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Did anyone in your family know you were LGBTQ+ before you did?


Josh

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Before you discovered it yourself did anyone close to know you were gay or bi before you came out? sometimes its always the parents who know before you do

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I didn't necessarily came out, they knew it already. blessed to have a very accepting family :alexz3:

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Probably. I mean I was begging for Britney albums at 4. They probably knew. 
 

I'm pretty sure most parents or close family know before the child does. Kids don't really have a sense of feminine/masculine rules until they're older around 7-8 I think.

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Just my gay uncle but we hated each other & are polar opposites, so I didn't confide in him but still he always knew and even suggested it to my mom who asked me (obv I said no at the time) just to prove he was wrong, until I came out years after :dies:

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I dressed up in my mother's dress and acted like i was maleficent or the evil witch from snow white, i knew their dialogues word by word, they knew

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I asked my mother this exact same question and she said she didn't even think about the subject and that she wasn't really concerned or cared about that

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I dont think so :gayoncecat2:

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Yes and there was no need to come out :-* I guess I was lucky

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My parents were oblivious, but I could tell my aunt knew by the way she looked at me

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My sister probably, but I knew pretty early on too

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My mum knew but my dad and my brother didn't 

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i knew i was a 🚬 since kindergarten so

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No.  I did such a good job of hiding it.  Nobody suspected a thing.

 

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I was the last one to find out I was gay.

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I feel they did but were in denial lol

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I don't remember not knowing (I was 4 and already tried to kiss boys in kindergarden).

But I also don't remember my mom not knowing it, even tho she never accepted it and still refuses to believe it till today.

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My father after I ---- him

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oh i was super naive, so didnt even really sus myself out completely till i  was nearing/ in my early twenties. no idea what my family thought/thinks but everyone at school knew i guess since i was called homo or fxggxt everyday

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Probably my entire nuclear family. They always know or suspect. Good thing I threw in a twist and turned out to be bisexual! In a sense I got them good. 

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Yes, but nobody spoke of it or made it an issue because I wasn't ready.

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When my parents say I'd dance in front of the TV any time a Shakira, Xtina or Gwen Stefani came on, it became self explanatory

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I feel like mothers always know but some turn a blind eye and others would see it as clear as day and wait till you're ready but either way they always know

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