll tell you one part lol. I told someone that I didn't like my boss making homophobic jokes and mocking me for being gay. The gossip got back to him, and he didn't like it at all. It was BAD for me lol. But yeah, everything is better now.

Thanks for sharing sis :heart2:

 

I've learned all too well that you cannot tell anyone things that offend you, it's always more trouble than it's worth unfortunately :weeps:

 

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