discussion How to tell sugar daddy I want more without sounding like a gold digger?

[Oktober Knight]

Wait, you kept dating him and having sex with him and didn't get anything in return? And you had to ask to be taken out to dinner? 

 

Block him. 

[Bacardo Royale]

1 hour ago, Oktober Knight said:

Wait, you kept dating him and having sex with him and didn't get anything in return? And you had to ask to be taken out to dinner? 

 

Block him. 

Yeah he asked for sex again yesterday I just ghosted him

[Into The Void]

I'm confused on what YOU actually want from him?

[Bacardo Royale]

1 hour ago, Into The Void said:

I'm confused on what YOU actually want from him?

Money mainly

 

[shyboi]

you are being to slow and short sighted sis, also you are not having an abundance mindset

[Bacardo Royale]

Just now, shyboi said:

you are being to slow and short sighted sis, also you are not having an abundance mindset

can you give me some tips then?

 

[Sun]

I got myself into a sugar situation a couple months ago and I was like yaaas finally my way out! But he wasn't that attractive (not ugly ugly but also.. short) and literally required more attention than any person I've ever come across and it drove me batshit crazy. I was bored and wanted to test the waters so I made a quick sob story and asked him for some financial support to see how he'd react and he said he'd send me $200. Meanwhile this man is a multimillionaire. I said $200?! Bye sis! I was like girl this is not worth it idk how these other girls do it 

[Dante Silva]

In transactional sexual relationships it is essential to receive the pre-negotiated reward for whatever you have agreed to do prior to the other person ejaculating (they will make every excuse in the book not to stick to pre-agreed terms otherwise).

[Redstreak]

Do any of you even like sex/men or is everything just an avenue for how to make money doing very little

[Bacardo Royale]

50 minutes ago, Sun said:

I got myself into a sugar situation a couple months ago and I was like yaaas finally my way out! But he wasn't that attractive (not ugly ugly but also.. short) and literally required more attention than any person I've ever come across and it drove me batshit crazy. I was bored and wanted to test the waters so I made a quick sob story and asked him for some financial support to see how he'd react and he said he'd send me $200. Meanwhile this man is a multimillionaire. I said $200?! Bye sis! I was like girl this is not worth it idk how these other girls do it 

My guy said he was giving his ex an allowance of $1000 per month, idk if that's worth sacrificing my freedom for either plus having sex with his onion breath ass every night. 

[Sun]

5 minutes ago, Bacardo Royale said:

My guy said he was giving his ex an allowance of $1000 per month, idk if that's worth sacrificing my freedom for either plus having sex with his onion breath ass every night. 

Yeah no hunny $1k ain't gonna cut it, lmao. 
This man was telling me he wants to marry me after knowing me for two days and was only willing to send $200?! A multimillionaire with properties in Florida?! Byeeee

 

I'd need enough to compensate the mental sanity I'd be put through being in a situation like that and then some 😂

[Bacardo Royale]

10 minutes ago, Sun said:

Yeah no hunny $1k ain't gonna cut it, lmao. 
This man was telling me he wants to marry me after knowing me for two days and was only willing to send $200?! A multimillionaire with properties in Florida?! Byeeee

 

I'd need enough to compensate the mental sanity I'd be put through being in a situation like that and then some 😂

 

Ok but was he elderly and did he have any kids? Cuz the only way this would benefit if us if they put us in that will 

 

[Sun]

26 minutes ago, Bacardo Royale said:

 

Ok but was he elderly and did he have any kids? Cuz the only way this would benefit if us if they put us in that will 

 

No, he was 52, 5'7 and had no kids. Talk about a greedy bastard

 

[MatiRod]

Always make your own money if you can. Do not put yourself in the position of entirely depending on another man. Trust me.

 

If he does give you some, invest it. Don't blow it on designer clothing. 

Edited April 24 by MatiRod

[MatiRod]

1 hour ago, Redstreak said:

Do any of you even like sex/men or is everything just an avenue for how to make money doing very little

I don't judge. Not everyone has a middle class family they can fall back on, a corporate career, savings, good mental and physical health that allow them to work etc.

[Redstreak]

1 minute ago, MatiRod said:

I don't judge. Not everyone has a middle class family they can fall back on, a corporate career, savings, good mental and physical health that allow them to work etc.

? Not sure what one has to do with the other

[Phaunzie]

 

So you don't want to be seen as a gold digger, but only want that man for his money? Gurl what?

Edited April 24 by Phaunzie

[Maroonx]

install a pole in the bedroom and perform x 

[BrokenMachine]

On 4/22/2024 at 4:16 AM, Bacardo Royale said:

Is he just using me? 

Yes