MoonGoodandHappy Posted May 2 Share Posted May 2 (edited) For those who don't know what i'm talking about : So, if i didnt gave news about what happened after, it's because I was too ashamed.... it's simply because my boyfriend didn't give me a car... so far you're going to tell me nothing to make a drama out of it... but what happened next made me cold. My boyfriend offered me some adult toys. I was so disgusted, we've only been a couple for a few months and for my first anniversary with him, he offers me this... Honestly it disgusted me... But even worse... He admitted to me that he liked bdsm.... I mean I don't judge him but i'm not THAT open minded. And now I'm disgusted by him, SO much so that I wonder if I won't move away from him. I am really disgusted. Am I a drama queen for this or am I right ?? Edited May 2 by MoonGoodandHappy 9 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Gorjesspazze9 Posted May 2 Popular Post Share Posted May 2 Def Drama Queen 24 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Virgos Groove Posted May 2 Popular Post Share Posted May 2 If you're not gonna use them, can you ship them to me? 23 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post glitch Posted May 2 Popular Post Share Posted May 2 So you thought he was getting you a car and it turned out to be some handcuffs and a butt plug 56 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MoonGoodandHappy Posted May 2 Author Share Posted May 2 Just now, glitch said: So you thought he was getting you a car and it turned out to be some handcuffs and a butt plug Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lana Banana Posted May 2 Share Posted May 2 Sex toys are fun. Calm down. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HASHTAGPOW Posted May 2 Share Posted May 2 This is disgusting. Stream Radical Optimism. 1 12 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mandalore Posted May 2 Share Posted May 2 That's a wild thing to get someone if 1) they haven't hinted or asked for it 2) you use it as an opportunity to figure if they're even into that sort of stuff The fact that you thought it was a car is just... I'm sorry OP, it's giving sitcom 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VeniceBeach Posted May 2 Share Posted May 2 Girl pick a struggle 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ImpressMeMuch Posted May 2 Share Posted May 2 break up and move on lol, clearly not a match Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Josh Posted May 2 Share Posted May 2 You just wanted to show off 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoldierofLove Posted May 2 Share Posted May 2 So you didn't get a car 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoulKiwi Posted May 2 Share Posted May 2 (edited) Diabolical, off with his *****! Edited May 2 by SoulKiwi Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MP3 Posted May 2 Share Posted May 2 (edited) I agree that for a first birthday gift it's s3x toys it's kinda weird unless you are in that kind of relation, but from the way you write you were expecting something more engaging and thought about It says a lot about that person tho and the way he sees your relation Edited May 2 by MP3 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peacok Posted May 2 Share Posted May 2 Ok i just read the other thread, shouldn't you be relieved that he didn't get you a car? He probably just wants to have more fun in bed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dolce Vita Posted May 2 Share Posted May 2 bby you're SO right, like wtf…it's getting weird you need to call him out Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
loveisdead9582 Posted May 2 Share Posted May 2 Drama queen. How the **** did it go from a car to a butt plug? The sex toys might be a hint that he wants to spice things up in the bedroom but based on what you've said… the two of you don't seem to be compatible with one another. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skestina Posted May 2 Share Posted May 2 LMAOOO girll Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
May Posted May 2 Share Posted May 2 no offence girl but weird energy attracts weird energy 1 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Redstreak Posted May 2 Share Posted May 2 Honestly I think a car would have been a worse gift this quick into the relationship Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vixen Eyes Posted May 2 Share Posted May 2 (edited) gurl if sex toys disgust you, then why have sex in the first place? idgi and youre in a relationship, how is that inappropriate? edit - send him my way, ill happily accept them Edited May 2 by Vixen Eyes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Saintlor Posted May 2 Share Posted May 2 (edited) I mean just log out of ATRL, shove them up yourself and STFU Edited May 2 by Saintlor 2 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sweetblindness Posted May 2 Share Posted May 2 (edited) There's a lot about the relationship we don't know, so I can't comment on the appropriateness of the gift. I don't disagree with the poster who said that it could say a lot about how the guy views you. But if you're both sexually active or discussed getting/using sex toys before I don't think it's that weird. I'd argue it is if it just came entirely out of nowhere though. If you think you two are that incompatible sexually, I'd urge you to consider moving on. Sexual compatibility is an important part of a healthy relationship, and while you could compromise in the short term, I think that would be more detrimental than helpful in the long term. With that being said, life is too short to not try BDSM at least once. You might like it… Also, how tf did we go from a car to this…girl be serious… Edited May 2 by sweetblindness Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fruity Posted May 2 Share Posted May 2 16 minutes ago, ImpressMeMuch said: break up and move on lol, clearly not a match This lol I wouldn't say that's a weird gift for most couples with a healthy sex life but if you think it is… then he clearly doesn't understand you or there is some serious miscommunication going on Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ImpressMeMuch Posted May 2 Share Posted May 2 I'm losing my mind that you expected a car and got a dildo - iconic Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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